Mother's guilt by egad

Mother's guilt

My son M. was a little tough this morning, so I loaded the boys into the car to take them for a ride to kill some time before lunch. The fog was really thick so I brought along my camera hoping for a good shot. Unfortunately, it was too thick and this was the best I got. This is a frozen pond not too far from our house.

M. continued to be clingy all day. He kept saying that he wanted to cuddle and would pull my neck or my hair and say 'put down your head'. It kept frustrating me that he was being so physical and demanding. Then, when my husband told me that M. said his favorite part of the day was 'cuddling Mommy' I kind of felt bad. He is a sweet little boy.
This is a fabulous foggy scene. I love it. The best you got, HA!! A fav! I hope that he's not getting sick:(. Poor kid and mama for having a tough day!
January 31st, 2013  
Awesome foggy pix
January 31st, 2013  
Amy
This is gorgeous!

So sorry for the rough day. I can relate. I wish you a better tomorrow.
January 31st, 2013  
Absolutely gorgeous fog shot! I love how there's just a hint of the trees. And I can relate to your day and the whole clinginess thing. Maybe you can give him extra heartfelt cuddles tomorrow. :)
January 31st, 2013  
a great fog photo
January 31st, 2013  
Mel
Awww... we all have those days... I know I do! 365 gives me wicked mother guilt, sometimes! Beautiful, beautiful shot here.
January 31st, 2013  
This is beautiful! I really love the thickness of the fog. I understand how you feel. My kids have been sick on and off for a while and the clinginess is starting to wear on me too. Don't be too hard on yourself...you feel like you didn't do enough but he feels like it was his favorite part of the day. You're doing just fine!
January 31st, 2013  
I think the thickness of the fog is wonderful. It's so dramatic. Don't feel too guilty, your son probably doesn't even know you were frustrated and he obviously had a happy day. My son is way more snuggly than my daughter. Sometimes it drives me crazy but now that he's 91/2 I figure soon he won't want to hold my hand in public so I better take advantage of it now.
January 31st, 2013  
Awww, don't feel bad. It's tough sometimes being someone's entire universe. Sometimes you just want some time to remember your own identity! And this isn't too shabby for "all you could get" - foggy shots are some of my faves, and you've done this one justice.
January 31st, 2013  
This is a fabulous shot, such thick fog.
January 31st, 2013  
Love this one. It's fantastic!
January 31st, 2013  
wow------it's not easy to drive on a very foggy day--but u did capture BEAUTY !
January 31st, 2013  
A super beautiful photo! Fav! Poor M... how sweet.
January 31st, 2013  
Stunning capture. Beautiful fog. Kids have that ability to ground us. Spent yesterday cringing cause every 20 seconds my two year old would say "daddy, daddy...watch this." Non-stop. Daddy, daddy, daddy.....wanted to pull my hair out, but couldn't since its already gone. Finally he says it one more time....daddy, daddy, daddy...I put my face in my hands and mumble "what?" in complete frustration. And he says...Daddy...I love you. Big smile on his face. Melts the heart.
January 31st, 2013  
Wow, that's rather thick fog, great outcome though. Love the mystery it evokes.
January 31st, 2013  
sure was very cool shot
January 31st, 2013  
nice foggy shot!
January 31st, 2013  
Beautiful shot! I think we all have days/times we feel guilty abouy when we ignore our kids or have harsh eords for them when were tired etc. Fav btw
January 31st, 2013  
Gorgeous foggy shot!
January 31st, 2013  
I love that the fog is sooo thick! Very mysterious and a neat shot. And don't feel too guilty, we all have our moments, and often times the wee'uns don't pick up on some of it like this day. :)
January 31st, 2013  
Fav. (sorry about the guilt. gorgeous shot though)
February 1st, 2013  
omg this is so atmospheric and moody and fabulous. sorry about the mommy challenges. . .
February 1st, 2013  
Great scene - the fog can be so captivating. Love your composition - such mood in the scene.
February 1st, 2013  
Great foggy mist capture!
February 1st, 2013  
Great foggy scene - makes you feel like you are right there.
February 1st, 2013  
I long to take a shot like this. You go girl! Wonderful
February 2nd, 2013  
Beauteous! Hug him close- they grow so fast. And be gentle with yourself. Mama-hood is hard stuff.
February 2nd, 2013  
I think this is beautiful.

And it's quite evident that you're a great mom.
February 3rd, 2013  
Favourite for me! Great foggy day shot
February 4th, 2013  
love this..fav
February 5th, 2013  
Beautiful shot. There's enough going on to make it interesting. Lovely story to go with it :o) xx
February 8th, 2013  
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