Not A Girly Girl At All by myautofocuslife

Not A Girly Girl At All

No comments required. Really.

Anything goes in August as I'm trying to add variety as well as color to my calendar view, so this is sort of a selfie. Or maybe not. Well, I mean, um, you've never seen this much of me before. XD

Had to learn how to use the self-timer for this shot. And I had to stack a box and 3 books on a chair for my camera to be at the right height. I don't think I will be doing any more shots that require the self-timer. 8P

So, I wanted to show you my favourite rings! One is a skull. The other is a skeletal hand.

I bought these sterling silver rings on different occasions from different sellers on Yahoo! Japan auctions. They have a certain weight to them, being heavier than most rings, and I like that. I think they are beautiful.

I know, I know, they are not the kind of pretty or elegant rings women are supposed to wear. But I've always been and still am a melancholy and morbid person, every other thought in my head is concerned with dying and death. Life is beautiful, dying is not, and death is inevitable. Dying is, for most, an inelegant, painful, undignified thing. I much prefer to be dead. Or at least to drop dead, maybe in the middle of a macro shot or while reading my comic books. (But not while I'm naked in the shower or sitting on the toilet! Please no. XD ) But I doubt I'd be so lucky.

Anyway, before any of that happens, I intend to take as many colorful shots of flowers and jumping spiders as I can. Yeah, the flower shots return tomorrow. 8D


