I was so touched by how many people sent cards after the passing of my mom. People don't find it very easy to express sympathy...it's awkward. We don't know what to say, how to alleviate the pain. But I can truly tell you that any expression at all is worth the effort and is meaningful to those who receive it. We've received cards, emails, all the beautiful comments from 365 members, phone calls, visits, flowers, gifts of food, donations to charity...every one is appreciated beyond words.
That is so true. I felt the same when my brother died in 2016. It’s awkward, people don’t know what to say, but all cards and kind words are appreciated. Take care xx
A friend lost his dad when my friend and I were in grad school; he was *very* resentful. As I pondered the situation, I thought about the alternative. While it happens, it's not "right" (or "fair"?) when parents lose children; it's just not the natural order of things.
But there are many positives going forward. Your kids knew your mom. You know she's in a happy place. And you know your tears will, one day, all be wiped away.
Peace, my friend, Danette!
@rhoing a cousin (by marriage) whom I've only recently gotten to know has gone above and beyond with her outreach. Two days ago, she lost her dad to cancer, 20 years younger than my mom. It's never a good time. Mom's decline was rapid. While I am thankful for each and every touch, I was quite pleased that people still send cards.
I am sorry, Danette for the loss of your mother. Somehow I missed your sad news and the last I heard was she was out of the hospital and home again. It hurts at any age when you lose your mum or dad. I think about my parents who passed in 2005 quite often...and always with love and appreciation for everything. Take good care of yourself...
But there are many positives going forward. Your kids knew your mom. You know she's in a happy place. And you know your tears will, one day, all be wiped away.
Peace, my friend, Danette!