Best Day Of My Life. by darrenboyj

Best Day Of My Life.

June 13th: Wedding.

9th October 2010. The best day of my life. I married my soulmate and best friend Paul. We met in 1995 as penpals after answering an ad from a TV teletext page believe it or not!

In 2015 we will celebrate 20 years together. We've had some tough times along the way and it hasn't been easy - but one thing's for sure, we're still very happy together and the support we offer one another continues to grow.

This is for you Paul - you truly are amazing (just the way you are).

Civil partnerships in the United Kingdom, granted under the Civil Partnership Act 2004, give same-sex couples rights and responsibilities identical to civil marriage. Civil partners are entitled to the same property rights as married opposite-sex couples, the same exemption as married couples on inheritance tax, social security and pension benefits, and also the ability to get parental responsibility for a partner's children, as well as responsibility for reasonable maintenance of one's partner and their children, tenancy rights, full life insurance recognition, next of kin rights in hospitals, and others. There is a formal process for dissolving partnerships akin to divorce.
Beautiful- such a lovely idea and sentiment! Congratulations :)
June 13th, 2013  
wow
June 13th, 2013  
Sue
Wonderful shot .... congratulations! :P
June 13th, 2013  
Very nicely composed shot. Congrats on having found Paul and doing so well :)
June 13th, 2013  
@tillycarter Thank you very much Krista :)
June 13th, 2013  
June 13th, 2013  
@redpants Thanks Sue :)
June 13th, 2013  
@anazad511 Thank you very kindly for the wonderful comment :)
June 13th, 2013  
Nice composition Darren. I like the way the light is reflecting off the rings onto the certificate. Best wishes to you and Paul!
June 13th, 2013  
@fishy cheers matey :) appreciate you taking time to comment.
June 13th, 2013  
A lovely shot. Thank you for the information on civil partnerships which I found very interesting as I was not aware of all of it. I think your stoy of how you met will give hope to others looking for their soulmate.
June 13th, 2013  
This is an awesome shot. Your pure joy in your relationship with Paul is obvious through so many of your shots and commentaries.
June 13th, 2013  
Nice Darren. You got married on my birthday :)
June 13th, 2013  
Nicely done Darren and I like the idea of having the certificate under your rings. There's someone out there for every one of us and you've obviously found the one meant for you.
June 13th, 2013  
nicely composed great shot
June 13th, 2013  
This is great shot Darren! How wonderful for you both! Here in Australia same sex couples sadly don't have those rights yet.
June 13th, 2013  
Many congratulations to you both. Finally glad to see this happening. Should be nationwide. As longvas you are happy who gives a flying fig what sex you are. AWESOME
June 13th, 2013  
Thats great, congratulations to you both.
June 13th, 2013  
Lovely, lovely capture of your special day.
June 13th, 2013  
Congratulations! Fabulous shot.
June 13th, 2013  
So 13 cán be a lucky number :) I hope that Paul and you live happily ever after :) CONGRATULATIONS !!!!!!!! It's so very important that the same-sex couples have been given the same rights (and responsibilities) as heterosexuals!!!!!! I'm hetero but have many lesbian and gay friends and it hurts to see them being discriminated or worse in some countries... Good for you, you're married! Carpe diem, life can be so short!
June 13th, 2013  
very beautiful Darren congratulations to you and Paul yes I tend to agree with Marloes comment
June 13th, 2013  
Lovely shot! Congrats to you both!
June 13th, 2013  
Lovely photo and story. Congratulations! :)
June 13th, 2013  
Beautifully done Darren and Congratulations to you both :)
June 13th, 2013  
well what can i say, thanks to everyone for there very kind comments, and a very, very big thankyou to darren for the past 18 years of my life. heres to growing old together. love you and love the photo too x.
June 13th, 2013  
congratulations! beautiful shot for a wonderful celebration
June 13th, 2013  
A beautiful image for the word of the day and a wonderful story to accompany it. Here's to both of you: hope you'll continue to find joy and fulfilment in each other.
June 13th, 2013  
Beautiful shot, Darren. Congratulations to you and Paul on your many happy years together. 18 years is a great accomplishment and I wish you both many, many more together. You are right, it isn't always easy but it is worth the time and work it takes. My union is 42 years this year! Ups and downs all over the place but still with the man I was meant to be with... Sounds like you two have that too.
