Thanksgiving--Prepping the Turkey by darylo

Thanksgiving--Prepping the Turkey

My get-pushed challenge from my awesome partner Kali is “Thanksgiving.” The push is to explain/show (to those not from the U.S.) the meaning of Thanksgiving beyond the national edict that all Americans must eat turkey and pumpkin pie on this day. So, let me start with the turkey (haha!). Yes, it is almost sacrilegious to eat something other than a turkey on this day. For my husband, he is about as traditional as one gets about the revered Thanksgiving meal. I go around repeating and mocking him “I want Turkey, mashed potatoes, and stuffing. I want turkey, mashed potatoes, and stuffing,” and I usually mock him with full animation to point out his palate does not jive with my culinary skills or aspirations for non-traditional holiday meals—I mean, how many times can one eat Turkey on the same day once a year and not get bored? Apparently, my husband and about 98% of the population can! I acquiesce with his three items, but that’s where that traditional buck stops. Why? Because MY family’s tradition has been to cook all kinds of things on Thanksgiving when I was growing up. Sure we had turkey, but we smoked it (even burned our garage one year smoking some turkey and flounder—we made a smoker out of an old handcrank refrigerator from like the 50’s or 60’s—now that’s a story!), brined it, baked it…you get the picture. We’ve also had lamb, duck, and Virginia (salt-cured) hams.

We also served some kind of seafood for an appetizer, oysters and shrimp usually. And, when I was a little girl, we would host a huge party with our neighbors before everyone went to their respective homes for their private meals. We served smoked fish and oysters with homemade beer (so high in alcohol you had to cut it with some watery cheap beer—the adults, that is—although, I did get some each year). We also made ginger beer and root beer for the kids.

For me, Thanksgiving and cooking are inseparable. My entire family cooks. We celebrate being with each other by cooking together—not just on Thanksgiving, but on Thanksgiving, we try to do something “new” that we’ve never done before. We invite folks who may not have family close in proximity or are without family. We want the house to engage the senses and to engage in lengthy conversations. Each year, we seek out new and exciting things to cook that we’ve never tried!

Getting ready is a multi-generational endeavor. Ever since my children were able to start cooking (like for real), my father has been the guiding culinary expert when it comes to prepping a turkey for our meals each year. It does not start in the kitchen. It starts at the market (usually a farmer’s market, but this year, we went to Whole Foods—oh, Lawd, don’t get me started on that crazy place). We pick herbs, we debate which stuffing items should prevail (citrus or spices or both—we get them all regardless). We do NOT put stuffing in a bird (I only make it for my husband the other traditionalists who show up for the meal). Today, we picked up some brussel sprouts, and I’ll probably make a citrusy salad with it after I grill them. Who knows. But we got the other essentials like potatoes (organic and pricey—seriously, don’t get me started on Whole Foods).

Oh, BTW, if you are here in the narrative, well HOTDOG! Some of you will know what that means, and I’m awarding bonus points.

When we arrived home today, we rinsed, dried, and picked the herbs to make a butter mixture. The herbs we chose were sage, oregano, thyme, tarragon, and rosemary. Granddad then helped separate the skin of the bird from the flesh so the butter mixture could go underneath the skin and flavor the turkey for the next two days. The girls picked the herbs, cut them with knives (after having their knife-sharpening lessons—ah, my own memories as a kid doing this with my parents!), and then mixed the butter and put it under the skin.

This collage shows that three-step process. We purchased a pre-brined turkey (with age, we are finding that step a bit hard to do on our own, but we have done that too), and we plan to coat it with prosciutto and spices before it hits the oven about 5 am Thursday. Hungry yet? Well, I bought a turkey that was too big this year. So come on by! Traditionalists and non-Traditionalists welcome. 

