Winky Wink by alophoto

Winky Wink

Alternate title: Big Sister, Little Sister

Last Friday, a 365 friend, MaryBeth Daily, helped me to realize the need to stop and smell the flowers more often. The need to take a break and relax. I kept posting all these relaxing photos of vacation, these seats to kick back in and I realized that I only took their photo, I didn't sit down to take in the scene and enjoy it, snapped some shots and went back to my bustling life.

So last Friday, I went for a run, planned to go to the gym next and thought "Darn it, slow down already!!" It was my last couple hours of the kids being away at VBS and they would be home with me for the rest of the summer...weeks of kids full time. I decided that I can work out anytime, but a peaceful stroll alone through a sunflower field, that is not something I can easily do with them. I set off with my camera to the flowers. I so need to stop being so driven by time, driven by guilt...need to take time for myself in ways other than just sitting at the computer, too.

That morning, I thoroughly enjoyed God's glorious creation! And I even took the time to smell a flower. It was yummy. Hope that you can take the time to see and enjoy the beautiful world, too! And shoot a photo and upload it on here so we all can enjoy it, too, would you?
@espyetta Thank you for helping me to see better. Here is what I got to enjoy the day I took some time for me:). I went back again with Mike on our date that night which is when he took the photo of me all gussied up in my non Sewer Tart garb.
July 29th, 2014  
Great shot, love the focus and detail
July 29th, 2014  
Wonderful focus and POV Amanda. FAV
July 29th, 2014  
I really love this Amanda...so happy and great focus!
July 29th, 2014  
glorious,spot on ....fav
July 29th, 2014  
Always love sunflowers and share your sentiment completely - but I am quite good at living life in the slow lane.
July 29th, 2014  
Beautiful
July 29th, 2014  
Fabulous! Fav!
July 29th, 2014  
Lou
Lady, I love this, and I am a self-proclaimed top-notch anti-flower-photography snob. I love what this stands for. For most flower photos I see, I get the feeling the artist did exactly what you mentioned about the relaxation shots - doing it only for the picture, not for the moment. They're pretty, but hollow. This one is not missing the substance. Kudos to you!

Also, the idea behind the title is a genius observation :)
July 29th, 2014  
fav lovely photo
July 29th, 2014  
wow beautiful
July 29th, 2014  
Gorgeous colors!
July 29th, 2014  
@graemestevens Thanks, Graham!! I went all creepy yesterday with a Shining shot and one of me with a gun (eek) and had to sweeten it up with some color and something flowery. How's it going sans cigarettes? Hurt anyone yet?

@lindacarol Thanks so much, Linda. Really appreciate that!

@nanderson Awesome, thanks, Nancy. I needed some color this afternoon to brighten things up.

@philipmad1 Thanks so much for that, Phillip!

@jocasta How to be slow? It's hard with young kids...and my wiring. Must be slow more and just be. Take time to think and all that. Thank you!

@kerristephens Thanks, Miss Kerri!!

@juliac Oh thanks so much, Julia!!

@louuncouth You have the best comments, my friend. So well put and thought out. I tend to be...nice photo or love this or...blah, blah blah...not much. Thank you for your great words. So appreciate them. I, too, am not normally a big huge fan of flower shots. I take them at times, but the flower has got to be pretty darn spectacular for me to bother. And there always has to be a story behind it...always...otherwise, it's just another pretty face:).

@gerry Thanks so much for that, Gerry. Would you mind repushing the button?:) Appreciate your kind thoughts and words!

@pittcj17 Thank you so much, Cindy!!

