With a Little Help From My Friends by Weezilou

With a Little Help From My Friends

Not ready to venture out as "a single", I asked my best girlfriends to share a group hug with me tonight. That's Judee on the left (with whom we play Monday night Scrabble) and Helen in the center and me on the right. We'd just had dinner at Helen's for the evening.

The three of us have been "near" neighbors for 37 years, members of the same college sorority, shared birthdays, annual Christmas parties, weddings, funerals, child rearing, weekends, ski trips, house boating vacations, river rafting, highs, lows, laughs and tears.

Last summer the two of them flew up to Nova Scotia to visit us. As we went many places, sightseeing, we'd walk off in different directions sometimes, taking in all the sights. On one afternoon in Bedeck, Cape Breton, Ken was heard to say, "Keeping you all rounded up is like herding cats!" The name stuck.

Introducing Ken's three cats :-)

This gave me goosebumps! I have such friends as these and they are such precious gifts. You all look so happy.
April 13th, 2010  
OH! HI Judee! :-)

I love this picture so much, Louise!
How very special, to have shared so many life moments with your dear friends.
How lovely that you could share your Nova Scotia home with them.
Love Ken's comment, and your collective name! Meow! ;-)
April 13th, 2010  
I want to have friends of 37 years. Even one would be priceless. What a wonderful moment captured! Love it. And Louise, of course I thought it was your squirrel shot. You become the animal charmer.... second only to Jodie of course. ; ]
April 13th, 2010  
What a beautiful photo and wonderful sentiment - gave me a warm glow!
April 13th, 2010  
Louise what an amazingly wonderful photo and story. I'm with Jojo, I want to have friends like that, you're very blessed :)
April 13th, 2010  
That looks like a great "herd" - such a happy photograph.
April 13th, 2010  
Awwww, Louise. So precious. Kindred spirits. Life is so much richer when you have them.
April 13th, 2010  
What a lovely photo. The love just oozes out. I have a reunion planned in July with two girlfriends. We met at 17 and all turn 60 this year so are meeting for a few days of celebrations in Melbourne.
April 13th, 2010  
Friends that stick with you through thick and thin are the best to have and you three lovely ladies look so happy.
two of my best friends i know for more than 50 years are both living in the US one in california and the other in new jersey. a third one lucky for me lives very close by and we see each other once a week. i stay in contact with the two who immegrated from canada to the united states per phone and nowadays by skype. friends as will agree are so precious.
April 13th, 2010  
oh, louise, how lovely the three of you are! i have also been meaning to say that i really like your new profile picture.
April 13th, 2010  
Sounds like two wonderful friendships!
April 13th, 2010  
This photo just brightened my day!
April 13th, 2010  
wonderful! it's our gal-pals that get us through it all!
April 13th, 2010  
awww i want a cuddle from u all too !!!!!!!!! love thats u all have been through so much together , so sweet !! BFF !!

thanx for ur sweet words on my selfie yesty , not a big fan of them any more lol but very flattered u even faved it wow !!!
ur so wonderful !!!
April 13th, 2010  
Ira
That's such a lovely pic! =)
April 13th, 2010  
hmmm cats and squirrels....
April 13th, 2010  
What a sweet photo. :)
April 13th, 2010  
What a very nice pic. You are blessed to have friends for such a long time to share things with. In the past two years my wife has had two very close friends move across the country after retiring. Of course her real best friend is writing this. :-)
April 13th, 2010  
Can't think of too many things better than a nice hug -- especially from very good friends. Nice smile all 'round!
April 13th, 2010  
You look like a trio of Golden Girls. (Will only old geezers from the U.S. get this allusion?)
April 13th, 2010  
I love this on so many levels. How lucky are you?!?! *hugs*
April 13th, 2010  
Brings to mind the verse from Proverbs 18:24 "A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticket closer than a brother." How blessed you are Louise!
April 13th, 2010  
xoxoxo!!!
April 13th, 2010  
haha aww cute! i hope my best friends and i will last as long as you and your best friends. i think this is a great way to start "showing your face" :)

p.s. my middle name is helen. when i saw your friends name was helen i got really excited :)
April 13th, 2010  
Must be great to have people you know so well to share things with
April 13th, 2010  
Thank you all... You'd all about die laughing or be in disbelief to actually know some of what we've "shared" over the years...many times not always what we'd have chosen to reveal, but we've *always* been there for one another. For me, personally, without extended family to speak of, Judee's & Helen's families have been ours, too.
April 13th, 2010  
Ken's three cats..hehe, I have friends that I have known for 20 years, but since I moved, it's been a little difficult, but thank goodness for the internet and texting we still keep in touch and have laughs almost everyday. Also I have become addicted to scrabble, I decided to give it a try because of you and it's so much fun!
April 13th, 2010  
Just a room full of sunshine! :) Looks like a great time!!
April 13th, 2010  
what a great shot! you can see the happiness of friendship in everyone's eyes and smiles!! :)
April 13th, 2010  
"You'd all about die laughing or be in disbelief to actually know some of what we've "shared" over the years..." Louise, no further explanation needed since you've mentioned that you went to college together...Yep, been there, done that. Teehee. How truly blessed you are to have such a "family" of friends. Have a couple, myself, and I treasure them all beyond words. This photo just makes me smile. :-)
April 13th, 2010  
What a joyful shot of you with your girlfriends ... this will be one for all of you to treasure!

