This is my gray kitty who is very handsome, but is kind of a grouch. He growls if I pet him although he might tolerate a little bit of love. He is not very snuggley. He's always been this way since he was a kitten. I'm not sure why! I still try to pet him every day and talk nice to him. Lately he has been laying on my pillow in my bed and on my chair in the living room. Excuse me kitty! That's my spot.