As many of you know, yesterday we buried my dad. I have learned a number of lessons over these past two weeks.
1. Plug in with your church family. My church went over and above in helping me with this memorial service. It rained terribly during the service and the young pastor at this particular location helped people to their cars with umbrellas. I honestly couldn't count the number of staff/volunteers who helped out on this day.They truly exemplified being the hands and feet of Jesus.
2. Support your friends during this time, even if you didn't know the deceased. It means a lot for you to put your own life/worries on hold for an hour to give support to your friend.
3. If you know the deceased, by all means, do whatever you can do to attend the funeral. Even if you are uncomfortable, it means a great deal to the family. We had some very important people completely re-work their schedule to be there and others who were "not able to attend".
4. My friend, pictured above, sings for our church. Normally, she would charge to come sing at a funeral. It was her amazing gift to everyone in attendance, which is why I chose this photo.
5. Make peace with people in your life. Today. Don't hold grudges. Appreciate people for who they are. We are all sinners.
6. "His grace is sufficient." 2 Corinthians 12:9 Christ has us covered. Life is about our relationship with Him.
7. Hug your family. You don't know when their final day may come.
So sorry to hear of your loss Danette....it is so hard to lose a family member...fav...for all your wonderful lessons to us. God Bless you and be with you and your family as you learn to go about life without your Dad's living presence, though I know he will be forever in your heart.
Continuing to remember you and your family in prayer. I marked this as a fav Danette because what you shared is so true and I would love to share this with others. Thank you for sharing it with all of us
@bkbinthecity Thanks so much. I think we need constant reminders. It's been tougher than I imagined and it feels that some people take my pain in stride. Others have surprised me with their generous spirit. That's what I want.
Sorry for your loss, Danette. Thank you for sharing such important lessons we all need to be aware of. I appreciate your insight. And how special your friend was to give her talent freely. Bless you and yours!