Dad. You had one job to do!!! One job!!! by johnfalconer

Dad. You had one job to do!!! One job!!!

I went up to photograph my daughter’s triathlon at Newcastle, 200 kms north of Sydney. I was very professional about it and the night before I walked around the many starts and finishes and picked the best vantage points and getting all ready for the big race. I think I got some good swimming, cycling and running shots.
But the finish line!!! I only had one big zoom lens and I was just too close and couldn’t move back. I changed the vantage point but then went back again. I figured I still had 3 or 4 minutes based on her lap time just passed.
At the very last minute I turned and decided to just use the iPhone for the snapshot. BIG MISTAKE. The next thing I heard was her name being announced ... after she had gone through the gate.
I’ll never live it down. My whole family knows about it now so I might as well tell everybody.
Hopefully there was an automatic camera at the finish. My daughter thinks there normally is.
(Edit: There’s always photoshop!!)
I took pictures of my nephew's wedding with a film camera (a zillion years ago) and the film wasn't in right and never advanced. (They got divorced so in the long run not as big a deal) I feel your pain.
February 21st, 2021  
@joansmor
Thanks Joan.
February 21st, 2021  
Oh dear. Definitely a job for Photoshop.
February 21st, 2021  
Oh what a shame, but at least you were there and she knows how hard you tried! I remember waiting for the big moment when our sone walked across the stage to collect his graduation certificate. I was so busy looking through the vewfinder that I felt as if I had missed seeing the moment for real!
February 21st, 2021  
The best laid plans... sorry you missed the big moment.
February 21st, 2021  
Maybe there will be another opportunity. Let's hope so!
February 21st, 2021  
@onewing @busylady @kvphoto @marlboromaam
Thanks for your very sympathetic comments. My daughter is not too upset. The other photos I took were fine. But I know she will tease me forever about this.
February 21st, 2021  
@marlboromaam
Mags. There will always be another opportunity:-)
February 21st, 2021  
I had to smile reading your narrative - I've had friends ask me to photograph big events (because they knew I'd be happy to do it for free) but many of them I turned down for this very reason - I'm sure something would go wrong! Glad your daughter took it well!
February 21st, 2021  
Awful :)
Did you at least catch a glimpse of her running through the gate?
February 21st, 2021  
You said she'll tease you forever? I would do so too :) but i think that's better than not saying anything :)

But i really do get your frustration.
February 21st, 2021  
Been there!
February 21st, 2021  
Oh dear John, have to have a smile about this as I can just imagine the waiting & getting ready then you missed her! I do think over the years & I've done it myself seen the most important events in life behind a little screen ....you sometimes need to look at the real thing. It doesn’t apply here as you were taking a memory for your daughter but other occasions.
February 21st, 2021  
@busylady Just noted you have written the same Judith...I have learnt my lesson....there is usually a camera shot of then coming over the line @johnfalconer
February 21st, 2021  
What a pity after going to all that much trouble. That is the reason I would like to have one lens for all occasions.
February 21st, 2021  
Ooops!! I like to take 2 cameras with me,so I've got the right lens handy.
February 21st, 2021  
oh no, you are going to be reminded of this forever I'm sure!
February 21st, 2021  
I know exactly how you feel - been there, done that too with my children :)
February 21st, 2021  
Having been assigned to capture my sister getting ready for her wedding and shooting film, I understand your pain. I thought I had loaded a roll and shot away- no roll, no shots. It has made for a great story through out the years much to my personal chagrin.
February 21st, 2021  
oh man. I feel your pain.
February 21st, 2021  
How heartbreaking.
February 22nd, 2021  
Cool capture. There should have been a camera for the race. That's the way it is over here.
February 22nd, 2021  
I can so empathize with that. My hubby and I used to run marathons together, but he also did triathlon. There are so many starting and ending points. The logistics are just hard to get especially when you are fighting for space in a crowd. They do usually have a photo at the end. Perhaps you got shots at other points in the race.
February 22nd, 2021  
@linnypinny
In my I defence I did get some good shots do she is quite happy. I was more upset than she was.
February 22nd, 2021  
@monikozi
Just as she was taking off her ID tag!
February 22nd, 2021  
@ginnys
Been there and we all survived!! :-)
February 22nd, 2021  
@ludwigsdiana
Thanks. I normally do have a 24-80 lens (or something like that!) but I swapped it out for this event. And I was doing beach volleyball ball the day before!
February 22nd, 2021  
@carolmw
My iPhone was my second camera!!
February 22nd, 2021  
@koalagardens
Reminded ... by everyone in my family!!
February 22nd, 2021  
@gilbertwood
Thanks. I am cranky with myself. I don’t think anyone else is.
February 22nd, 2021  
@happypat
We all think it’s hilarious but that won’t stop them making a bit of fun. My son in NZ texted me that I should have just got her do do another lap.
February 22nd, 2021  
@rickster549 @shutterbug49
I’ve got a few quite good race shots and I’m sure they had a camera at the finish.
February 22nd, 2021  
Van
Luckily you can all laugh about it now.
February 22nd, 2021  
I know I shouldn’t laugh but I am
February 22nd, 2021  
@gapandgain @kjarn

No one ever got angry/upset. We all did laugh at the situation.
February 22nd, 2021  
Well at least you won't make that mistake again!
February 22nd, 2021  
Oh John! That’s a real mixed emotion shot!
February 22nd, 2021  
Oops
February 22nd, 2021  
Oh dear, how frustrating for you, after all the preparation. If your daughter is like mine she will remind you regularly!

Ian
February 22nd, 2021  
Your narrative is very familiar. My wife is a recreational cyclist and she entered a big cycling race for the first time a few years ago. She was joined by a few friends and naturally I was elected team photographer. I got some nice shots at the start and a few more on the first leg on the route out of town. I estimated when they would return and positioned myself to get some shots on their return with enough time, I thought, to get to the finish line in time to get them crossing. Long story short, I miscalculated and was running to get in position as my wife crossed. I took a quick shot but it was out of focus. Sports Illustrated never did call to offer me a job.
February 23rd, 2021  
@clivee @miss_molly @momamo @fishers @cdcook48

It will never be forgotten by me, my daughter and the rest of my family.
February 26th, 2021  
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