Sweet Lost Soul from Seoul by alophoto

Sweet Lost Soul from Seoul

I took loads of photos today, but really feel like telling a story with a shot from last week instead. I still have to sort and edit today's shots besides and sometimes that takes me awhile. Plus I like to keep it mixed up in my album...yesterday was a snowy shot...and today I took more. Snow, snow and snow. Time for a sweet candid instead:).

Last week, as we stood by the shoreline and the kids played in the white sand and water on Clearwater Beach, we noticed a man and his adorable daughter near us. He started taking photos of his little girl and after a bit Michael walked over and offered to take shots of the two of them together with the man's camera. The guy agreed and then returned the favor and took shots of our family on the beach.

Turns out they were visiting from Seoul, Korea and were touring the US for 3 weeks. His name was Jason, but I didn't catch the little girl's name. After exchanging photos, the man disappeared, but the little girl kept playing in the sand right next to us. Every once in awhile I peeked over and noticed her eyes looking sad and watery. Where could her daddy be?!

We were soon ready to go, but I was not about to leave this little girl on her own on the beach. My heart stopped when she got up and approached the water. Can she swim? Yikes, where IS that man?

After awhile and at least a couple of scared or about to cry faces, the little girl, got up and started trudging toward the bustling boardwalk. By this time, it was really getting to be dusk and was getting dark. I wondered what I should do. She was maybe 5 at most and seemed to be all alone on a busy beach. Did she know where to go? Worriedly, like an overprotective mama, I followed behind her searching ahead for her dad. Finally, not seeing him, I called to her.

"Sweety, do you want to come and sit with us and wait for your daddy? Maybe he went to the bathroom or something and will be right back. You can sit with us there." I pointed toward my family and hoped that I didn't seem like a kidnapping creep.

Then I saw her daddy approaching. "Oh there is your daddy." I said excitedly. When he came over, I explained to him that I had been worried about her and didn't want her to get lost. He had been sitting on the boardwalk maybe 100 yards away from her or so watching and thanked me for my concern. Sheesh, so glad we found him. I guess that they do things differently in different places, or that parents all have their own methods and levels of comfort with their kids on their own, but man, was that worrisome.

And if I ever get bit by the baby bug again, I want to adopt an Asian baby. They are so preciously adorable to me. This girl was so stinkin' cute and here was one that melted my heart in Central Park last summer: http://365project.org/amandal/365-year-2/2013-06-27

Thank you so much for your comments and faves that put my Snowburst shot from yesterday on the PP. You all are so good to me.

I would be doing exactly as you had done! Perhaps they were not used to beaches and their dangers!
January 5th, 2014  
I would have been right there with her too! It also drives me crazy when people watch their kids play at a park from inside their car. Really?!?
January 5th, 2014  
Sweet shot---- I guess, her dad trust Americans :)
January 5th, 2014  
That sure was worrisome, I wonder about people sometimes.
January 5th, 2014  
Sweet girl.
January 5th, 2014  
Sweet girl! Gorgeous candid! I know what you mean.Different folks have different ideas about " supervision" Lucky for the little one that you were looking out fir her.
January 5th, 2014  
Wow, Amanda, you and your family did the right thing and I would have done the same thing as well. Love this shot. She is adorable and looks so content playing by herself. You are such a special and caring person. The world, well 365 anyways and so many others are so much better for having you in their lives. You could have actually saved hers or not been able to sleep at night leaving her alone and wondered for a long time. A Fav for this beautiful photo with incredible detail and colors and this story my friend.
January 5th, 2014  
beautiful
January 5th, 2014  
beautiful story and a beautiful child and a awesome shot ... lovely sentiment .. you are truly a wonderful person ..!!
January 5th, 2014  
.. am asian btw ... not exactly adorable anymore though .. but am sure I can work on it ..lol ... :-)
January 5th, 2014  
cute shot. she looks engrossed. good for you, looking out for her. glad all was well
January 5th, 2014  
Wow! The story behind the shot is extraordinary. I would have been just the same. How odd for her Dad to leave her like that though. As you say different cultures act differently but nevertheless it's very strange behaviour. It's a beautiful shot and she looks very relaxed here xx
January 5th, 2014  
Beautiful little girl. I like how she is so involved in what she is doing.
January 5th, 2014  
Adorable little girl, and a worrisome story. You did the right thing. We have a connection with a family in Japan, and find the kids there to be irresistable. My wife, Linda, has some incredible photos of kids in China and Japan.
January 5th, 2014  
@darsphotos Love your sweet comments and kind words. I sure hope to make a mark for the better in the world and in others lives. Hugs to you. Recheck the button, if you would, though:).
January 5th, 2014  
She does look totally engrossed - and it doesn't sound like she was that comfortable with the distance supervision thing either!
January 5th, 2014  
Beautiful shot
January 5th, 2014  
I think there are cultural differences, yes. When I was about 22, my friend and I were laying out by the apartment pool. No one else was there. Then an Asian woman let her toddler into the pool area but stood in the glass walkway in the clubhouse.... Talking to someone and watching her child. It freaked me out. The kid played on the steps in the pool... In the shallow water but fell off into the pool and could not swim. The mom came screaming into the pool area and apparently, she could not swim either! She walked down a step or two and reached for the kid screaming hysterically but could not reach her. Inhad just had my hair done at the salon but yep! In I go, to save the toddler. I was shocked that neither could swim but the mom was not more careful.
January 5th, 2014  
And she is a cutie pie!
January 5th, 2014  
@espyetta Wow, that is a dramatic story. Thanks for sharing. Bummer about your hair.
January 5th, 2014  
wonderful shot and love tne story, would have definitely done the same, I think esp when you have children, your concern for such situations is heightened too.
January 5th, 2014  
What a cutie, she looks so engrossed here. What a worry it is when you can see they can't find their parents. Glad he story ended happily.
January 5th, 2014  
Lovely candid capture Amanda.
January 5th, 2014  
@friend2303 Should you have children, I am sure that they will be adorable. Please show me photos so that I can fawn over them. Thanks so much, my kind friend!!
January 6th, 2014  
Nice candid shot and a even better story..but just remember before you go an adopt a child..they are all cute at that age..but then it's the terrible two, teenager and college..just a reminder..lol
January 6th, 2014  
@richardsretirement Good call, Richard. Good to see you again. 3 kids is enough for me now. Can't imagine another:).
January 6th, 2014  
@amandal Good to be back. I took a break after I finished my first year and thought I would wait until the New year to start again.
January 6th, 2014  
Great story and nicely colored cuty!
January 6th, 2014  
Beautiful candid... and I would have done exactly the same as you... if she had been mine, she would not have been out of arms reach! You were her guardian angel that day!
January 6th, 2014  
Lovely candid and a great story.
January 6th, 2014  
@nadaa Thanks, Nada.

@calm How sweet of you to say that, Cathy. I think that many mama's feel the same.

@stimuloog Thanks, Marloes!!
January 9th, 2014  
@jamibann @happysnap @gazbadger @rvwalker @dh @psychographer @jaynspain @twr @mzzhope @mrsvanpatten @kjarn @joemuli @laurielizard @maggiemae

Thanks so much for your lovely comments, my friends. Glad to hear that many of us would do the same thing and watch over the little sweetie. Hope that she made it back home safe and sound after her trip.
January 9th, 2014  
a beautiful capture of the little girl,and she looks quite content. Glad you captured it before she became distressed, and good thing you were looking out for her!
January 13th, 2014  
@jyokota Aw, thank you! She was a doll. I loved her!
January 14th, 2014  
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