Haha, excellent shot! Great seasoned jeans; reminds me of a shot I took long ago! Well done!
August 11th, 2012  
Love your style Livia always, this is an instant fav.
August 11th, 2012  
You're too funny! I hope I don't die on the toilet as well. Eeek! Love this POV - I grew up a tomboy - my dad was happy, My mom tried to keep converting me with pink dresses! Didn't work! :)
August 11th, 2012  
i like your style too, awesome shot and story to go with it.
August 11th, 2012  
Skull rings rule! just ask my friend @tinmaddog , he would agree :)
August 11th, 2012  
love this.. rings and commentary. Great POV.
August 11th, 2012  
Cool selfie - love the "I'm my own woman" style of it - The rings are stunning - and unlike most rings of their style they look well-crafted!
Sounds like you face reality and respond to it by recording or creating beauty!
August 11th, 2012  
Love your perspective and the light on your rings - nicely composed!
August 11th, 2012  
That's so cool! Love the rings. This looks like a piece of advertising.
August 11th, 2012  
Wonderful composition. I really like the skeleton hand ring!
August 11th, 2012  
Great selfie and portrait of your favourite jewellery. The honesty of your commentary resonates with me too, as I too have a tendency to the morbid and melancholy. The shot itself is cool and stylish, great Mr Grim Reaper jewellery. Thanks for being brave enough to express how you feel - it takes a lot of courage.
August 11th, 2012  
Cool finger bling. So much focus is placed upon the surface and superficial, what lies within and beneath are much more interesting. The association of skeletal with death is simplistic at best, what we see of people both in repose and while moving is dependent upon the framework that supports us. I don't find contemplation of death morbid, it's the end result of the most successful of lives as well as utter failure along the way. On another note, I posted a pic of my baby jumping spiders in their nest. A celebration of new life if you will. Cheers!
August 11th, 2012  
Great style shot, lovely lighting Livia
August 11th, 2012  
Awesome "just a touch of you" selfie. Love the denim and rings. Fav.
August 11th, 2012  
Great rings!
August 11th, 2012  
Love the shot. It's fun to see even a bit of you, Livia. Love the jeans. Fun rings. Your rings remind me of the skull cap my little granddaughter wore at 2 weeks to her first baseball game ; )
August 11th, 2012  
Great shot, love your bling :)
August 11th, 2012  
Great composition
August 11th, 2012  
awesome
August 11th, 2012  
I really like this pic.
August 11th, 2012  
I love the pose with the rings and denim. And your commentary!
August 11th, 2012  
I love this and those rings! Great little selfie! Fav!
August 11th, 2012  
I like your style and your stories...wonderful 'selfie'.
August 11th, 2012  
Your morbidity is incredibly light hearted ... and lively :) This is a very cool shot and a great contrast to the usual pocket shot.
August 11th, 2012  
Love your not a girly girl!
August 11th, 2012  
eva
Fabulous shot and composition.
August 11th, 2012  
Such a girly girl selfie. Really cool shot, though. Seriously. May you not die on the toilet. I wonder how common that is?
August 11th, 2012  
All the girls here wear denim
August 11th, 2012  
A great selfie , Twice , the pic and your lines
I think nature have compassion with humans . Or you die young by accident or old and then you`ve learn it`s insurmountable.
August 11th, 2012  
Oh Livia your commentary is a daily delight! Yes dying on the toilet, what a bummer, (no pun intended),you made me chuckle so much. Why do we always laugh at these potentially awful things! Good job we do. We call it black humour here. This is a great shot, well composed with some difficulty obviously. I love the rings, they sing out personality.
August 11th, 2012  
Great selfie Livia, love the pose and the light accentuating the rings. I fully agree with your narrative, having faced slow dying twice the last year I know dying is painful and indignifying. Death is inevitable, but also a relief from dying.
August 11th, 2012  
Jo
I'm not commenting because you told me not to.
August 11th, 2012  
Very cool rings and I love your jeans! The thumb in the pocket is a great touch of attitude, too! I think it's an excellent composition! I love it! FAV! May I pin it, please?
August 11th, 2012  
Nice, really cool.
August 11th, 2012  
Very cool! Really like it!
August 11th, 2012  
Great shot, great story.
August 11th, 2012  
Rob
Excellent shot! Great selfie beautifully composed!
August 12th, 2012  
Fabulous shot, Livia; love the composition and the cropping and your sense of humour (and, of course, the wonderful rings). Also love your funny tags, which would seem to indicate you might entertain us with a few more of these delightful selfies (before you pop your clogs, I mean.) Fav. for me, by the way!
August 12th, 2012  
What can I say ...love the denim, the stance and the attitude. It REEKS defiance and says "I'm my own person!" Death is always on my mind lately .. but then so are alot of things. So you braved a "selfie." Our latest photo class will having us do one (a selfie) as a final project. Yeah right (I said to myself!) We shall see ... don't know how to do my timer thing either. Have no idea what to wear ... my closet contains khakis and tee-shirts. Either black or white. I wear no jewelry except for a watch. I may die doing a selfie ... just my luck. FAV.
August 12th, 2012  
This is a wonderful selfie, Livia! So nice to see you trying out different shots! Way to go!
August 12th, 2012  
Ian
Great shot. I love it!
August 12th, 2012  
Very cool and creative shot.
August 12th, 2012  
Love it
August 12th, 2012  
You are totally crazy and a freaky good photographer. I just can't imagine a camera perched on some books and the result is perfect exposure and focus. You amaze me and I'm not going down that dying on the toilet thing 8-)
August 12th, 2012  
You did well with the self timer! Love the rings, they look impressive! They would pack a punch!!! While your head is somewhere else; your lens views all things full of life, which I appreciate and enjoy very much!
August 12th, 2012  
Really like this composition!
August 12th, 2012  
Very much a look that would be at home around the rodeo grounds where I grew up. I think death is always in the minds of most thinking people at some level. I used to think I wanted to die awake and experience it all but then I saw how painful dying can be and I learned my pain threshold is high enough to bear it until the body shuts down. Now I hope to experience a lot more of life but to die in my sleep
August 12th, 2012  
Ha ha , lets hope it's not on the loo! great composition and a wonderful inventive way to show off your rings!
August 12th, 2012  
This is great! I love the composition and light!
August 12th, 2012  
SUPER COOL! GOTTA FAV!
August 12th, 2012  
The rings are a nice touch against the denim. Most of all, be who you want to be.
August 12th, 2012  
Very Rock & Roll Livia. Love the textures and colours; particularly in the denim. Great shot.
August 12th, 2012  
Wish I had hips like this...and love love those rings.
August 12th, 2012  
Love this Livia and your words too AND this has lasted way longer than your previous selfie did so well done for that too :)
August 12th, 2012  
Livia your sense of humour is fabulous, i love my jeans too , i 'll be 63 next Saturday and still get around barefooted. LOL
August 12th, 2012  
@marlboromaam Sure, go ahead, if you'd still like to. XD
August 12th, 2012  
@myautofocuslife Pinned. =)
August 12th, 2012  
Cool shot - the rings really set it off!!
August 12th, 2012  
very neat framing and lighting Livia!
August 12th, 2012  
Love this Livia, love the textures, POV and creativity - fav
August 12th, 2012  
Beautiful selfie Livia. Love the light ad composition and focus is perfect. fav. I enjoyed your words too
August 12th, 2012  
Great pose. I love your capture and creativity.
August 12th, 2012  
Very cool selfie Livia, i love your rings too =) they're something id pick out for myself.... love your composition too!
August 12th, 2012  
Wow! Livia! Fabulous shot! (I have gone all weak at the knees!) Interesting commentary too - well I glazed over at the rings stuff! - but as for death it's something that has to happen to all of us which, as I see it, is no reason for despair. There can be no life without death. That also applies to all your those subjects that you photograph so brilliantly. Enjoy the life you have and at the same time act as responsibly as you can. If you are able to do that you have a gift and the fortune that is denied millions.
August 12th, 2012  
Creative selfie and interesting narrative. I am not a dark person but I always enjoy hearing others thoughts.
August 12th, 2012  
cool rings and a great selfie
August 12th, 2012  
Hey hey..now we have a glimpse of you. nice. love the rings, they suit you well going by what I can see of you. that selftimer business I tried it once. forget it. I infact take all my pictures holding the heavy camera even with a larger lense. when lifting the camera up high for some moon pictures I have to wait to steady my arms first. so back to your shot..I think it deserves a fav..
August 12th, 2012  
woooo i like yr style man and this shot is so....full of character!
August 12th, 2012  
I'm in love with your rings, a very....badass shot, I like it :)
August 12th, 2012  
Fabulous selfie, I love it!
August 12th, 2012  
This is a great shot and that ring is very cool! I was a Goth back in the day. I loved skulls, black, and graveyards. I still do! I love to hear someone else has a dark perspective!
August 12th, 2012  
Great shot; fabulous story telling; You have capturd and share a little pf yourself and that is brave; you have become so brave in all your shots, always pusing yourself and trying new things; you may not want to here this but you really are inspriational! :0)
August 12th, 2012  
Bob
Great shot and story!
August 12th, 2012  
You crack me up and you are a very interesting person Livia! I am never bored when I come to your site...that's for sure!!!! Great selfie! Love it!!!!!
August 12th, 2012  
great shot, and love your style!
August 12th, 2012  
great shot and story!
August 12th, 2012  
Oh, Livia, you bad girl! I love your rings and jeans. Great selfie. Talking about death...my two kids ask me about it all the time.
August 12th, 2012  
Those are awesome rings.
August 12th, 2012  
very cool shot! quite unexpected from you
August 12th, 2012  
Rock on ;). Looks like you've got style, love your composition and lighting :)
August 12th, 2012  
nothing comes between you and your....skeleton blings! kinda like a calvin klein jeans advertisement in the 80's. fun set up and great shot. coolio!
August 12th, 2012  
Didn't exspect a photo like this from you. I love it. Fabulous composition and story. FAV
August 13th, 2012  
too cool for words, awesome shot
August 13th, 2012  
Nice selfie! Love your rings.
August 13th, 2012  
This is fantastic!! A great shot, love the lighting and lovely to see (a bit of) you! Fav xx
August 13th, 2012  
fantastic selfie!!!!
August 13th, 2012  
Great shot.
August 13th, 2012  
Wow Livia! Never thought you would be a skull ring kinda girl! Nice!
August 13th, 2012  
Yay Livia! It's so wonderful to see atleast a part of you! Fav for the awesome shot and the commentary!
August 13th, 2012  
Well, I already knew you love to wear jeans. Now we know you are skinny. Awesome commentary.
August 13th, 2012  
i think this is awesome Livia! have to fav this!
August 14th, 2012  
Pam
Wicked cool!!! Always love your words!!!
August 14th, 2012  
Your words made me laugh. I like the honesty and your ability to laugh at yourself as well. I like what you did here. You changed your usual light, pretty things for for a real thought provoker and an excellent selfie.
August 14th, 2012  
Funny, I never saw you as morbid. You take such colourful beautiful photos. Great shot.
August 14th, 2012  
Mel
i love your commentary :) i also like your selfie idea, i have been "pushed" to take another selfie this week and I am thinking of something like this, rather than a face shot :)
August 14th, 2012  
Very cool shot! Love what it says and what you have to say in the description.
August 14th, 2012  
Tia
Fantastic shot!
August 14th, 2012  
yeap fantastic
August 14th, 2012  
fav! seriously, this has to be one of your most poweful images... for the photo itself, and for the words and thoughts that accomany it... btw, i lurve those rings and now i want some just like 'em! (not a girly girl here either, altho' i don't think much about death, i do like grunge and whimsical stuff a lot)...
August 15th, 2012  
Cooool. I have a similar 'thing' for silver in the shape of trees and leaves.

