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16th May 2012
Without her wings by tbats22

Without her wings

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I read a quote today that said " a woman without her sister is like a bird with no wings". It struck up this creativity for me. I know I've been gone for like a week and it's been weird let me tell ya. It's sad to say I let the popularity overrule the creativity draw to this site so I needed to break free from that. At first you only focus on yourself, your project. But suddenly you want the most followers, the most comments, a lot of favs, to be on pp, to be in top 20. Once I accomplished all that, then I was left thinking now what? I took a step back because I didn't start this for everyone else and to worry about what everybody else is doing. Thats what facebook is for(haha). I forgot that photography is my outlet. It is my release; a way to pinpoint what I am feeling at that moment. I was missing my sister so badly today and to be able to shoot something that represents that and to almost get it out of my system so to speak is theraputic and beautiful. THAT is why I started this project. I just needed to be reminded.

If you like music to set the mood, I've dived into this repetitively today
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DRVvFYppU0w&feature=channel&list=UL
Comments
Beautiful evocative image. It's gorgeous :)
posted May 16th, 2012  
Wonderful story..and so very true. Beautiful photo and wonderful music to match.
posted May 16th, 2012  
Great picture to capture your emotions Thanks for sharing!
posted May 17th, 2012  
The tones, composition and sentiment here are phenomenal. Really well done. And your creativity has definitely been missed! Glad you're back.
posted May 17th, 2012  
Love it, very powerful and very creative :-)
posted May 17th, 2012  
love the composition! so much emotion capture, love it!
posted May 17th, 2012  
Tiara, your words are so true. I have to remind myself again and again that I'm doing this project for me and not for others. It's great to reach the PP and it must be fantastic to be in top 20, but that wasn't the reason why I started my album. Thanks for sharing your thought with us
posted May 17th, 2012  
wonderful colors! :)
posted May 17th, 2012  
Beautiful capture and story...again, I must say you are so creative.
posted May 17th, 2012  
I love your thinking Tiara....I have been thinking along similar lines myself recently!....This capture is powerful & full of emotion & it tells a story!.....A true photography skill!
posted May 17th, 2012  
Your words are so insightful and have such truth! Love this image and the way you've processed it! The music is amazing too, thank you for sharing it!
posted May 17th, 2012  
By the way.....I realy loved that music, Amazing talent!.....Thank you for sharing with us! : )
posted May 17th, 2012  
This is beautiful Tiara. I love the folds of the blanket and the texture of the wall. There is an element of introspection and sensuality to this that makes it memorable. Nicely done.
posted May 17th, 2012  
I agree with Mike love the blanket
posted May 17th, 2012  
Brilliant and beautiful depiction of such raw emotion. Thank you for sharing, Tiara. Sounds like your head and heart are in the right spot!
posted May 17th, 2012  
+Fav. For as much the story as the beautiful and fitting photo.
posted May 17th, 2012  
So nicely done. Hits quite home with me. I miss my sister dearly and the quote is perfect.
posted May 17th, 2012  
A fav! To me, it really conveys that ache of missing someone.
posted May 17th, 2012  
Beautiful image, message and attitude!
posted May 17th, 2012  
This is terrific - I love your framing.
posted May 17th, 2012  
Love this! Great self-discovery...I think that is very common on this site. It's important to remind yourself every now and then why you do this :)
posted May 17th, 2012  
Beautiful shot and a powerful reminder for me as to why I am here. A fav for me!
posted May 17th, 2012  
Love everything about this photo. Beautiful!
posted May 17th, 2012  
Amazing photo and message. Thanks for the great pictures and the reminder to everyone
posted May 17th, 2012  
You must've attained all that, haha! We are still trying...but this is a very expressive shot. I miss my sister too.
posted May 17th, 2012  
very touching shot! you really set a mood. so true what you wrote! What did you do for the background? it really works well
posted May 17th, 2012  
True words and creative picture! Keep making photos the way you feel them!
posted May 17th, 2012  
very cool:)
posted May 17th, 2012  
This resonates with me as well. When I started this project I didn't know what PP or top 20 was. Thanks for reminding me to stay true to my original goal - improve my skills.
posted May 17th, 2012  
This is a fantastic shot Tiara - it ticks so many boxes for me that I won't list them all :) Love your comment too - so right!
posted May 17th, 2012  
Great powerful shot, I think it always shows when i photo has feelings behind it =) - nice music too!
posted May 17th, 2012  
great sentiment Tiara. I understand
posted May 17th, 2012  
Beautiful, soft and delicate :)
posted May 17th, 2012  
You made the PP, isn't that funny? :) Lovely feel to this image, it and your caption certainly seem to resonate with others.
posted May 17th, 2012  
This is real art. We are fortunate that photography is your release and that you are willing to put yourself out there. Glad you're back!
posted May 17th, 2012  
This is absolutely beautifull. Is it a self portrait?
posted May 17th, 2012  
Love it! Fav
posted May 17th, 2012  
I do like everything about the photo and the caption! Well done!
posted May 17th, 2012  
This resonates with me on so many levels! Beautiful shot! Fav!
posted May 17th, 2012  
very pretty and emotional.
posted May 17th, 2012  
Faved and Followed. I love your photo - but I love your words even more. This has become my learning curve and my journal. I realized it is for me - not anyone else. If they like what I do or say that is icing.
Thank you for laying it all out.
posted May 17th, 2012  
One of the finer photographs to come through in a very long time. Well done and so easy to look at.
posted May 17th, 2012  
This is amazing, I keep looking at it and haven't come up with a suitable comment. But I love it. Colours, textures, composition are wonderful. This conveys the emotion beautifully.