@kali66 Installment #1. I see you posted something, so I'm heading over! Sorry so lengthy in narrative. I'm a wordy gal. :)
November 27th, 2013  
Well....I would love to have Thanksgiving dinner at your home. You must be cooking for days!! Fabulous capture and wonderful narrative!!
November 27th, 2013  
I just laughed at your description. It's classic and fun! Enjoy your time with family and I look foward to future installments. We'll be with my husband's son, wife, grandkids, and other members of that side of the family. My stepson is a great cook, but this year is going the cater route so that he isn't in the kitchen the whole day. My only assignment is roasted veggies (and I'm trying pumpkin bars which I've not made before). I hope others respond to your post with various family traditions. Always fun to read about them.
November 27th, 2013  
Daryl a wonderful thanksgiving collage! I am waiting for my brine to cool down so i can soak my 1st turkey. The 2nd I will make on Thursday but not brined. I am exhausted already. I do love Thanksgiving, the food and family and fun. the exhaustion is worth it! Wishing your family a wonderful Thanksgiving.
November 27th, 2013  
@taffy I'm sure you will enjoy your meal and I'm sure your pumpkin bars will be delish!!! Send me the recipe. I loooove pumpkin. :)
November 27th, 2013  
@sunshinephoto5 It really is worth it. It's days in the making! I haven't even loaded the photo about the gingerbread house we make from scratch over the week. My husband takes that one on and it's an amazing result every year. This year, the girls actually made a good bit without too much assistance! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving.
November 27th, 2013  
@eyesmile :) We cook for a few days for sure. I'm also very fortunate that we have friends and family cooking for the meal too. One friend is bringing an assortment of roasted veggies, one is bringing pie, and my mom is bringing shrimp cocktail and oyster ceviche! Oh we will be stuffed!
November 27th, 2013  
Happy to -- here it is (from my mom...credit to Jean Raphael):
Pumpkin Bars----------Preheat 350
4 eggs
1 3/4 cups sugar
1 15oz. can Libby's Pumpkin
1 cup cooking (not olive) oil
2 cups flour
2 tsp.baking pow.
2 tsp. cinnamon
1 tsp. baking soda
1/2 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp. nutmeg
1/2 tsp cloves
Beat eggs and sugar. Add Pumpkin and oil and mix well.
Combine flour, and rest of "dry" lngredients and stir into creamed mixture.
Stir well and pour into greased 10x15 (not smaller) pan
Bake for 25-30 minutes. Test with toothpick

Frosting-Cake must be cold before frosting
2 3oz.pkgs cream cheese softened
6TBS. butter softened
1TBS milk or cream
1tsp vanilla 3 cups conf. sugar
Beat Cream cheese, butter,milk,and vanilla. Add sugar till spreading consistency
Spread over COOL cake . Depending how large you cut in to bars (or squares) you should have about 7 dozen. They freeze well.

