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20th August 2011
I Wish  by espyetta

I Wish

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I wish this view were real. Because if it was real,then I could talk to my mom. And tell her how much I love her and what a great mom she was. But, I would have to be that age again too, I guess, so that would not be too cool. I saw yet another "Dear Photo" picture on 365 yesterday and realized I had a perfect opportunity! My mom's house that we are cleaning out and preparing for a yard sale is right down the street from the home we lived in when I wasborn until 2nd grade. I had this picture of Mom with us in the yard one Easter Sunday. I guess I am about 2 here, so this is in 1967. We used to get these inflatable Easter bunnies with different compartments, and holes in the wall of each. There was ball or jingle bell that you could shake into each compartment and then back again. I might have been too little for one this particular year.

Today was "start packing up some of Mom's stuff" day. I was glad to have some company. My SIL, niece and nephew went with me. Before we did any picking and packing, we walked to my childhood home and knocked on the door. Two cars were in the carport, but no one answered. We were already on the drive way and it's a small town...so we took about 5 min. to try to get a decent shot. It's hard when it is so bright you can't see your viewfinder very well.

This one came out pretty good. I really liked that the photo was trimmed in a heart shape....Mom had a heart shaped frame for it. That just sums it all up about how I feel about my mom and how my heart will hurt at times.

I will be keeping my eyes out for other chance to do this type thing! It was a nice walk...just really hot!

Check ot my niece Erin's version of this photo.http://365project.org/ehenry95/365/2011-08-20">
Comments
Jen
nicely done!!!
posted August 21st, 2011  
I think that was such a cool idea for a shot. I know you are missing her, but she still watches over you.
posted August 21st, 2011  
Sam
this is really great. so sweet :)
posted August 21st, 2011  
This is fab and such a coincedence as I was only speaking about this kind of shot to a friend today. I really must try it. I have that issue with the viewfinder as well and I was told to get a 'Loupe' it is an eye piece that you wear around your neck and put over the viewfinder and you can the shot really well.
posted August 21st, 2011  
@cookie123 Great idea!
posted August 21st, 2011  
This is a wonderful picture! What a great idea! :0)
posted August 21st, 2011  
Wonderful shot! I, too, miss my mom and I'm sure this shot means the world to you. You've actually inspired me to try something like this too! Thanks!
posted August 21st, 2011  
You did a great job lining up the house in the picture and the actual house. This is a very cool idea
posted August 21st, 2011  
I think yours came out even better than mine! I know how you feel about missing mom- my mother passed away unexpectedly 29 years ago but sometimes if feels like yesterday. Every now and then, I just want to talk to her and all I can say is "Mom, I miss you!". I must say, my faith helps a lot, but we're all human and when you love someone as you did your mom, and I did mine, you can't help but feel the loss at times.
posted August 21st, 2011  
I love these. Super interesting and a great shot!
posted August 21st, 2011  
@olivetreeann Ann, That is about all I can say now...I just say outloud in the car, "I miss you Mom." Did that for Dad for the past four years and now both. Ugh. Your photo the other day is what finally made me try the "dear photograph" thing...:0) It was awesome!
@allibird You should go check out Ann's in her project...of the kids (Ann and her relatives) lined up to go into the school....
posted August 21st, 2011  
@soozieqt Susan...can't wait to see what you come up with!
posted August 21st, 2011  
@espyetta You are very sweet MaryBeth to give me so much credit! I actually got the idea from Anna Coffey on 365- Let me see if I can find her info...
posted August 21st, 2011  


