My aunt died of Covid-19. She was in a nursing home in Florida. Her children have mailed her ashes to me in Maine so they can be buried with her husband. I will take them to meet the guy who is buring them at the cemetery when the time comes. I am now waiting for those instructions. My cousins are so happy that I still live here and can take care of this for them. I was surprised that the USPO has labels for this and how expensive it is. I have left her in the box and on my enclosed box. You know my cat has unlimited curiosity so I think this is safer.
@blueberry1222 Covid-19 was the immediate killer but dementia had been taking her for a very long time. We agree it is a blessing she is not in that confused state any longer.
@30pics4jackiesdiamond She was my favorite Aunt but I haven't seen her since 2015 when she was showing signs of dementia. So the Aunt I remember has been gone for a long time.
So sad when family members go, sorry for your loss Joan. I find it really fabulous that you are taking care of her ashes and putting her to rest with her husband.
Simple yet poignant capture. So sad when dementia takes hold. It's really nice that you are able to do this for your family and that your aunt will be beside her husband forever and always.
my thoughts are with you at this sad time. But I hope you have some memorable moments as you are able to help the family and yourself grieve and settle your aunt to rest with her husband forever. Look after yourself.
Ditto to all the above....and such a compelling photo...the intensity of the label compared to the mundane quality of the cardboard box. It does make one think.
Take care of yourself. Hate to think of being shipping in the mail, but know this is the best for the times - what a wonderful thing your doing for your family.
My Aunt Leslie "stayed" with us for a couple years while we waited for her sister and brother both to be in good enough health to hold a funeral and bury her. It seems an odd comfort, but yes, for families it is so significant to have a proper good-bye. Smart move on keeping everything in the box!
August 18th, 2020
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a bit of curiosity and some mischief