Thanks for your lovely comments, Louise ... last night's silliness was a BLAST! Thanks for playing! It would have been nice to preserve all of it, but since it wasn't "my" shot, I didn't feel like it should live in perpetuity in my album!

BTW, it's snowing again today ... ugh!!! But, you notice that I "saved" you all from yet another snow shot! (No promises about tomorrow, however!)
April 13th, 2010  
all my mamas!!! Lots of love there :)
April 13th, 2010  
This makes me think of my friends back home. Thanks for sharing:)
April 13th, 2010  
What a wonderful photo and a great story. Funny how our friends become our family. We're always joking with our friends that we should all just get a great big house and live together so as we get older we'll be able to take care of each other. I'm thinking that might not be a bad idea...lol
April 13th, 2010  
@Kay...yes, we're up to the "nursing home discussions", and chuckle about shared space and having our "wheelchair races"...
April 13th, 2010  
Hi Louise,

I am still learning Shutterlfy LOL. Anyways, here is my email address: andybphotography@yahoo.com. I was wondering if you can email me so I can keep in touch w/you =)
April 13th, 2010  
@Louise - I know what you mean about extended families. My own is fairly limited (another long story...) so I have been lucky to marry into my husband's family and have gathered around me a lovely family of friends. These friends are priceless!
April 13th, 2010  
It look like you have nice friends Louise.
April 13th, 2010  
Awww bosom buddies!
April 13th, 2010  
You don't know how funny that actually is, Lindsey! Did you hear that, Judee?
April 13th, 2010  
What a great picture. What I really like that you can see the connection that you share! It is wonderful to have such friends. I can't help but feel happy for you :)
April 13th, 2010  
First of all, this is an awesome picture of you and your girlfriends :) I hope I stick with the ones I have now...but I'm sure I'll make new ones downt the road :) second of all, did you end up adding a picture of Charles? I was at school and just came home to all of those comments lol I think I'm keeping Charlie as a name...but I will call him a she from now on...because like you said...she is no doubt a female haha I don't know why I thought she was a boy at first. jUst seemed like one I guess.
April 13th, 2010  
This is such a sweet picture :) My husband is military so sadly every few years we have to move away from our friends- they are all family to us now- we go threw good times and bad together, celebrate holidays together when we cant see our families. At our last base I had a wonderful group of friends-- we are now 'fridge friends'- we have pictures of our group on one anothers fridges and we make a point to skype ( I am the only one who moved thus far) once a month so we can all be together-- you are truly lucky to have your friends nearby!
April 13th, 2010  
Wonderful picture...and such nice friends! :) Good friends are hard to find...so keep them safe! :)
April 13th, 2010  
that is a lovely group hug :)
April 14th, 2010  
Loiuse! What a great photo. To see you with your girlfriends is just wonderful. I too have girlfriends who have shared my life for 40 + years and it's still just like yesterday that we met. We can pick up where we left off. I know the happiness you show in this photo :D We are truly blessed.
April 14th, 2010  
you guys are tooo cute! so much love!
April 14th, 2010  
Louise, you are so right - friendship is a treasured part of our lives. I have one girlfriend that I have known since I was 5 and met her at school in year 1. She lives close by in the next suburb and it's just wonderful - we have "matured" together :D and are now sharing our grandchildren.
April 14th, 2010  
What a wondeful shot of best friends! Great job Louise, and thank you for the smile.
April 14th, 2010  
This picture makes me smile.
April 14th, 2010  
Louise--so nice to 'meet' you, too! Love this pic!
April 14th, 2010  
Lovely picture! Friends are so precious you all look soo happy!
April 15th, 2010  
Lovely smiles and such a nice hug, Louise!!! I'm happy to know that you have friends for such a long time. Thank you for sharing your life story. I also could not imagine a life without friends.
April 15th, 2010  
*In his best Can-uh-Deean, states* :

"Ouyt and abouyt with friends around the houyose, eh?"
April 15th, 2010  
Ruprecht speaks perfect Can-uh-Deean!

Scary...I understand perfectly!
April 15th, 2010  
Louise... U ROCK!!!!!!!! and this is such and amazing picture.. it reflects the liftime of togatherness that u guys have shared. You are absolutely cute...cuddly Charlies Angels!!! "HUGS" to all of u
April 15th, 2010  
Louise... Its a priviledge to share the 365 space with u.. I will be more than blessed to have a sweet person as a friend...I truly cherish u and all the guys and girls here at 365!!!!!!!
April 15th, 2010  
The good life! Great photo which we can all relate to. You are blessed.
April 15th, 2010  
Nothing better than good girlfriends over the years...they understand things husbands & boyfriends never do. And laugh...things always seem funnier when you are with your good buddies! Wonderful photo of the 3 of you!
April 16th, 2010  
This is so sweet. I can feel the friendship! Reminds me of a similar photo of me and my good friends. But two of the ladies in my photo passed away while only in their 50's. They were two of my best friends and both were nurses. One died from recurrent breast cancer and the other died from pancreatitis. I still think of them and miss them. Anyway, this is a great photo to cherish!
April 6th, 2017  
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