Haze's Strangers: No.142: Reg by quietpurplehaze

Haze's Strangers: No.142: Reg

On my most recent visit to the Hospital of St Cross and Almshouse of Noble Poverty, I was fortunate enough to encounter the Master. I introduced myself and my strangers' project and asked if he would participate. He told me his name and the answer was yes.

I took a couple of shots with the tall hedge outside the entrance to St Cross as a background. It was rather a bright early afternoon.

It seems perhaps a little irreverent not to refer to a priest as Reverend but Reg did introduce himself by his first name so I hope that is in order. He told me that he came to St Cross for two years and has currently been there eighteen. His career was as Padre in the Royal Navy.

After Reg retired from the Navy he managed the Seaman's Mission in Southampton from where he came to the almshouses in Winchester in 1999. He explained the role of Master at St Cross as having responsibility for the pastoral care of the Brothers living there. The Clerk and Deputy Clerk work on the day to day running of the establishment and carry out admin duties.

There are 25 Brothers at St Cross. They are not monks as it is a secular organisation but they attend matins in the Norman church every day wearing their robes.

I confess to being not a little surprised when Reg next suddenly said, "I ran away to sea aged 15". He continued and explained that he came back to study at university and then was ordained and followed his career in the Navy.

I asked about family and Reg told me he has a grown-up son and daughter who are twins, and a grandchild. He lost his wife at the beginning of this year. I said that I was sorry to know this, and it is obviously a difficult time still for him.

In his free time, Reg likes painting in oils, particularly landscape scenes. He took one of my little cards but was happier to write his own email address on the reverse and give it back to me. I shall send him his portrait and one or two other shots taken in the Master's Garden.

I am a Friend of St Cross, which, for me, is not only a 'go-to' place for photography but also for peace and tranquillity. A thank you to Reg for participating in my project.

more associated images here:
https://www.flickr.com/photos/150442566@N07/28227266288/in/dateposted-public/
He sounds fabulous! I love clergy who have also done life outside the church. They are often the ones with the greatest compassion and understanding. Tough year for him, I am sure, loss takes a while. He looks a wonderful character and bless him for taking part in your project. Such a lovely photo, full of life.
May 14th, 2018  
A wonderful image of this lovely man who has lead an interesting life.
May 14th, 2018  
He sounds like a really interesting chap, I bet if he wrote his life story it would make excellent reading.
May 14th, 2018  
He was such a delightful gentleman and a gentle man too.
May 14th, 2018  
I agree with @casablanca you have to live life properly to understand people & your flock. We have priest in our church & the ones who have been married & widowed & come late to that life are far more worldly. Are married monks allowed to live with their wives there in that community? I had a feeling it was just for men on their own who become brothers after they join.
May 14th, 2018  
@happypat

The Master lives in a separate house. The brothers all live alone in the brothers' quarters - individual flats.
May 14th, 2018  
A nice portrait of an interesting individual
May 14th, 2018  
A lovely portrait - he looks to be a kind man !
May 14th, 2018  
Wonderful portrait shot...Great light
May 14th, 2018  
Bep
A beautiful portrait Hazel and an interesting story.
May 14th, 2018  
Lovely photo and lovely story.
May 14th, 2018  
Looks good and looks like a 'Reg' .....
May 14th, 2018  
Delightful story, lovely portrait
May 14th, 2018  
What a lovely peaceful face he has. I love the light in his hair. Another of your great portraits Hazel.
May 14th, 2018  
Wonderful portrait and lovely light. Interesting story.
May 14th, 2018  
great story and portrait haze
May 14th, 2018  
Awesome portrait.
May 15th, 2018  
Wonderful portrait and interesting life story. Lovely smile from Reg for you.
May 15th, 2018  
Such a lovely picture and I love all the detail you have included. Nice to see a smiling face in such a time of sadness.
May 15th, 2018  
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