@sassyinma It was so cheery to see these pretty flowers. Thanks, Sandi!!
July 29th, 2014  
Glad you sniffed them too. There's a sunflower field near my home, this year it's not doing well, too much rain early in the season. I'm actually planning on stopping there to check out the progress after work today. I will be leading a hike there next week with a Meetup group.I love the brightness and the dof here.
July 29th, 2014  
A wonderful shot. Fav
July 29th, 2014  
@bill_fe I almost didn't and then though...you gotta smell the flowers...sheesh. They smelled surprisingly good. I had no idea how sunflowers smelled before, at least not fresh in a field. Hope your trip is equally relaxing and peaceful. Yeah for meet ups!!! Thanks, Bill!! Did you see my gun response? It is a Colt .38 revolver.
July 29th, 2014  
I'll have to take the time to sniff them. They are allowing people to actually go into the field for photos this year. Last year you wouldn't be able to, they were so thick.
July 29th, 2014  
Beautiful shot fav!
July 29th, 2014  
Loved it on fb and love it here!was hoping you would post it so I could fav it!
July 29th, 2014  
A very happy photo!
July 29th, 2014  
Good on you for slowing down, stopping, smelling and absorbing. Went for a walk alone the other night and vastness of the sky just got me, in a peaceful way.
July 29th, 2014  
@newbank Sounds amazing. Love that, lady!!
July 29th, 2014  
FAV... love your focus and dof! Just beautiful!
July 29th, 2014  
fantastic all the better for sitting back and taking it all in Beautiful colour and composition
July 29th, 2014  
Great shot
July 29th, 2014  
I know where this was taken....
July 29th, 2014  
Great composition! I enjoy these much more than the macabre.
July 29th, 2014  
@sjoblues Thanks so much for telling me about it. I went last Friday, maybe the morning after I saw your photos. And yes, the place was crawling with photographers.
July 29th, 2014  
@skipt07 Yeah, I can see that, but I do like a good mixing it up. I like to not have any set style or subject. And I do love to tell a story. I tend to do more light and fun than macabre, though. I'm comic relief moreso than dark, typically:). thanks, skip!
July 29th, 2014  
Fabulous capture, love it. FAV.
July 29th, 2014  
Wonderful sunflowers. Well captured Amanda. It's nice to slow down and take a break from time to time.
July 29th, 2014  
wonderful colours, kiddo. methinks i need a break, i'm running out of gas with ideas and subjects. and i need to find a sunflower field!!!
July 29th, 2014  
@summerfield Come on over...I'll share mine, but come quick while they are still purty. Maybe just don't worry about a shot a day. Shoot when you feel like it and post what you like. That's what I do:).
July 29th, 2014  
Awesome detail and focus. Love the title too.
July 29th, 2014  
Van Gogh will die from jealousy if he's alive today- Favulous:)
July 29th, 2014  
What a wonderful story Amanda, so glad you decided to have some "me time", that's always hard when you have little ones but probably the time of life when you need it most.
July 29th, 2014  
WONDERFUL! That's all.
July 30th, 2014  
Gorgeous shot fav
July 30th, 2014  
@amandal - Amanda, since there is no way that I am aware of for communicating other than this way with fellow 365ers, I wanted to say, please don't read too much into my post. You are the artist and you create art. Usually not everyone is going to like everything an artist creates. But there are those rare occasions when some do. Some people have favorite authors and as soon as a new book comes out, they gobble them up. I see you have many followers and some might even wait with baited breath for your next posting of a photograph. I just made a comment on a personal preference of mine. Please don't think I was suggesting that you stop being creative. It's just that with all the bad things that we are bombarded with in the news that is going on in the world today, I prefer seeing things that make me feel good for a change. ツ
July 30th, 2014  
Love sunflowers. Sooo pretty!
July 30th, 2014  
Beautiful bright sunflowers! Fav!
July 30th, 2014  
we've had gray skies today, so this is a great stand in for sunshine :)
July 30th, 2014  
@skipt07 Wait, so you are saying that ax murderers make you feel bad? Just kidding. Really do appreciate your great comments, Skip. Thank you for them. And I so get what you are saying.

@jsw0109 We've had so many gray days this summer. And it's cold now, too...fall like. Don't much mind that, though. Thanks, Jeff!!
July 30th, 2014  
beautifully captured...
July 30th, 2014  
Wonderful shot, Amanda, beautiful crispness, composition and colour!
July 30th, 2014  
Awesome. You have really taken your work to a higher level. FAV
July 30th, 2014  
Love this bright, sunny pic!!! Fav!!! So glad you took a few moments for yourself! Reminds me of my fav quote from Ferris Bueller "Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you might miss it".
July 30th, 2014  
@amandal It's going, and I nearly hurt myself today!
July 30th, 2014  
What a beautiful photo and a unique opportunity...I love how the one flower is open and the other is closed! Congratulations on the Trending Page! Well deserved! FAV
July 30th, 2014  
A wonderful happy picture! You have an extremely creative side, always keeping us on our toes! love it. FAV
July 30th, 2014  
Aww this is so delighful and so happy, love the light and that blinking sister
July 30th, 2014  
Such an awesome shot, Amanda. Love the detail you captured and the beautiful colors too. Love your alternate title. Wise words given to you and passed along as so many of us focus on getting those shots and not enjoying the moment or some time at a beautiful place. FAV
July 30th, 2014  
How beautiful! Great that you are stopping and appreciating all that is around you.
July 30th, 2014  
so much fun in this photo girl! I love the winking one!
July 30th, 2014  
Bright and cheerful and a fav
July 30th, 2014  
Wow! I agree with Danny G. - so very cheerful!
July 30th, 2014  
DSP
Gorgeous shot of these sunflowers! stunning. Fav. Btw thanks for the follow :))
July 30th, 2014  
Oh this is brilliant. Love that bright colour xx
July 30th, 2014  
Wow - very bright and cheerful!
July 31st, 2014  
This is gorgeous Amanda, love the composition and colour and the walk sounds wonderful.
July 31st, 2014  
wow! yes taking time is well worth it - beautiful - love it!
July 31st, 2014  
Love your story, the composition and brilliant colors. This just radiates happiness! Fav.
August 1st, 2014  
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Wow, guys...thanks so much for your awesome comments, words, thoughts and faves for this shot. Blown away by your response. Thank you. Take some time out to enjoy, think, take a breather. A great life lesson.
August 1st, 2014  
Love both titles and the beautiful shot! So glad you enjoyed your peaceful stroll!
August 2nd, 2014  
You're right, Amanda. We've got to be more mindfull and give ourselves a breat in time :)!
I love this great, wonderfully screen filling, cheerfull flower shot! FAV
August 4th, 2014  
wow. this is beautiful, amanda. gorgeous, bright and sunny shot.
August 4th, 2014  
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