Really easy-hardest part waiting for them to cool down. Can be made a couple days before.
November 27th, 2013  
@taffy THANKS! I hope others feel compelled to share recipes here too. Oh, I love this time.
November 27th, 2013  
@sunshinephoto5 Oh, and good luck with the brining! Once you brine, you will never go back. The gravy you can make from it is out of this world! I don't know how you cook your turkeys but I'm a "low and slow" cooker so the meat is as moist as possible. Brined turkeys can dry out if cooked too fast. Advice you did not need I'm sure! :)
November 27th, 2013  
@darylo lol! truthfully i have never brined before. since i need 2 turkeys this year i thought i would give it a try. I get a fresh turkey and i have never has a problem. 325 for 7 hours it's always been moist and delish. I got a late start with the brine wishing it would cool down so i can go to bed. lol!
November 27th, 2013  
@taffy those sound wonderful!
November 27th, 2013  
@sunshinephoto5 Let me know how it turns out! Two turkeys is ambitious. I have one oven and it's always a huge dance in the last hour to get in there after the turkey comes out.
November 27th, 2013  
This sounds wonderful, and it is nice that everyone gets involved in the preparation. The photos are worthy of your family album. Our Thanksgiving is much more traditional, and we alternate among three houses, but everyone brings something, and it is wonderful. However... a couple of years ago we traveled to my son's house in Tucson. He was a bachelor at the time, and his kitchen was a disaster. Like call FEMA, disaster. Anyway, we knew Linda would end up cooking despite his promises. We had to go to COSTCO the day before Thanksgiving to get the turkey, and I'll bet Whole Foods was a stroll in the park compared to COSTCO. Picture pallets of pumpkin pies spread across an acre of floor. Anyway, it turned out that my son had two turkey roaster lids, but no bottom pans! Thanks to Linda, it came out great, but must have involved divine intervention.
November 27th, 2013  
@sunshinephoto5 I'm hoping to make them tomorrow and if they DO come out, am thinking I might try to do a selective color shot with them for my get-pushed. We'll see. I don't see how the recipe can make 7 dozen though!
November 27th, 2013  
@darylo I am cooking the smaller turkey tomorrow night the big one Thanksgivg day. Last year we did not have left overs. Can't have that happen again!
November 27th, 2013  
Great triptych of turkey prep. I hate turkey, and even I eat a small piece on Thanksgiving! LOL! Course, I drown it in cranberry sauce!
November 27th, 2013  
@rvwalker You have me laughing at the two turkey roaster lids and no bottom pans--priceless memories! Costco or Sam's can be a nightmare at this time too! I have to go there when I put on my annual Christmas party because I cook for that one too (but not at Whole Food's prices--I'd be bankrupt). We have 11 this year attending. Each person brings something. I take care of the traditional stuff plus a surprise "new" thing; my mom brings the shrimp and an oyster ceviche; my friend brings roasted veggies; other friends bring dessert and wine and fizzy waters! Oh, and we also bake and construct a gingerbread house that promptly gets demolished by the kids after dinner! Ahhhhh, so much fun!
November 27th, 2013  
loved reading all your bumf, darylo. it sounds such a fab family affair and great fun too. don't get the hotdog thing, the triptych is great and shows the family/turkey thing well. I hope you have a lovely thanksgiving, and you can still walk around afterwards after the big dinner :-)
November 27th, 2013  
Wonderful collage and fabulous story, shame I don't live closer, oh and I got the bonus points Lol.
November 27th, 2013  
Hotdog! Lol! One year, about 13 years ago..dan and I hosted both our family thanksgivings. We both had divorced parents who, besides my dad who still liked Mom, did not want to sit near one another. I put out place cards yo make sure they didn't. It was about 15 people. We got church type tables and put in the dining room so we could seat everyone. Then we made "made to order" steaks...and baked potato. Now, I get a honeybaked ham and my SIL makes turkey...we have both...yum!
November 27th, 2013  
oh my goodness, i feel full just reading about this, I am so glad I gave you this push, I had no idea what a big deal it all is! that is the short version of my comment, I will come back for another look...after I cook my one pot stew and couscous , much easier lol
November 27th, 2013  
@jaynspain I tend to write some looong narratives, so a few months back, I put in a comment about how if you've made it this far, let me know by putting "hotdog" in comments below. That way I knew they read the narrative (not obligatory in any way, of course)! Ever since then, it's just been a funny joke.