June 13th, 2013  
Congratulations! Lovely shot. Perfect composition.
June 13th, 2013  
Aww, congratulations to you both. 18 years is amazing. Here's to lots more. What a great shot to celebrate it with. Love the colours and composition here.
June 13th, 2013  
Aww! Lovely shot Darren! Congratulation!
June 13th, 2013  
Great shot and love the silver
June 13th, 2013  
Beautiful shot Darren ...... I do now have that Bruno Mars song going through my head now!
Hope you and Paul are going to do something special to celebrate 20 years together :)
June 13th, 2013  
This is wonderful! Beautiful shot!
June 14th, 2013  
Beautifully done shot. Congrats and wishes for a lifetime of happiness to you and Paul. This is a fav for me!
June 14th, 2013  
This is wonderful Darren. I am sorry I missed it yesterday! So very happy for you both. A wonderful tribute to your commitment and love. Much happiness to you both. A FAV for me also!
June 14th, 2013  
Fav for me!!!!! Congratulations, great tribute shot:)
June 14th, 2013  
Lovely shot. Congratulations!
June 14th, 2013  
What a lovely shot. Thrilled to hear your news such a visual of a joyful day
June 14th, 2013  
Congrats to you both, 20 years is such an achievement nowadays!
June 14th, 2013  
Excellent image, really well composed and a powerful message. Congratulations :)
June 14th, 2013  
Wonderful, I love the shine on the rings.
20 years and without ups and downs would not be normal.
Congratulations and love this shot
June 15th, 2013  
Meg
Love this shot. :)
June 15th, 2013  
Darren that is a lovely shot. I pray that the US will follow suit and all of our states will begin to treat all that love one another fairly. Congrats to you both and here's to many, many more years together.
June 15th, 2013  
This looks wonderful on the PP, Darren. Congrats.
June 15th, 2013  
Congrats! Lovely Shot!
June 15th, 2013  
Congratulations!! Hope more places follow suite. Awesome shot! A fav.
June 15th, 2013  
Best wishes to you two :):):) Beautiful shot!!!!
June 15th, 2013  
Fave! congratulations!
June 15th, 2013  
wow awesome shot! love the composition!
June 15th, 2013  
Congratulations! Love the shot
June 15th, 2013  
Wonderful photo. Congratulations on celebrating 20 years together and for reaching the pp.
June 15th, 2013  
Such a touching shot. well done!!!!!!
June 15th, 2013  
Tom
Fitting shot to celebrate the day, congratulations!
June 15th, 2013  
Lovely photo and story.
June 15th, 2013  
I really love how you've set this shot up! Nicely done and wow... almost 20 years.... go you two!
June 15th, 2013  
Congratulations on all the years you and Paul have been together...there is nothing better than loving and being loved by your soul mate:)
June 15th, 2013  
only just seen this - many many congratulations, a lovely story and a lovely shot
June 15th, 2013  
Wonderful shot, Congratulations on you both!
June 15th, 2013  
Gorgeous photo. Congratulations :-)
June 15th, 2013  
Meg
Congrats on the PP!
June 15th, 2013  
Congrats! Many more years. Nice composition.
June 16th, 2013  
Congratulations
June 16th, 2013  
Kev
Great shot and warmest congratulations! Fav.
June 16th, 2013  
Nicely done, and congratulations.
June 16th, 2013  
Great composition. Happy Days :)
June 16th, 2013  
Excellent shot and personal story ... important to remember what rights are connected to marriage and how they ease so many potential situations that may arise during a life together ... Lovely tribute to your number one guy!
June 16th, 2013  
Congrats...love the composition!! :)
June 19th, 2013  
Congrat's and Awesome shot! I think everyone is entitled to make there own choices without judgement !. Sounds like you a Paul have a great relationship...your story reminds me of something i just went through with my family ...regarding the" definition" of family and the "meaning" of family..if you look it up in a dictionary/online, you will see there is a BIG difference!! Congratulation's to you and Paul for finding the real" meaning "of family! Not very many do..... :) .
June 20th, 2013  
Congratulations to you both, hope you had someone else catching the special moments on camera.
June 20th, 2013  
Congratulations! What a special shot to commemorate such a special day!
June 20th, 2013  
Awesome shot, so glad you are both so happy.
June 21st, 2013  
Love it*)FAV*)
June 21st, 2013  
@ellimae Thanks kindly for your words - they truly mean a great deal to us both :)
June 21st, 2013  
@gozoinklings Thanks kindly Catherine - he certainly is! (but don't tell him i said so!!) :)
June 21st, 2013  
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