I love what you have said about this being your creative outlet - I didn't post a picture that I'd taken the other day because it was an emotional one and I didn't want to be putting my "emotional stuff" on show, so I shot a macro instead and put that up - but it was not as good. this is brilliantly done.

Amusingly your photo that was just for you, to capture how you felt, not to feed the popularity machine.... has made the popular page ;)
posted May 17th, 2012  
Very powerful image!!
posted May 17th, 2012  
Big fav Tiara!!!!! I mean BIG!
posted May 17th, 2012  
This is beautiful photo. Besides amazing colors and object, I love the wall behind. Was that shot as is or modified in post processing ? It looks fantastic. Fav.
posted May 17th, 2012  
Lovely photo and soooo true... I'm regularly bogged down by hoping for comments, favs, feedback and one day making the elusive pp nevermind the top 20... I need a reality check sometimes to remind myself my project is for me... you've inspired me to think of something creative for today's pic... xx
posted May 17th, 2012  
So eloquent - so beautifully portrayed - fabulously divine - Fav!
posted May 17th, 2012  
@vickisfotos @bardejov I messed around with the texture overlays in picmonkey :)
posted May 17th, 2012  
@robv @limpet365 Quite ironic making pp huh?! :)
posted May 17th, 2012  
@cornefunproject Yes it is!
posted May 17th, 2012  
@hown That means so much to me!
posted May 17th, 2012  
@cdonohoue @limpet365 Photos with feeling and meaning behind it mean more to me than a shot of a flower or a tree that anybody can take. Your feelings are unique and only you feel them, so it makes your pieces 100% original. Dont ever hold back
posted May 17th, 2012  
Well done, lady! Love the photo and your words. I've been missing you...hoping that everything was ok. I've struggled with some of those feelings as well...the wanting to be popular and the best, etc. It's refreshing when you see those feelings for what they are, and come back to why you are doing what you do.

