An End and a Beginning by maggiemae

An End and a Beginning

I am so overcome with all the wonderful messages of support in my time of great sorrow. From this sad event, I have emerged with all your help into viewing the future without my sister. I am not happy but have accepted this.

Three good things:
1 A good photo of a dramatic sky at the crematorium where the end of life for one began and my life will start anew.
2. I didn’t want to hug everybody and smile and got away with it by pretending to take photos!
3. John’s phone can be muted when he remembers!
Very dramatic sky. Such times are never easy and one needs to deal with them in your own way. There is no right or wrong in my humble opinion and if you do not want to speak to or hug everyone then you should be able to do just that. I hope over time all your good memories will help you to ease the pain of losing your sister. Gone but never forgotten
December 23rd, 2016  
What a difficult time for you. You seem to be remarkably calm and able to look to the future. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I hope this beautiful photo will remind you of happy times.
December 23rd, 2016  
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Beautiful photo.
December 23rd, 2016  
Lovely composition and colors...take care...
December 23rd, 2016  
Beautiful photo and a very dramatic sky. Somehow very fitting for the caption. You are in my thoughts and prayers, Maggie.
December 23rd, 2016  
May the Lord bless you and keep you
May the Lord look His face to shine upon you and be gracious to you
May the Lord turn His face toward you and give you peace.
Numbers 6: 24-26
December 23rd, 2016  
May your sister's memory always be a light in your heart. Sincere condolences.
December 23rd, 2016  
Poignant title with a threatening sky over a beautiful garden -- that's life Maggie nothing is ever in tune we have to take the rough patches with the smooth -- be kind to yourself my friend and give yourself time and space to grieve and remember , while getting used to the changes in your life . God Bless xx
December 23rd, 2016  
Bep
Wishing I could find some comforting words...
December 23rd, 2016  
So sorry to hear your loss, take care, Beautiful photo
December 23rd, 2016  
Brilliant capture, positive emotions, good sign for the future.
December 23rd, 2016  
Beautiful colours and a lovely way to remember your sister.
December 24th, 2016  
Beautiful photo with beautiful lighting and color. Take care of yourself. Know that we care for you during this rough time.
December 24th, 2016  
When there are no words, a photo can say it all. Sending you healing wishes and peace.
December 24th, 2016  
So sorry for your loss. Beautiful shot and processing.
December 24th, 2016  
Good to hear those amazing words. life goes on and I'm sure your sister would want this for you. keep her memory in your heart and think about her often. still praying for you and your family.
December 24th, 2016  
Your sister I am sure would agree, your life will go on without her, but, her love & 'influence " will always remain in your heart...Warm hugs !
December 24th, 2016  
@s4sayer Thank you so much Margot - I know these words so well but seeing them written down here gives real meaning to them!
December 24th, 2016  
@granagringa thats a lovely thing to say, thank you so much, Grandma! G
December 24th, 2016  
@bruni Its hard to stop thinking about her Bruni - but I realise I have to incorporate the memory into my own life!
December 24th, 2016  
@beryl You have such wise words, Beryl - its special to read them!
December 24th, 2016  
The setting is stunningly beautiful Maggiemae. The precious thing about love and memories is that they cannot be taken away so quickly. That is what we cling to. The tears of sadness and the loneliness is a real piece of healing the pain.
December 24th, 2016  
@digitalrn I hear what you say, Rick and really appreciate!
December 24th, 2016  
It's a beautiful scene for an awful day. I just can't imagine losing my sister. No words can express how I feel.
December 24th, 2016  
@lesip I was expecting one or more of my SIL's in their 90's to go but not my own young sister, Leslie!
December 24th, 2016  
Your caption says it well, and you will go forward in a new space. I must add that I responded totally to your comment about hiding behind a camera when the occasion necessitates! Be strong; your sister will always be in your heart.
December 24th, 2016  
@aikimomm Thanks Phoebe - but I realise that other people get a bit tired of hearing about a demise and as you say, - she will always be in my heart !
December 24th, 2016  
Lovely photo Maggie to mark such a sad day. Take care of yourself
December 24th, 2016  
Wise words Maggiemae...sincere condolences
December 24th, 2016  
Wonderful shot
December 24th, 2016  
I am sorry to read about your loss Maggie. It is hard to lose anyone, harder still around the holidays when family is emphasized. It seems simple to say that there is no more discomfort or pain, but it can be a relief especially when you love someone so much. While you will miss your sister in the physical realm, she will always be with you in your shared love for one another and the fond memories of your life together. You and your family are still in my prayers.
December 31st, 2016  
@olivetreeann thank you for your sympathetic words, Ann. It does mean a lot even though I think nothing will get better!
December 31st, 2016  
@maggiemae It will in time, but take your time getting there. Grief is a process and it goes at different speeds for everyone.
December 31st, 2016  
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