November 27th, 2013  
@espyetta Points for you! Hotdog! Oh, steak is the way to go! Or a crown of pork I've always wanted to do! My parents are divorced, but very amicable now. I love the ham/turkey combo. Enjoy!! Hotdiggetydog!
November 27th, 2013  
@markp Points for you! Wish you could drop by!
November 27th, 2013  
Wonderful write-up!! And if it doesn't go in the turkey, then it's not stuffing..it's dressing :-) I am having T-day away from my main family this year, and my almost 18 year old daughter is doing theirs by herself! I am still here with my oldest and her new baby, and the other Grandma is arriving tomorrow morning (and bringing a turkey.) My daughter says I'm in charge of the turkey and STUFFING...that it just isn't Thanksgiving without my stuffing,LOL.
November 27th, 2013  
@m9f9l Duly noted! My husband says the box says stuffing and it's stuffing. I'm with you! ;) Enjoy your time. I have done T-day with and without family, but whomever I am with is family. That's why I love this holiday. It's as simple as that! :)
November 27th, 2013  
Loved reading your family traditions! That is most certain what thanksgiving means to me. Family. And turkey too. Ha-ha!
November 27th, 2013  
@jaynspain oh dear, I just looked up bumf.
November 27th, 2013  
uhuh? just means written stuff, or printed stuff...? or is there another meaning?
November 27th, 2013  
@jaynspain etymology: bum+fodder, bumfodder. bumf. Yes, paperwork, but often with the connotation of long and tedious paperwork (ya know, bum fodder!)! This is making me laugh soooooo hard!
November 27th, 2013  
Lovely description and the collage is wonderful!
November 27th, 2013  
Great collage and narrative. I love that your husband is teaching the younger generation. I'm not a fan of turkey myself. I'd much rather eat ham which as been baked with pineapple rings! We usually cook both. The stuffing is my favourite part of the whole meal.
November 27th, 2013  
That should say father, not husband. My hands don't always type what the mind is thinking. Ha ha.
November 27th, 2013  
@kwind Hahahaha, that's my dad (as in "granddad"). Thanks very much, though. I'm not a huge turkey fan and I only eat it once a year. I prefer a ham or I'd go for steaks. Working on the traditional crowd every time trying to make my arguments, but they always come back "We must have turkey; are you crazy?"
November 27th, 2013  
whoops! blushes... had no idea...even my mum and dad use the term, for talking about stuff that comes with forms etc. sorry x
November 27th, 2013  
Well, HOTDOG, Daryl! I think the bonus points allow us to come to dinner! :-) Everything about your day sounds wonderful. Happy Thanksgiving!
November 27th, 2013  
Love the sequence and the different generations in one photo!! Great example of a classic thanksgiving in America!!
November 27th, 2013  
Fabulous collage :)
November 27th, 2013  
Hotdog, hotdog, hotdog:) :):) Save me a seat ;)
Have a great thanksgiving. It sounds great what you're preparing. In Holland we don't have this tradition.
November 27th, 2013  
love the collage, really tells the story
November 27th, 2013  
Joe
Hotdog! And I love Whole Foods. But maybe that's because I'm ultimately not the one paying for it. :-/
November 28th, 2013  
wow Daryl, what a story, hope you are a fast typer :P Love to hear what the tradition includes and to see that your are ginving your own twist to it! And the most importent thing with holidays is not the food, but the time you spent with the people you love, as you show so wonderfully!
November 28th, 2013  
Well, I may be a recent follower, but I read every word and the smile grew bigger on my face the more I read. I am none the wiser on HOTDOG though, please tell! I think we'd get on well if we were neighbours, we think in a similar way.
November 29th, 2013  
@seanoneill Hey Sean, sorry, just trying to get caught up, and I know it will never really happen, but the HOTDOG reference started back this summer when I wrote long narratives and realized most people probably didn't read them (so I'd say something like, "if you've made it this far in the narrative, put "hotdog" in your comments and I'll know you read it! I'm giving bonus points!"). Totally silly, but I know I'm a bit long-winded in this project. I started it as a writing project really. Now, I'm so into photography and learning about what my camera can do--so win, win for me. I don't ever expect people to read my narratives, but it's nice when they have the time. I enjoy reading narratives (yours too, in particular)! I'm back to work. So far behind with the holidays! Cheers!
December 1st, 2013  
I get you now. I'm clued up now, HOTDOG at the ready for next time. Long narratives are good, they give us a peep into the mind and sometimes soul. Keep 'em coming.
December 1st, 2013  
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