Dinner! by cdonohoue

Dinner!

Those of you that have planted vegetable gardens will know what this is going to grow up to become. It is the beginning of a zucchini. I like them in bread, baked with onions and tomatoes and some Parmesan cheese or stir fried with an onion and green pepper. This is that magic time of year in Ohio where dinner is growing out back.

I don't grow vegetables, no room with all of the flowers, but my ex husband grows mine. About four years ago he had a stroke and a five way bypass (Quit Smoking!). He came back into my life while I was supporting the boys through the medical aspect of his problems. I take him to his doctor's appointments as they are at work. In return he grows me vegetables. Its nice to be friends after all these years and the Saint that I have been married to for the last 31 years understands completely.
Beautiful shot, fabulous focus!
June 26th, 2012  
Oh that is sweet. Your husband sounds like a gem (and your ex is so kind to still help you out, too). I love zucchini bread!!!
June 26th, 2012  
Lovely focus and light here! How nice you can get along with your ex - I get along wonderfully with my ex - it makes life much more pleasant!
June 26th, 2012  
Lovely shot!
June 26th, 2012  
Wonderful shot. I love zucchini, and am so happy when people have extra and are willing to give it away!!!!

(And you and your husband are both saints ; )
June 26th, 2012  
Oh Cathy, you don't stop surprising me with such good deeds that you do. How wonderful what you do for your ex-husband, and how civilized... your children must appreciate it. And yes, your husband is a saint! Great example to many.
On the other hand, going back to the zucchinis; I love the vegetable, but I also love the flower in my cooking. Mexican and Italian cooking have many recipes for the flowers. My garden is mostly an edible one, and it gives so much pleasure to eat what you grow.
June 26th, 2012  
Fabulous focus Cathy! I grow these in my garden too, although mine are not doing as well as yours (probably due to the terrible weather we have been having) We call them courgettes here in the UK.
June 26th, 2012  
Never tried zucchini - but I love the shot of it.
And the silver linings to your clouds... hope for all of us :)
June 26th, 2012  
Vee
Well, I'm not a big fan of zucchini, generally....though I like zucchini bread. Your story and the blossom are both beautiful, however!
June 26th, 2012  
@tishpics Thank you Patricia.
@amandalomonaco My 80+ year old ex MIL makes the best zucchini bread. But, I love her for more than that.
@soboy5 Doesn't it? It has turned into a good way to live for all of us. So much better than the feelings right after a divorce.
@doorknee71 Thank you Dawn.
@yonnie My neighbors keep me in tomatoes and green peppers.
@anazad511 I had no idea that you could use the flower in cooking. I will have to look that up! Thanks. And civilized is a great word. When I thought he was going to die it changed how I felt about him.
@linzi76 Courgettes is a cool word. We are going to have a bad heat wave coming so everyone's water bill is going up - I know you could send me some.
@filsie65 They really are good. Give them a try - very versatile veggie.
June 26th, 2012  
I like your story to this and I am a fan of zucchini. You can also eat the flowers, right? I have seen people filling them with ricotta cheese and baking them :)
June 26th, 2012  
You are a very charatable lady, room in your heart for everyone. Beautiful shot, I love zucchini
June 26th, 2012  
Very heartwarming story - and great (and delicious) shot. It does feel good to grow your own veggies!
June 26th, 2012  
Great shot and great story to go with it!
June 26th, 2012  
Love your pov and the beautiful colors here, Cathy! How wonderful that this relationship with the "ex" works out so well for everyone. It's all about forgiveness, I think. Love zucchini ... any way that it's prepared. By the end of it's growing season, I used to be giving it to anyone who would take it! It seems to "multiply quickly!" :)
June 26th, 2012  
Beautiful textures and tones, Kathy! Love the light and shadows you captured here!
June 26th, 2012  
Well done and like Karenann we too find there is enough to keep our neighbours in supply aswell. A wonderful versatile vegetable. Great picture and story :)
June 26th, 2012  
Lovely picture, great focus and beautiful softness.
June 26th, 2012  
lovely shot of a young vegetable! I like your way of cooking them. I will try it!
June 26th, 2012  
Beautiful light and focus on this zucchini bloom... zucchini is such a versatile vegetable... I have a zuchhini chocolate cake recipe I like to make from time to time. And how wonderful for your children that their parents can get along, what a great example you have set. And your husband must be very secure in the love you have for him... what a fine man! My husband's parents were divorced. When my father-in-law re-married years later I wondered how my mother-in-law felt... she told me 'a part of her would always love the father of her children, but she couldn't live with the man and more power to the woman who could.' I always admired her... she and my father-in-law's got along wonderfully well and we spent many happy family times together.