This is actually the photo that started it all-@annaruth
posted August 21st, 2011  
Oops that didn't work- let me try the info again!
posted August 21st, 2011  
@dora I hate to say I did this, because it is pointing out flaws, but when we got down there to shoot this, we realized part of the white border was on the right side of the photo. It was from that era. I had to try to clone it out on the right side and was in hurry and did a bad job..but it will have to do for today.
posted August 21st, 2011  
I loved how this lined up. Such a sweet photo. Sorry about the having to go through your Mom's things...must be really hard. :-(
posted August 21st, 2011  
@espyetta well you fooled me - good job
posted August 21st, 2011  
Wonderful photo. Oh, your sentiments bring tears to my eyes. Definitely a fac
posted August 21st, 2011  
A fav, I meant
posted August 21st, 2011  
@dora So, I lined up okay, but right there on the right, I was off the gutter line a bit and had a white border to deal with.. but I tried! :0)
posted August 21st, 2011  
Anna Coffey's picture appeared in her album on July 13, 2011. The reference is:
posted August 21st, 2011  
@olivetreeann It won't seem to let us post the address to our photos in the thread....if that was what you were trying...not sure why. Also, I cannot search for people by name...says that is disabled. And, I just tried to follow the link above to go to my niece's photo like this, and it won't work.What is up?
posted August 21st, 2011  
I don't understand why this will not let me put the "address" in your comment box. I was able to do it before- oh well. If you want to see Anna's, she's at @annaruth.
posted August 21st, 2011  
@olivetreeann The site has issues or is changing...I think. We could do it before, yes. I will go look at Anna's....
posted August 21st, 2011  
@espyetta Yes- I got the same message. Not sure- I am not totally in the 21st century yet in many many ways!! (o:
posted August 21st, 2011  
This is really fantastic! Perfect angle with the photo, and the heart shape is that much more poignant. I am so sorry about your mom, but your memories are plentiful, and I hope will carry you through these difficult times.
posted August 21st, 2011  
love this...great job
posted August 21st, 2011  
Such a beautiful photo and tribute to the relationship between you and your mom. I, too, had a mother who died too young. I went through the same cleaning out the hose, having the yard sale and all. I still miss her, but I realized that the memories didn't stay in that house - they're right here in my heart, and I take part of her wherever I go. You will, too.
posted August 21st, 2011  
Very touching, and you did a superb job on the processing.
posted August 21st, 2011  
What a wonderful shot, full of memories you can hold in your heart forever.
posted August 21st, 2011  
great shot and really sweet
posted August 21st, 2011  
What a lovely shot. Lots of lovely memories.
posted August 21st, 2011  
Great shot! So creative!!
posted August 21st, 2011  
It's a beautiful shot! And a heart-warming story about your mom. Hold on to those great memories!
posted August 21st, 2011  
superb!!
posted August 21st, 2011  
awesome! :) your colors are a lot better than mine..
posted August 21st, 2011  
Oh, I love these! You've done a really good job xx
posted August 21st, 2011  
What a lovely photo and sentiment.
posted August 21st, 2011  
Lovely shot MaryBeth.
posted August 21st, 2011  
Another one on the PP =) *hugs*
posted August 22nd, 2011  
oh wow. I love this..such a creative and sentimental shot
posted August 22nd, 2011  
I loooooove this!! Clever idea!!!!! Awesome job!
posted August 22nd, 2011  
@lolanae Thanks! I need *hugs* :0)
posted August 22nd, 2011  
Gosh, I just love this. It breaks my heart, but it is such a beautiful, creative photo and a great tribute to your mom. xo
posted August 22nd, 2011  
very nicely done, awesome shot!
posted August 22nd, 2011  
Very touching. I love the idea! (N)
posted August 22nd, 2011  
I love the shot, and the idea! And this made me cry because I wish I could talk to my grandmother and I can't help but be connected to the past. Best wishes to you.
posted August 22nd, 2011  
What a wonderful photo and write up. Very special
posted August 22nd, 2011  
What a lovely sentiment. I really like these photos where you set up an old photo into a new one. BTW, you made it to the popular page with this one :)
posted August 22nd, 2011  
