I received this handwritten letter yesterday about my dad. It was written by an elder from the church I used to attend. My dad and this particular elder had a close bond. He was a young man when they first met some 22 years ago. They would have long conversations over the years. I had called him about my dad's death, but only received his voice mail. I am touched that he would take the time to hand write a 2 page letter about their relationship. You could tell it was a bit difficult to write. I am thankful for people who take the time to honor a person to his family. I know that death is easier to ignore.
What a beautiful letter and representation in photographic form. I love the depth of field and progression to the lovely greeting and then the flowers make a wonderful addition. From my own experience, death is such a hard thing for so many and they express their remorse in a myriad of ways. I can't imagine it being easy for anyone to ignore, even if it may seem like it. I am a very quiet person with death, unfortunately--I prefer the letters usually, something I can sit and write, and I have such hard times at funerals, although I do attend when I can. This is a precious gift, a remembrance of a lifetime friendship. Hugs.
@darylo I was trying to give honor to the letter. It is such a lost art and so much appreciated. I'll bet your letters are wonderful and a beautiful memory. I know I will keep this one, along with some others I received. Not everyone who wants to attend a service is able to. Short notice, wrong time, conflicts in schedules. I just think that sometimes people don't really know what to do, so nothing becomes the option. Yet, a family member has passed on and there are souls that are hurting, even if the person is 78. We all miss our loved ones. I think kind words are very much appreciated, whether written, spoken or in person. The smallest expression can be huge.
This will always be a treasure for you. You are correct, it would have been easier to sign a name to a card - I will remember this when I need to in years to come. Bless you.