I still haven't done my selfie. It seems that whenever I think to my skin is flawed or some other excuse. Wish you could come over and help me:).
posted May 17th, 2012  
this is such a beautiful portrait Tiara and your words, they are so true. fav for me
posted May 17th, 2012  
Beautiful words and beautiful photo. That's how I look at it too.
posted May 17th, 2012  
@amandalomonaco oh girl Ive missed you too! Hope your settled in nicely now :) And I would so come and help you if I could!
posted May 17th, 2012  
Very powerful capture, love your work!
posted May 17th, 2012  
This is incredible. Fantastic processing.
posted May 17th, 2012  
Very emotive shot. Very well executed.
posted May 17th, 2012  
love this!!
posted May 17th, 2012  
Glad your back! Beautiful shot. Love the processing. and your message is so so true.
posted May 17th, 2012  
Gorgeous selfie again Tiara. I felt EXACTLY the same a couple of weeks ago. Just enjoying the ride now, not trying to drive the train ;)
posted May 17th, 2012  
Wonderful selfie
posted May 17th, 2012  
oh Tiara! I'm with my sister, temporarily right now and I feel for you! I LOVE this shot.....it brings out many different emotions...well done!
posted May 17th, 2012  
Honest & eloquent words and portrait
posted May 17th, 2012  
Amazing capture, full of emotion!
posted May 18th, 2012  
@robv Exactly!
posted May 18th, 2012  
Beautiful!
posted May 18th, 2012  
Boy how did I miss this one... Fantastic.
posted May 18th, 2012  
Great image. Great sentiment.
posted May 18th, 2012  
brilliant image and processing
posted May 18th, 2012  
This looks so like a painting. It's beautiful! "Better to write for yourself and have no public, than to write for the public and have no self.” ~ Cyril Connolly said this about writing. I think it applies to all forms of art. It takes a lot of focus to remain focussed on your art. Thanks for reminding me. :)
posted May 18th, 2012  
nice photo....
posted May 18th, 2012  
So so so love this one! How did I miss it? fav, of course!
posted May 18th, 2012  
true words. I went through the same thing on this site. I finished my project last month. My project had some great moments and of course some not so great moments. Now I just use this as a way to stay updated with the friends I made and post every now and then with a more journalistic approach. Life gets busy and I don't have much time to worry about having "the best" photo. :) A fav because I totally relate!
posted May 18th, 2012  
great shot & great words and a fav
posted May 18th, 2012  
fantastic, fav and follow
posted May 18th, 2012  
388 views ! talented woman ! Stay true to yourself and rock on !
posted May 18th, 2012  
WOW awesome - had to be a fav - just stunning
posted May 18th, 2012  
This is spectacular... it is a fav... tells a great story.... I think if we always stay true to ourselves that is when the real artist shines!
posted May 18th, 2012  
Very well said. Again. I started this project just to have a diary of my year. What was I doing on that day?? I then started taking photos that had nothing to do with my day just so that they got the most views. Now...I don't really care if I don't get any comments or favs. It's not what I came on here for. But this is a great photo btw and that quote I totally empathise with.
posted May 18th, 2012  
amazing shot! really well done
posted May 18th, 2012  
Incredible shot and sentiment, I admire your wonderful and refreshing honesty
posted May 18th, 2012  
I totally understand...the last three weeks have been a challenged. I got so caught up in posting oly what might be PP worthy, only to fin out that one of it was, apparently. ;) Posted filler for a while, but then remembered why I was here--to explore and improve my skill. Not to entertain others. Funny how popularity is still an issue at 35...I thought I was leaving that behind in high school! :)
posted May 19th, 2012  
beautiful image and sentiment!
posted May 19th, 2012  
I really love this image but I love the words even more. When will you get to visit with your sister next?
posted May 19th, 2012  
It`s like a fine master piece of art. It does tell story and has great color and composition!! love this!
posted May 19th, 2012  
@kimmistephens Im not sure. I hope in the next few months
posted May 19th, 2012  
Congrats on top 20!!!! Well deserved!
posted May 19th, 2012  
A picture speaks a thousand words silently and makes people think and reflect. Job done!
posted May 19th, 2012  
This is spectacular and your words are beautiful. Keep taking photos just for you, and the results will be as smashing as this.
posted May 19th, 2012  
"Ditto" to all the above! I certainly understand the feelings you express- even though I never given thought to the popular page, I have not posted photos on many days simply because I had none that interesting enough that anyone else would want to see. Partly because there are so many very creative and interesting pics posted each day by others, that I do enjoy seeing- including yours. I will start today, inspired by your message of the day, to post a photo a day no matter how uninteresting!!
posted May 19th, 2012  
Ian
Brilliant photo
posted May 20th, 2012  
I love this photograph and I love your story! I also think, that if I like my photos, they will attract the public that really likes what I do :)
posted May 20th, 2012  
such a lovely shot ....
posted May 21st, 2012  
Sorry, I am behind on commenting but great shot and agree with your words!
posted May 21st, 2012  
congratulations on Top 20!!!
posted May 22nd, 2012  
So now I'll go to tell my sister that quote..
posted May 26th, 2012  
Beautiful..
posted October 22nd, 2012  
A great shot. Fav!
posted October 23rd, 2012  
I decided to dig back through some people's pictures back before I was on the site to see how they've developed, and I just read the description for this one. I went through the same thing wanting favs and follows (though I don't think I've ever been top 20 - honestly I just learned that was a thing a couple days ago). I think it's common for people to get excited about the popularity and lose sight of the whole point. It's just so fun to have people reaffirm that you're doing something worthwhile. For example, when people respond to every single comment from anyone saying thanks, it kind of bothers me because I feel like that's missing the point.

Anyway... while I realize the irony because now I'm someone telling you I like your work, I was just going to tell you that I appreciate your perspective on the purpose of the site, and I can tell there's some steady improvement in your work, so you're clearly doing something right.

p.s. I'm not calling your earlier stuff bad! ;)
posted January 17th, 2013  
Wow this is so beautiful!!
posted January 19th, 2013  
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