My Valentine by cdonohoue

My Valentine

When I got up this morning my husband of darn near 32 years had left a huge kalanchoe plant on the kitchen table. That is why he is still my husband.
In all seriousness, he is an incurable romantic - and I wouldn't have it any other way. He came home from work with a new CD to listen to during our steak dinner - yes, he grills out in February. I even made dessert. That is Valentine's Day for us. We've been blessed to spend so many of them together. I was 30 years old with two young sons when we got married and I am still crazy in love with him. He still makes me laugh out loud. We have had good times and incredible times. We've had some tough years to weather, also. Nobody that is in it for the long haul can deny that those times come. Our rough ones have mostly been health related, the loss of loved ones. Raising those two young boys into the men that they are today wasn't always easy - but we did a pretty good job of it. He is an incredible father and grandfather. I'm still surprised that he married me. After living through a lousy marriage I had some very set views of what I would and would not live with again in my life. He agreed to all of them. In June we will celebrate our 32nd wedding anniversary. When he came home from work he didn't even bat an eye at the Christmas lights taped to the kitchen wall. Did I say how much I love him?
We know he is a keeper and he is pretty lucky to have such a wonderful wife too! i like your shot!
February 15th, 2013  
Vee
How gorgeous! Love the tiny heart shaped bokeh on the heart! How'd you manage that!?
February 15th, 2013  
well done cathy... love the heart bokeh :)
February 15th, 2013  
@grammyn After all these years I better be keeping him.
@vskolnik I used a paper punch and made a lens hood out of construction paper. Now you know all my secrets.
February 15th, 2013  
Your narrative is beyond sweet, and the bokeh is lovely.
February 15th, 2013  
Awww, Cathy, because I like you so much I'm going to share one of my favorite romantic songs with you. Happy Valentine's Day
http://youtu.be/euoEImhTkDg
February 15th, 2013  
Love the picture... and the story.
February 15th, 2013  
Oh, this does my heart good!!!! So very sweet. Great capture, and I love your bokeh.
February 15th, 2013  
Aw! This is so gorgeous but your story is better
February 15th, 2013  
What you say could come right out of my mouth! You say exactly what I would say about my love! I particularly like the fact he can still make me laugh!
February 15th, 2013  
@sugarmuser Thanks, Sharon. I have to keep my hand in. Have to find some white lights.
@soboy5 Thanks, Danny. I am betting you are a romantic after seeing those gorgeous roses.
@cromwell Why thank you. I am listening as I type.
@katieannb Thanks Katie. My first ever attempt at journaling.
@yonnie Thank you Yvonne. Happy Valentine's DAy.
February 15th, 2013  
@maggiemae I think we have to keep laughing. What do you have without that?
February 15th, 2013  
What a wonderful shot!
February 15th, 2013  
Happy Valentines Day, Cathy! No need to ask if you had a good one - Tom sounds like a keeper!
February 15th, 2013  
It is so wonderful to hear a love story such as yours. Beautiful shot!
February 15th, 2013  
How sweet of your husband! I love your shot and your heart shaped bokeh!
February 15th, 2013  
Nice shot. Sounds like a match made in heaven. Oh.. I grill all year also.
February 15th, 2013  
I like your heart bokeh! I am glad that you have had 32 years of love!
February 15th, 2013  
This is gorgeous. Love your words and your heart bokeh. You and your hubby have a very sweet story. Fav!
February 15th, 2013  
I love your photo and your story even more! I too, have finally found my love and we have been together for almost two years now! Yes, he bought me roses and cooked dinner. I think he's a keeper!
February 15th, 2013  
Wonderful story and lovely photo! Thank you for sharing it all with us.
February 15th, 2013  
Sounds like there are actually two romantics in your home! I was saying amens to all your statements (Jeff and I will celebrate number 34 in June) for Jeff and I have had those similar experiences in going through life together (only we married young and had two sons instead). But I must confess, Jeff has not seen some of my crazy set-ups or 365 doodads. I try to have them out of the way by the time he gets home! lol Nice sparkles and lights!
February 15th, 2013  
Aw...I want to be able to say those things in years to come. Beautiful image for a lovely valentine couple. Perfect!
February 15th, 2013  
Tom
Nice Bokeh Cathy! Great description too!
February 15th, 2013  
Stunning clarity and bokeh
February 15th, 2013  
Delicious Bokeh!!
February 15th, 2013  
Love the Wow Factor :)
February 15th, 2013  
Beautiful capture - it would make a lovely card too :)
Your hubby sounds wonderfully romantic!
February 15th, 2013  
A terrific story and I'm glad that your hubby is a "keeper". Love the picture with that marvellous bokeh (template on the frint of the lens?). If my wife had found Christmas lights stuck to a wall, she would just shrug and remind me to clean up the mess afterwards!
February 15th, 2013  
Awwww what a fabulous story, and he sounds like an amazing man. The shot is gorgeous, love the bokeh.
February 15th, 2013  
Beautiful! Both the shot and your marriage ;)
February 15th, 2013  
Aww beautiful words and made me chuckle at the end! Big smile on my face too. Best wishes to the both of you x
February 15th, 2013  
Oh thats a lovely tribute to both of you........how lovely and yes, laughter is so important.......lovely bokeh too!!
February 15th, 2013  
Lovely Valentine's capture!!
February 15th, 2013  
Awwww - what a great story!
February 15th, 2013  
A pat on the back for your man!!!
February 15th, 2013  
Pea
What an amazing story and image. The bokeh is great!
February 15th, 2013  
So pretty - well done hubby and great shot Cathy!
February 15th, 2013  
Beautiful
February 15th, 2013  
Very nice heart shaped bokeh!
February 17th, 2013  
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