About Friendship, life and death by danette

About Friendship, life and death

As many of you know, yesterday we buried my dad. I have learned a number of lessons over these past two weeks.
1. Plug in with your church family. My church went over and above in helping me with this memorial service. It rained terribly during the service and the young pastor at this particular location helped people to their cars with umbrellas. I honestly couldn't count the number of staff/volunteers who helped out on this day.They truly exemplified being the hands and feet of Jesus.
2. Support your friends during this time, even if you didn't know the deceased. It means a lot for you to put your own life/worries on hold for an hour to give support to your friend.
3. If you know the deceased, by all means, do whatever you can do to attend the funeral. Even if you are uncomfortable, it means a great deal to the family. We had some very important people completely re-work their schedule to be there and others who were "not able to attend".
4. My friend, pictured above, sings for our church. Normally, she would charge to come sing at a funeral. It was her amazing gift to everyone in attendance, which is why I chose this photo.
5. Make peace with people in your life. Today. Don't hold grudges. Appreciate people for who they are. We are all sinners.
6. "His grace is sufficient." 2 Corinthians 12:9 Christ has us covered. Life is about our relationship with Him.
7. Hug your family. You don't know when their final day may come.
So sorry to hear of your loss Danette....it is so hard to lose a family member...fav...for all your wonderful lessons to us. God Bless you and be with you and your family as you learn to go about life without your Dad's living presence, though I know he will be forever in your heart.
July 11th, 2014  
Hi, Danette! I am with you in your sorrow. Our the most dearests are always in our hearts.
July 11th, 2014  
I'm so sorry, Danette! Your words are so touching! My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family!
July 11th, 2014  
A moving story and i am sure yiu are gaining great comfort from all your family and friends. Such a sad time for you all
July 11th, 2014  
Continuing to remember you and your family in prayer. I marked this as a fav Danette because what you shared is so true and I would love to share this with others. Thank you for sharing it with all of us
July 11th, 2014  
So sorry Danette, thinking of you. Your faith, I know, will see you through this hard time.
July 11th, 2014  
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your heart here. A wonderful personal testimony to your faith in the Lord.
July 11th, 2014  
@lynnb Thank you so much for your kind words, Lynn. Miss seeing you!
July 12th, 2014  
@anden Anatoly, so good to see you. Thank you for your warm words.
July 12th, 2014  
@orangecrush Jerry, thank you. I learned some important lessons.
July 12th, 2014  
@bkbinthecity Thanks so much. I think we need constant reminders. It's been tougher than I imagined and it feels that some people take my pain in stride. Others have surprised me with their generous spirit. That's what I want.
July 12th, 2014  
@lucypics Thanks so much, Lucy. Your words mean a lot.
July 12th, 2014  
@juliac Thank you, Julia. Not sure what we'd have without our faith.
July 12th, 2014  
So sorry to hear about your loss, losing a parent is so so difficult. Thoughts and prayers are with you all
July 12th, 2014  
Beautiful photo of the memorial and a a wonderful list of lessons. All true.
July 12th, 2014  
I'm so sorry about the loss of your dad, Danette, and your words above are very meaningful and insightful. Hugs.
July 13th, 2014  
Sorry for your loss, Danette. Thank you for sharing such important lessons we all need to be aware of. I appreciate your insight. And how special your friend was to give her talent freely. Bless you and yours!
July 13th, 2014  
What a wonderful shot of the wonderful singer. Nice reflections. Your church will pull you through, and your friends too. :) hugs.
July 13th, 2014  
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