Saw this on the popular page. LOVE it. Very nicely done.
posted August 22nd, 2011  
WOW!
posted August 22nd, 2011  
Just catching up and found this on PP. What a great shot and I love that your mum had cut it into a heart shape. Difficult times but I hope you find lots of happy memories to take with you from the house.
posted August 22nd, 2011  
@judithg Thank you, Judith! They are hard times and they will get harder because death is forever...but I have good family and friends, which will help immensely!
posted August 22nd, 2011  
This is perfect for the 'dear photo' style and the story surrounding the photo and your mom.
posted August 23rd, 2011  
Incredible,Love how sentimental this is and lovely.
posted August 23rd, 2011  
Wow is all I can say! What a great photo and idea ... you've got me thinking now!
posted August 23rd, 2011  
@careysims Thanks!I saw the idea here on 365 and you can google "dear photograph" too....there are some great ones.
posted August 23rd, 2011  
This is so wonderful!
posted August 23rd, 2011  
This is beautiful! I lost my Mum 18 months ago and it still hurts as if it were yesterday (see my 'angel' photo a couple of days ago) Fantastic picture. I absolutely LOVE it!! So emotional and clever. *Reaches for tissue*
posted August 23rd, 2011  
wow,this is wonderful!!!!!!!!!!
posted August 23rd, 2011  
Love this!!! What an awesome idea! Def. a Fav!!
posted August 23rd, 2011  
I love this so much!! I wish I had the photos to do something like this too. Awesome!!
posted August 23rd, 2011  
Fav for me too, very beautiful and touching!
posted August 23rd, 2011  
This is fantastic! Love it!
posted August 24th, 2011  
This is so cool! Fav :D I would fav it more than once if I could...!
posted August 24th, 2011  
Congratulations on making the Top 20!!! :0)
posted August 26th, 2011  
Amazing - I had tears in my eyes, so clever and very touching too.
posted August 27th, 2011  
I know this was a bittersweet shot for you but congrats on making it to the top 20 with it!
posted August 28th, 2011  
Heartfelt memory moment linked to the present in such a special way. I miss my mom too...
posted August 28th, 2011  
This is so great MaryBeth! A wonderful way to preserve the original photograph and treasure your special memories.
posted August 29th, 2011  
I really like this. I really like the idea. It's the first one of these I've seen. I may need to do something like this. Add it to my list of "must take" pictures.
posted August 30th, 2011  
Hey, cool, you're on the "popular" page! Look at all those views!! Awesome!
posted August 30th, 2011  
instant fav.
posted September 4th, 2011  
@lauren211 Thanks, Lauren! Did you see the one on my neice, Erin Henry's project also? It wasmore special for me because Erin (and her mom and brother) went with me to do it. I was so glad for that, or it would have seemed very sad and lonely. I also posted a photo of Erin shooting her photo in my other album.....
posted September 4th, 2011  
Love it. Really well composed. You're so lucky to have the old photo of the family too.
posted September 22nd, 2011  
So well done! A fav!
posted December 31st, 2011  
I love that you were able to execute this so well. It's such neat idea.
posted April 19th, 2012  
this is a really cool picture!!!!
posted May 31st, 2012  
@cheribug Thanks, Cheryl!
posted May 31st, 2012  
this is really cool - thanks for sharing. I don't have any older shots of my childhood houses - the shot of mine from the other day was the house that mum and Dad divorced from so a lot of the photos got ripped apart in the divorce, and I was too young for a camera then! It's only my memories that tell me the house is very different now to back then...
posted September 30th, 2012  
@sparkle Oh, that is too bad. Some people do these with other locations....schools, parks, town buildings, etc... Have you seen some of the links showing these type pics? They are amazingly cool. One girl had a photo looking out her home's glass front storm door and you could see her and her sisters running from off the school bus up to the house...so she stood in that same spot as an adult and held up that pic. The pic was maybe in b and w too...so it was really neat. You could search the tag "dear photo" and see some of them I would suppose.
posted September 30th, 2012  
Fabulous!! Fav!
posted May 31st, 2013  
@kwind thanks! :0)
posted May 31st, 2013  
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