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6th November 2010
'If these hands could Talk ' by redfl83

'If these hands could Talk '

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My darling hubby was resting on his walking stick while sitting in his wheelchair waiting to get into our gig last night,I took a few shots inside but the metal gigs have terrible lighting so lots of red blurs.
So i decided on this one today as its not often i put up portraits,If you dont know my husband has had RA since he was 7 yrs old its known as Juvenile arthritis,Everyone of his fingers have been bent & warped since age 12 they could be straightened but this would mean less movement so he puts up with the pain each day so he can save his finger movement,Every joint in his body needs replaced,he has had both hips & 1 shoulder next yr a knee will be done & the good thing is his specialist lets him choose when & what joint is done next.He is so brave & lives life to the full when he can.

Taken with my phone in the dark so had to bring out shadows
http://365project.org/redfl83/projects/2010-11-06 from gig last night
Comments
Wow this is quite a powerful photo, even without the story behind it, but when you add that in....WOW. I love it A FAV
posted November 6th, 2010  
Amazing candid portrait! Enduring pain can be so debilitating but the way you and your husband seize the moment is quite inspiring. Best to you both!
posted November 6th, 2010  
This is a very deep, thoughtful portrait. Pain is so hard to live with, and I give you both so much credit for enduring what you do, and having such a beautiful love.
posted November 6th, 2010  
This is an amazing portrait
posted November 6th, 2010  
Wow. That is a beautiful portrait. You've captured not the pain, but the living with it.
posted November 6th, 2010  
Carole, Wonderful portrait. Chronic pain is so hard to live with.
posted November 6th, 2010  
A very thought provoking portrait. You're Hubby sounds like a wonderful man and I know from what I've read on here just how special your relationship is. Hope you both have a nice weekend together.
posted November 6th, 2010  
As an RA warrior myself, the beauty and bravery in this portrait move me to tears. This is so wonderful, Carole. My best to Lee.
posted November 6th, 2010  
love this... one of those pictures that really stand out!
posted November 6th, 2010  
How strong of you both to go out to these gigs like you do! Best wishes to both of you! Great portrait!
posted November 6th, 2010  
such a strong emotional portrait, even without the story it says pain and hope. Blessings to you both!
posted November 6th, 2010  
It is a very loving and touching portrait. It is amazing you did it with your phone. Hope you too have some relief. i love this picture and wht your wrote.
posted November 6th, 2010  
Very touching portrait! You two don't have an easy life, but I'm so glad you seem to find joy in it anyway.
posted November 6th, 2010  
I like this.
posted November 6th, 2010  
Great portrait! That must be rough on both of you
posted November 6th, 2010  
Very touching! All caught in one picture, fantastic.
posted November 6th, 2010  
god love him for all he goes through, wonderful emotional shot
posted November 6th, 2010  
What a magnificent shot of him, you are both an inspiration to all with your positive outlook under difficult circumstances...so glad you can go to these gigs that you love so much :)
posted November 6th, 2010  
This is such a beautiful photo,and a caption of love and compassion. This old world will always be okay because of your and your husband's attitude. Thanks for sharing your pics and your story.
posted November 6th, 2010  
Gorgeous shot of your husband. A timeless image. This is the first fav I selected for many days. It is a special shot.
posted November 6th, 2010  
a wonderful, gritty portrait. thank you for sharing too about your husbands struggle. my dad had RA for many years, and it is a very painful, disabling disease for sure. Big hugs to you both....
posted November 6th, 2010  
I agree with H - you are an inspiration. I was recently telling my friend who has just had her foot fused, the first of her RA required ops, about your husband and your bravery and pro active life.Have to Fav it - lots of love x
posted November 6th, 2010  
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Thanks so much everyone,ive never been a portrait taker but just couldnt resist this one so thanks for all the lovely comments & for those of you who faved it xXx
posted November 6th, 2010  
A powerful portrait of a strong man
posted November 6th, 2010  
This is a wonderful portrait; you are certainly talented, Carole. I have RA too, but certainly not for as long as your husband and I can cope without having joints replaced as yet. I can appreciate the pain he's in and can only admire both of you for your attitudes to life and the way you make the most of every day. Good luck to you both, and keep taking these wonderful pictures.
posted November 6th, 2010  
Very nice, I love the grain effect!
posted November 6th, 2010  
Awesome portrait! An amazing story. Yeah, I missed a walk today for juvenile arthritis, a friend of mine's daughter has it. Would have loved to went, I just wasn't told, read it in the paper this morning. Will for sure do it next year. That's wonderful he gets to pick and choose, I pray the surgeries will help. :-)
posted November 6th, 2010  
I'm so impressed with how much you and your husband defy your health problems and embrace the world. You are an example to us all.
posted November 6th, 2010  
Wonderful shot. You feel the strength of his character in this photo. Great portrait. Wishing him support and love as he goes through life. It looks like he has that with you.
posted November 6th, 2010  
You are strong and brave. I count my blessings.
posted November 6th, 2010  
This portrait is very moving...you and your husband are both very brave....God bless you both!
posted November 6th, 2010  
This is a beautiful image of your husband. Thank you for sharing the story behind it.
posted November 6th, 2010  
