'we grieve, not as those who have no hope... by bcurrie

'we grieve, not as those who have no hope...

...my hope is in You' (I thess 4:13, psalm 39:7)

another photo from our trip to colorado, but i just couldn't bring myself to take one today. we went to a funeral this afternoon. a 43 year old man, who leaves behind his wife and a brand-new, one week old baby boy. his wife is the sister of some of our best friends, and it has been heart-breaking and also amazing to be witnesses to this journey. heart-breaking because of the deep, intense loss his family is experiencing. but amazing to see how God has walked ahead of them, orchestrating miracles in His providence.
i thought this shot captured all the emotions i've had today. sadness. longing. hope. and thankfulness for my husband.
i can't imagine how it would feel losing someone i love so much, or someone who is so very much a part of who i am. but i know One who knows exactly how it feels. and my hope is in Him.
Great verses, horribly saddening story. May the Lord see fit to bless her in these troubling times.
August 21st, 2010  
Heartbreaking story, brett... the photo captured the mood of the sentiments.....
August 21st, 2010  
My heart goes out to that woman...what a terribly painful time for her. My prayers are with you and your friends.
August 21st, 2010  
great verse to go along with your lovely shot. I can see how you would feel all of those emotions from it. I will be praying for this man's wife in this very heartbreaking time.
August 21st, 2010  
Great
August 21st, 2010  
Oh my goodness that is what happens when I use my phone to leave comments....i was coming to tell you that the difference between how I felt yesterday and today its night and day....but after reading this I just dont feel like that matters much. God's plan is bigger than any that we can understand...but in that also we can find hope. Prayers to your friends
August 21st, 2010  
Thoughts and prayers to your friends. It is probably one of the most difficult things to adjust to, if youever do. It is extremely difficult, but as you said, we do have one who is able to hold us up through it all.
August 21st, 2010  
Beautiful shot. Beautiful words.
August 21st, 2010  
This is gorgeous, great shot!
August 21st, 2010  
I dont want to know what its like to loose someone so close either :(( I I know I will eventually.... but I surely hope not soon. not ever :(
August 21st, 2010  
Wow, quite moving.
August 21st, 2010  
so very sad---will say prayers for the family---beautiful picture to show your feelings
August 21st, 2010  
HC
I am so sorry for the loss! Everything you said is beautiful and I couldn't agree with you more.
August 21st, 2010  
Nice, thoughtful shot with the silhouette. I don't like funerals, and it's sobering to get that perspective...but important to have that perspective.
August 21st, 2010  
I, too, am sorry for the loss of this man who means so much to so many different persons. Grief is a difficult emotion -- and then it makes you afraid for your other loved ones. Your photo is beautiful but more important it serves as a wonderful bridge to the emotions of your story.
August 21st, 2010  
a beautiful sentiment and a stunning photo to capture that
August 21st, 2010  
I'm so sorry! The emotion in this picture is perfect for this story. I will keep this family in my prayers!!
August 21st, 2010  
I'm so very sorry to hear of this loss. Such a hard, hard thing. I really love the scripture you have chosen .... and your description is so tender and full of your heart. The photo expresses the emotions so perfectly.
August 21st, 2010  
tearing up as I read this. I think you are right that this photo captures the day and all the emotion, grief and longing in it.
August 21st, 2010  
I'm so sorry to hear this :(
I wish I knew what else to say.
I hope you're all alright
August 21st, 2010  
Re: comment--and emergency camel photo? haha Where did you take that? Can hardly wait to see it.
August 21st, 2010  
Ugh--okay, now that I've read your post, that does away with my "beautiful photo" comment. I'm so sorry for that family, I can't even imagine.
August 21st, 2010  
Re: comment--okay, your Israel camel shot trumps my NC cow shot....
August 21st, 2010  
thanks so much for your kind words everyone. this is a special place, to be able to share not only the good moments but the sad ones as well--thanks for letting me share, and for sharing the sorrow with me.
August 21st, 2010  
Beautiful photo, Brett, and a really sad story... The little baby boy will bring some joy to his sadden mom...
August 21st, 2010  
Perfect photo with the silhouette. Your words are spoken so well. I am so sorry for your loss and hard times. I will be praying for you and this family.
August 21st, 2010  
Beautiful photo and such a sad story. My thoughts are with everyone.
August 21st, 2010  
Beautiful photo to go with such a loss, I hope that family finds great joy with a new baby. Its amazing how children can mend such broken hearts.
Thinking of you, your friends and the family concerned.
xxoo
August 22nd, 2010  
Brett, your testamony brought tears to my eyes. What a heartbreaking loss for that young family, but how good that you can can be there to offer solace when they'll need it so badly. You're such a good soul, I'm honored to know you on all the levels we share. I'm sorry you have to walk through this sadness, but I know your faith sees hope ahead. You were so sweet to take the time to stop by with a birthday note for me...you know how much that means and I thank you for that. Your gift with that message is a renewed appreciation for my own relationship, and a prayer for that new mother and her baby. Thanks, Brett...
August 22nd, 2010  
Your photo captures the emotions perfectly. Prayers.
August 22nd, 2010  
So sorry for your loss Brett. You're in my thoughts.
August 22nd, 2010  
So sorry for the sadness that their family and you are experiencing. Oh for the day when we shall shee Him as He is, and death will have lost its power and there will be no more tears.
Thanks for sharing this with your familiy on 365.
August 22nd, 2010  
Brett, I am so sorry to hear of this loss. The loss of my father five years ago has been on my mind a lot lately. He knew that he had had a good life of 72 years before he succumbed to melanoma, but he still grieved over a family friend who lost her battle to melanoma in her 40's. Loss is never easy, and the pain never completely goes away. Your words of wisdom, comfort and inspiration are invaluable. Thank you for sharing the message of hope during the time of pain. A big hug & God bless ...

p.s. everyone, please, wear sunscreen & and a wide brimmed hat when you are out in the sun.
August 22nd, 2010  
Trying to catch up on photos from the week and just saw this lovely image and touching words. I can't imagine that kind of loss, and count my blessings everyday. Sending warmth your way.
August 23rd, 2010  
I can't imagine going through something like this without the comfort of the Lord. I praise God for His sovereignty and steadfast love.
August 24th, 2010  
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