...and yeah - death sucks.
August 15th, 2012  
Girly girls are passe. Barbies are dull. And nothing can beat authenticity. Love your rings, and it's such a cool, powerful woman shot! Daring and authentic. Death is so cool. I think of it as an awakening. Hope to see more shots like these.
August 15th, 2012  
Another FAV - love your work
August 15th, 2012  
Loving this seflie. I love the photo and your words to go along with it. fav.
August 15th, 2012  
Wicked cool shot and selfie
August 15th, 2012  
@peacerebel said it perfectly! ;-) Fav!
August 16th, 2012  
Very cool shot.
August 16th, 2012  
Very cool selfie! I am bit distracted because I really want the ring with the skeletal hand :-D. I'd wear it with my best "I am a respectable old lady" outfit.
August 16th, 2012  
love the rings too - they're perfectly morbid. Your depiction of dying had me smiling, isn't that crazy?? I think these thoughts sometimes and you went ahead and spilled 'em all down. Same "please no" for me!
About the shot - love the pov, so creative!
August 17th, 2012  
This is awesome. Great composition, beautiful tones and textures. And love the rings. Dark, dangerous, has an agenda, so get out the way. Very cool. Stephen King should build a character around you. :)
August 17th, 2012  
I'm so bloody clumsy that I've always said my death would be accidental but my own fault. It's lovely to see some of you and I love the skeletal ring (middle finger).
August 18th, 2012  
What a great selfie, Livia. I like being able to see a part of you. You did well with your self timer. Love your rings and jeans. You sure have a great sense of humor. Love what you wrote.
August 19th, 2012  
Magic Livia, you always give so much of yourself. A partial selfie eh, well that will have everyones imagination working overtime trying to complete the jigsaw!!
August 27th, 2012  
I love this!! I really like your skeletal hand ring... it is AWESOME!!! I only have small fingers and hands and couldn't pull that off. Ps... you should do another selfie one day... this is a great crop :)
August 30th, 2012  
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