lamentation 2

In the aftermath of a bombshell
Our shocked ears were deaf, eyes dumb
Wreckage, as far as you could see
Love twisted and bent
We hapless, you hopeless
You hung your head

I will be finished with the morbid stuff tomorrow.... this anniversary is a 3 day thing for me... there were less than 48 hours between the trigger event and and his passing. I dont know why an anniversary should be any more painful than any other day... but the reminders and flashbacks are more prevalent.

[Corrie]

You are the Rock
You are the solid one
You are the light to the Family
You are the one that weeps within
You are the one that keep them together...
(A Friend)

[kali]

@genesis_one Oh Corrie that is so beautiful of you... and true I know it. thankyou friend

[Karen Mitchell]

It ebbs and flows to the surface and the anniversaries are the remembrances... grief allows for those. This photo is a thoughtful embrace of the memories left to those who live. Hug.

[Isaac Trippet]

Excellent processing

[Graeme Stevens]

Excellent in every way

[Jo Smith]

You are an amazing person and so strong. Xxx

[Mek]

I watch your images in silence. My thoughts flow everywhere.

[Brigette]

Just thinking of you, that is all.

[kali]

@kandkids thankyou for your thoughtful words Karen

[kali]

@mastermek that is a nice response :) thankyou Mek

[kali]

@josmith thanks Jo, I feel it sometimes.....

[kali]

@brigette all that is required, thankyou Brigette

[kali]

@isaactrippet @graemestevens thanks your excellencies

[belinda]

Powerful and palpable

[Gail]

A quiet moment at the end of the mourning.... like a breath is being taken and a peace is found to move forward. So evocative,, Kali. FAV!!!

[Wendy]

a tuff year... my heart still bleeds for you and always will... your card is still the first thing I see in the morning and one of the reasons I was able to get out of bed... in your loss you gave me hope... I love you.

[Saxa van Eijnsbergen]

Thinking of you Kali!

[Francoise]

not sure mourning ever stops, but it does change quality. Someone above mentioned ebb and flow. This picture has a wordless beauty; your words add another dimension.

[xo]

I send quiet support as I "listen"

[Clare Gadsby]

Kali. Hard to find words, but my thoughts are with you, and your family

[kali]

@photohoot right back at ya, thanks so much Wendy

[kali]

@francoise it sneaks up on me , thankyou , I hoped that would be the case.

[kali]

@overalvandaan hold your babies extra tight for me today

[kali]

@gailmmeek cant have one without the other, thankyou Gail

[kali]

@adayinmallacoota i wonder if i am being rather too dramatic, he would hate that!

[kali]

@daily50 @pistache it really is unspeakable, thankyou ladies

[Walks @ 7]

You have every right to continue, there are no rules to what you are experiencing- grief. May your path forward be as you need it to be.

[kali]

@joysabin thankyou for your support

[Amrita]

Yes... each day reminds us, but some days more... love n hugs

[kali]

@amrita21 thankyou dear friend

[john morley]

I have no words, only good wishes.....

[Krista Marson]

just a song to melt to... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MrwpkyVvY14

[Kate Goring]

Oh Kali...do what you need to do. Thinking of you.

[Saxa van Eijnsbergen]

@kali66 I will, I'll hold them extra tight today, dear Kali!

[Caroline]

Strength to you Kali, as always. I can't imagine.

[jackie edwards]

Wishing we could all wrap our arms around you. Prayers for some comfort somehow.

[Carla]

Much love Kali, this is beautiful x

[Julie Duncan]

God bless and comfort you, Kali!

[Mary]

Thinking of you ❤ your words and photo expressed so much emotion, just know my heart goes out to you. Hugs!

[Daryl O'Hare]

A very evocative photo with wonderful light. The red backdrop accentuates the emotion. So visceral are anniversaries sometimes.

[FotoBlah]

Powerful.

[Wendy Elwood]

Thinking of you

[kali]

@darylo you are so right, it has felt so intense

[kali]

@wendels thankyou Wendy.

[kali]

@jackies365 its coming in abundance, thankyou Jackie

[Yeshanghai]

May you find comfort and support from your friends and family.

[Call me Joe]

Thinking of U - xoxo!

[Stephanie Swift]

Anniversaries can be extremely painful. I wish I could say something comforting.

[Ming Ryan]

Your photo captures the feeling, memories and emotion that you shared with us. So many wonderful comments shared too.

[kali]

@mingr thanks for your comments, yes, i selelcted this photo from my archives because it was exactly right for what I was feeling. this place is wonderful.