Such a powerful and yet sad picture of your husband. def. a fav.. I give you both so much credit for enduring what life has given you both. wish I could make it easier for you. you both are in my thoughts and prayers.
posted November 6th, 2010  
I am very moved by the image of your husband before reading your description. The photo is what photography is all about, being able to move someone with a picture. Someday I hope to grasp that quality. Thank you for your comment on my photo.
posted November 6th, 2010  
You are an inspiration - for I know my pain threshold is very low and I am full of admiration for how much you do despite these obvious draw-backs.
posted November 6th, 2010  
A powerful image. Love to you both. :0)
posted November 6th, 2010  
Very powerful portrait.
posted November 6th, 2010  
Wonderful Image
A Fav
posted November 6th, 2010  
A wonderful portrait picture of the man in your life, so good you have each other to care for.
posted November 6th, 2010  
You have a wonderful way with eyes.
posted November 6th, 2010  
This is such a wonderful, powerful and emotional portrait of your husband. I'm so sorry to hear about all he's had to endure since such an early age. He's so strong and brave to fight on and live life to the fullest in the face of his pain.
posted November 7th, 2010  
Wonderful portrait! May God bless him and keep him in the palm of His holy hand.
posted November 7th, 2010  
Wow, a powerful photo, and with everything he has been through he has kept ongoing. What a mindset.
posted November 7th, 2010  
@redfl83 Your portrait has impacted many, it's now on the PP. Well deserved honor! Cheers!
posted November 7th, 2010  
very nice pic ,I wish only the best for him!!!!!!!
posted November 7th, 2010  
His hands have talked to all of us !!
posted November 7th, 2010  
Great portrait of your hubby Carole, hope the gig was good.
posted November 7th, 2010  
This is a wonderful photo and I totally understand your husband pain! Its wonderful knowing how much you both do things together and living life to the full.
posted November 7th, 2010  
You have a lot of followers and a lot of people favoriting this, including me. The reason I did was because this stood out as a very personal picture that meant something to the photographer. It is a personal look at something we don't see everyday. That is why I am following you now and favoriting this picture. Great picture of a very personal moment. :-)
posted November 7th, 2010  
Love it when pictures speak!
posted November 7th, 2010  
This is an awesome portrait! I am so sorry he lives in so much pain!
posted November 7th, 2010  
There is much soul in this portrait!! It's beautifully done, and the black and white make it powerful...
posted November 7th, 2010  
This is a fantastic capture. The grainy b/w works perfectly here. Very, very nicely done!
posted November 7th, 2010  
This is one of the best portraits I have ever seen!
posted November 7th, 2010  
I like this shot. Sorry to hear about your husband's pain.
posted November 7th, 2010  
RA is a very painful condition & he must be very brave to have put up with it for so long. Great portrait in B&W!
posted November 7th, 2010  
fantastic shot, so powerful
posted November 7th, 2010  
My husband's family has that--he and my older daughter have a mild form of it, I know how painful it can be. I'm sorry to read your husband has it so severely. I like the portrait--there's a sadness in it, however.
posted November 7th, 2010  
@clarissajohal I agree i think his espression is sad which is weird as he was super hyper for the gig x
posted November 7th, 2010  
*Expression even lol
posted November 7th, 2010  
What a sensitive and powerful portrait.l
posted November 7th, 2010  
Great portrait! So emotinal!
posted November 7th, 2010  
Agree with all
posted November 7th, 2010  
I'm so glad you commented on mine and I thank you because it caused me to look at yours. Wow! What a great photo on it's own terms, and such beautifully writter words. It's not just a great iPhone photo (which I love to do as well), it is a great photo.
posted November 7th, 2010  
fantastic photo
posted November 7th, 2010  
powerful.
posted November 7th, 2010  
Beautiful shot, love the processing!!!
posted November 7th, 2010  
A very powerful image that portrays the reality of RA. A beautiful photo.
posted November 7th, 2010  
This is absolutely one of the best potraits I've ever seen! I love the fact that the viewer can really get up close and personal with the subject matter. This is a photo that you want to look at again and again. Thank you for sharing this personal portrait.
posted November 7th, 2010  
What a great angle and fantastic close-up.
posted November 7th, 2010  
Your portrait has spoken in place of his hands. You've presented an awesome and inspiring shot for all of us to "listen" to.
posted November 7th, 2010  
Your words about your husband tell me that you are both amazing people...and this photo is just so powerful....wow. You did a nice job with the processing too!
posted November 8th, 2010  
Very powerful, inspiring, and beautiful.
posted November 8th, 2010  
Wonderful portrait!! :) A fav for sure :)
posted November 8th, 2010  
Wonderful you can see the pain in this image
posted November 8th, 2010  
Beautiful! It is absolutely brimming with feeling...
posted November 8th, 2010  
amazing portrait!
posted November 8th, 2010  
Wonderful portrait and sentiments. I am happy to follow you:)
posted November 8th, 2010  
What a powerful picture, the crop, the grain and his expression really jumps out at the viewer. A fave!
posted November 9th, 2010  
A strong photo of a strong man. May God bless and keep you both through the trials you face with R.A.
posted November 9th, 2010  
So powerful... both photo and story... It is amazing that despite what life throws at us, we can keep going and living life. :)
posted November 13th, 2010  
wow...such an evocative and beatiful photo with a heartbreaking caption....
posted November 21st, 2010  
Beautiful picture.
posted January 21st, 2011  
very poignant picture which reflects the pain behind it, your husband is very courageous, what a wonderful inspiration to others.
posted February 19th, 2011  
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