Reflections at a reflective time by jamibann

Reflections at a reflective time

Taken in London at the weekend.

Feeling reflective and somewhat sad after attending a friend and ex-colleague's funeral in Aberdeen. 58 years old. So very difficult, but we do have many, many happy memories of him.

As if that weren't enough, the world has gone wonky. I'm trying to stay positive through it all, but it's hard. Everywhere you turn, it's bad news. Social media doesn't help - so much criticism of how governments are handling the situation, but I feel it's such an impossible and unprecedented subject to manage.

I worry about my 87-year dad - to visit him or not?! John's 93-year old dad in Northern Ireland in a care home, where no more visitors are allowed (understandably). I also worry about our son in London, who has just started his working career and who has already been asked to work at home. His girlfriend who is just finishing her degree and has no more face to face time with tutors. Our daughter in Norway who is alone over there, working from home. I can't go and see her, she can't come over to us.

Job security, the future of small businesses, the future of our country, the future of the world. It's just such a worry. Where are we going with this? We just couldn't make it up.

But the sun is shining this morning. Spring is on the way. Onwards and upwards at this trying time. Hang in there everyone, we're all in it together. Photography is our friend.

Big Hug
March 17th, 2020  
Such uncertain times for your family all spread around. Take care and at least with great technology you can remain in contact with them all. Great image.
March 17th, 2020  
Lovely image so there is still beauty in the world. When times are trying, I find listening to this a comfort - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkkDbsxctn8
March 17th, 2020  
I share so much of your thoughts here. My Dad is almost 90 and has health issues, my son is 150 miles away, and the news is bad. My take on it? Turn the news off. Sign up for the Government newsletter that gives you factual updates once a day in your inbox without emotional slant or spin. Also, remember the Diamond Princess? 3,711 people on board, 2,600 of whom were mostly older guests and the rest crew. Sharing air con systems and mixing in enclosed spaces while it began to spread on board, yet only 696 of them actually caught the virus. Therefore not everyone gets it. An encouraging thought.

So sorry for the loss of your friend but glad you have positive memories of him. These things are never easy.

Sending heaps of love your way today and I really like your image. London upside down. Yes it is. But it won't always be. Hang on in there, we are all in this boat together and most of us will sail through it to the other side. Lots of love.
March 17th, 2020  
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Uncertain times for all of us and it's really hard to stay positive. But the sun is shining here too... Big virtual hug, Issi :-)
March 17th, 2020  
I too have the same concerns Issi, having aging parents both in Nova Scotia and Newfoundland, too far away from us to help them out quickly if need be. But today as many more things are closing I am grateful to have my daughter (schools closed) & hubby (work sent him home) at home Hang in there Issi we will get through this together! Sending you some positive thought and a virtual hug. :)
March 17th, 2020  
It's just crazy, isn't it. With my dad in a nursing home since his stroke, we now can't visit him. My mom goes to his window and they "touch hands" against the glass. Sad thought for a couple whose been married for almost 59 years. My oldest who has been working in Spain is suppose to come home at the end of this month but now is uncertain when or if that will happen. The military group he's contracted with has been detained for an additional two months at this point. I'm sorry for all the concerns you (and everyone) have for their families. Everything's upside down, just as your thought-provoking photo implies.
March 17th, 2020  
It is indeed a worrying time. I'm especially concerned for vulnerable people in the southern hemisphere as we are heading into our usual flu season at the same time as the virus is starting to take hold.
March 17th, 2020  
@dide So true about technology. WhatsApp conversations, Skype calls ... keeps us all sane.
March 17th, 2020  
@vignouse Thank you. I did enjoy that, and it has become today's mantra. :-)
March 17th, 2020  
@casablanca @gijsje @novab @lyndemc @merrelyn Thank you, ladies, for your messages of positivity and compassion. It's always good to know that we are not alone when facing difficulties. This too will pass.
March 17th, 2020  
Great capture. The sun will rise tomorrow!
March 17th, 2020  
Very poignant capture. The world is going through a tough time and so much uncertainty.
March 17th, 2020  
You're so right with your thoughts. I feel for you with all your family so spread out. We are still getting out a bit - to the shops today and playing tennis yesterday, but suddenly things are shutting down and life is changing. Keep enjoying the fresh air and the Spring photos to reocrd that it's all still happening, despite the restrictions on our lives.
March 17th, 2020  
My friends are calling on the phone. We all know we need those human connections. 365 helps me remember that this is world-wide.
March 17th, 2020  
What an appropriate capture for your wonderful words of wisdom and caring thoughts for everyone. This is such an unprecedented time in history and sadly we are all part of it. But with unity, care and thoughtfulness we will get through it and my thoughts go out to all those people who have elderly parents too. At least with 365 we are able to safely keep in touch and support each other through this.
March 17th, 2020  
This site may be the bright spot in my day. Just trying to be cautious and if the rain ever stops enjoy the outdoors. As your picture shows, the world is upside down right now!
March 17th, 2020  
It really does seem like some things are so out of control- but in reality even when things are good, so much of it is out of our control. It is true the media has really made this virus a high concern for many. It's the first one they've really reported on. The two previous pandemics killed more people than this one has but the media reported nothing on it. So I agree with Casablanca- go to a reliable factual source and turn the rest of it off. Most of the news is not news, it's spin. My heart breaks for all of you dealing with elderly parents. Mine are deceased but I would be concerned like you if they were here. I'm trying to keep a sensible attitude about going out and staying home- some sort of balance between the two. Lots of events have been cancelled or postponed which is smart. But the shopping frenzy? That's insane! I guess what grounds me most of all is my faith. God gave me a brain to make wise choices and the rest of it is up to Him to take care of and I believe He will with the resources at hand. So hang in there- this too shall pass. Thankfully we will still have the fun of 365 to keep us entertained while we wait this thing out! Great reflection and great shot!
March 17th, 2020  
A beautiful reflection of the ferris wheel in the water. I try not to watch the news very often during the day. It makes me anxious and no one needs that. I think that keeping in touch by phone or skype or face time, if he does those, is the best way right now to help others feel less isolated.
March 18th, 2020  
Beautiful image! What a compassionate community. All good thoughts to all.
March 18th, 2020  
Nicely spotted
March 18th, 2020  
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