June 26th, 2012  
What an inspiration glimpse into your life. That is a life lesson for us all.
BTW, my daughter has a great recipe using the squash or zucchini blossoms.
June 26th, 2012  
fab shot! Have you tried cooking zucchinis on the barbeque? Ours are producing lots of flowers but no veg, same as last year!
June 26th, 2012  
Wonderful picture and story. Now ... add a little bacon ... YUM! Looking forward to my garden growing.
June 26th, 2012  
Very nice job! Yes, I love zuchinni too! Love your lighting.
June 27th, 2012  
Stunning light and texture on this blossom!
June 27th, 2012  
The stories that accompany your photos are wonderful! I love the shot and your compassion!
June 27th, 2012  
@traeumerlein87 That sounds so good.
@sugarmuser Not really I just don't feel badly about it anymore.
@beachradish On the menu for tomorrow.
@marilyn Thanks Marilyn.
@karenann I think that happened with his last year. But this is my first of the season off of it.
@marlboromaam I had to lift a leaf to get this one.
@aurorajane In a month or so I'll probably begging recipes.
@jesperani Thanks Jennifer.
@windridge They are really good that way.
@calm My husband is totally secure and should be!
@allie912 What does she make out of them. I am going to have to do some reading as this is the first I've heard of that.
@timandelke What's the recipe Elke?
@brenner Never tried bacon but I might have to now.
@cindymc Lighting courtesy of the leaves above.
@ladyjane Thank you!
@grammyn Maybe I just tell too much about my life. But it is a journal. I am hoping to just keep it up and leave the links to my sons.
June 27th, 2012  
Have you ever eaten the flowers? Last year I filled some with a mixture of ricotta, egg & chopped pine nuts, drizzled them with butter, and baked them. Very tasty.
June 27th, 2012  
this is VERY beautiful! and so is your story about finding a friendship again with your X...yes, your spouse is great to understand! Of course, he must know you very well, to not have a problem with it.
June 27th, 2012  
I can't help but FAV this...the lighting is so fantastic!!!
June 27th, 2012  
@cdonohoue I think that is a terrific idea!
June 27th, 2012  
Lovely pic. of this zucchini flower. I love to eat the flowers as well, stuffed with all sorts of goodies.
June 27th, 2012  
Lyn
Cathy, this is just lovely and the story to go with it!
June 27th, 2012  
@filsie65 My dad grows them and we shred them in the food processor and use them in lasagna in place of the noodles. Great veg as a side too with onion. Beautiful photo Cathy. Can't wait to sample some fresh picked from the garden.
June 27th, 2012  
Looks at all the fine texture. Wonderful!
June 27th, 2012  
I love the color and light in this shot. It's awesome that you are friends with your ex!
June 27th, 2012  
@cdonohoue @christiehicks
I'm always up for trying new things but don't think I've ever even seen them for sale over here... I'll have to go hunting and then I'll come back and ask you what on earth I should do with them if I find them!! :)
June 27th, 2012  
Beautiful capture. Love these zucchini and sometimes do plant some in my garden.
June 27th, 2012  
slice them thickly, brush with olive oil, salt and pepper and then just grill along with your meat. we also use a wire contraption that holds them all together and keeps the slices from sliding thru the grills.
June 27th, 2012  
Looove zucchini :-) Nice capture.
June 27th, 2012  
Beautiful shot! Love the light you captured!
June 27th, 2012  
@janets It never even occurred to me until I read about it here.
@vickisfotos Thanks for the fav. This man would never be a threat to the love my life.
@girlie I'm going to have to go and get me a flower and see what it tastes like.
@lyno Thanks Lyn.
@christiehicks Noodles? This is
a versatile plant.
@swguevin Thank you Sheila.
@clmiller Thanks Caren. It was time.
@filsie65 The easiest is do dice them with onions and peppers in olive oil and cook with lots of salt and pepper. Then I sprinkle with cheese.
@sangwann They are so pretty I might next year.
@timandelke Going to try it Elke.
@zuzana Thank you Zuzana
@twinsplusone Thank you Sharon
June 27th, 2012  
The beautiful promise of good things to come!
June 27th, 2012  
Lovely capture,the flowers are really nice stuffed with rice,and in other ways.They're very popular in Greece.
June 27th, 2012  
I had to look-up what a zuccini was. :)
Cool macro. Love the details - looks a bit spiky to the touch.
June 27th, 2012  
Super twisty bud!

@humphreyhippo (Courgettes:)
June 27th, 2012  
@boogie As soon as I saw it on Wikipedia, I had a 'Doh!' moment. Probably should've known that. :)
June 27th, 2012  
Nicely done!
June 27th, 2012  
Zuchinni is great and so versatile. I like it steamed with yellow squash.
July 1st, 2012  
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