It´s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all by susale

It´s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all

My get-pushed challenge from @lindseying was to use a diptych to tell a story. So here´s the story, I think it needs no words.

Young people, gotta love them, they don´t care if I put their faces on internet.

I´m sorry for my absence, I´ve been sick but I´m better now. Thank you for all those concerns about my health. I´m so behind on commenting but will catch up with you this evening. I can´t wait to see what you all have been doing.
October 6th, 2013  
Fabulous for the challenge...so much happiness and sadness...in this...again so much thought too! awesome..rocking shot...glad u feel better!:)
October 6th, 2013  
You have captured both moods so well
October 6th, 2013  
its beautiful and sad at the same time! very emotional capture! great job done Susale!
October 6th, 2013  
Glad you're back!

Well portrayed story!
October 6th, 2013  
Very beautifully done!! Lovely couple btw!! Glad you are feeling better...get plenty of rest!
October 6th, 2013  
its wonderful to see you back Suse ... so glad that you are feeling better ... great words and really well conveyed through that pic.
October 6th, 2013  
♥♥♥♥♥ !!
October 6th, 2013  
True..... there's beauty in the sadness too...
Take care... good to hear your feeling better.
October 6th, 2013  
It definitely tells a story! Well done!
October 6th, 2013  
How powerful is this shot. Oh my word.

Loss is always going to be sad, but it seems the higher you fly the further you have to fall, and the two in the first section seem to be flying very high indeed.

Are these people you know?
October 6th, 2013  
Makes me think of a storyboard in a movie. Two shots is not much to tell a story, but you really did it. Clever use of the rose to pull the two shots together.
October 6th, 2013  
@kaesebiscuit Thank you G, Yes the girl is a daughter of one of my friend and her boyfried. The story of course is totally staged, the bf did not die, we didn´t hurt him, lol. She has done some real modeling when she was a child, they still use some of those early pics on advertising campaings. Anyway her modelling experience was a big help here, she did everything that was asked and no questions ask. This was a consept I always knew, right from the start of this project, that I would someday go into but needless to say I really really don´t like this!
October 6th, 2013  
@janim Oh you noticed the rose! Yes, it was the idea; the same kind of rose in both shots. I only hoped I could have had white roses but had to settle for pink ones,no flowershops were open and there only were pink ones at Prisma. Isin´t that what you always tell me, that I sould let the viewer´s imagination fill the caps, so I´m not sure what I would have done with more frames here.....and that missing third pic on the middle is really something I wouldn´t dare to go into.
October 6th, 2013  
Very creative, the two shots do tell the story.
October 6th, 2013  
Fab shot for your challenge ..... hope you are feeling better :)
October 6th, 2013  
@susale @janim I saw the rose too, but you two talking about it makes me wonder if it wouldn't be possible to use clever positioning to really link the two photos - have it stretch from the grave scene on the right, just seeing the stalk, across the divide, into the "before" shot. Is it still a diptych if you do that?

Nice to know you didn't have to kill any of your models, S. :) I wasn't even sure the girl in the second "half" was the same as the one in the first, since she's not face on, and her hair is different.
October 6th, 2013  
@kaesebiscuit That is an interesting idea, yeah it would work and I think it would still be a diptych. Thanks G :)
October 6th, 2013  
good to see you again on this site lovely picture
October 6th, 2013  
Glad you are feeling better and great to see you back. You do like to tug at the heartstrings! Wonderful diptych, love the colour and mono to bring out the emotions too. Superb.
October 6th, 2013  
Beautifully executed; I am glad that you are feeling better.
October 6th, 2013  
strong storytelling
October 6th, 2013  
Lovely ...
October 6th, 2013  
Zam
awesome job for the challenge!
October 6th, 2013  
@susale You're welcome :) Any time :)
October 6th, 2013  
Really emotional. Well taken and put together.
October 6th, 2013  
Very emotional and powerful photo, Susale. Very well thought out and executed. I am impressed with it from concept through execution.
October 6th, 2013  
Wonderful storytelling! Very emotional ! Beautiful couple too! So glad your back. Missed ya :-)
October 7th, 2013  
Very clever, I also noticed the rose and it is the link between the two shots.
October 7th, 2013  
The contrast in mood is emphasized by the contrast between warm colour and b&w. The young people you photographed are beautiful enough to be models. Very effective.
October 7th, 2013  
Wow -- this is really outstanding! You're telling such a sad story (whatever the supposed reason for the solitary figure in scene 2) and it works solely through the images. Well done!
October 7th, 2013  
Interesting diptych. Really tells a story. Glad you are feeling better, Suse!
October 7th, 2013  
Glad you're on the mend. What a wonderful creative story - words certainly aren't needed to convey strong emotions in this shot
October 7th, 2013  
glad you are better now, I read your answer, but I look so real
October 7th, 2013  
hi, suse. i'm your other half this week for the get pushed. i just saw your challenge and thank you for that. in return my challenge to you is "night street shot with light trails". here's a sample http://365project.org/summerfield/365-still/2013-04-23
and the famous michael elliott's magnificent photo http://365project.org/michaelelliott/365/2012-02-01
thank you.
October 7th, 2013  
Beautiful shots, and so glad you are feeling better now and recovered.
October 7th, 2013  
@summerfield Thank you for the challenge, I will try this most def. I don´t have access to those kind of light traisl as I don´t live in a big city but we´ll see what I can come by...
October 8th, 2013  
Wonderful, story telling images. Great job on your challenge, Suse! I hope you are feeling better. Sorry to read that you were sick.
October 8th, 2013  
This is great storytellling. I like the change of hairstyle - loose hair is often associated with youth in various cultures or periods of history - and having the young lady's hair tied back in the second image makes me think of the passage of time, and loss of innocence - through having to deal with the loss of a loved one in this case.
October 11th, 2013  
Ria
Emotions really show here;) Stay well now!
October 11th, 2013  
Sad and beautiful... and perfect for the challange!
October 12th, 2013  
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