Remembering. by darrenboyj

Remembering.

Word of the day today for the September list is: Remember.

Only one thought comes to mind for the image today and that is one of my beautiful mum Sandra.

She lost her battle with cancer on 4th January 2002 aged just 53. She was my one true inspiration in life, always there for comfort and support, and i have nothing but fond memories of her to cherish.

She lit up a room with her presence wherever she was and whomever she was with. This was proved at her funeral which was overflowing with friends, family and many, many work colleagues.

It was hard watching her fade away that January morning but I knew at last she had found peace. I can't stress how much i miss her, and that maybe one day we will be reunited.

This image was taken at her marriage to my stepdad round about 1981 and hopefully portrays the light that radiated within her.
A beautiful portrait of your beautiful mum, Darren and your heartfelt tribute to her is very moving.
September 11th, 2013  
This is such a beautiful tribute Darren, lovely portrait.
September 11th, 2013  
A truly beautiful portrait of a truly beautiful woman
September 11th, 2013  
Very nice picture. She looks just the way you've described her! Missing is so hard... Great tribute to your mother!
September 11th, 2013  
Beautiful portrait of Remembers Great tribute to your mother!
September 11th, 2013  
a beautiful tribute Darren. Thank you for sharing.
September 11th, 2013  
Such a nice portrait of your mom and beautiful tribute.
September 11th, 2013  
Nice portrait and some lovely words and sentiments, Donald.
September 11th, 2013  
Lovely portrait and sentiments.
September 11th, 2013  
Lovely sentiments, beautiful portrait.
September 11th, 2013  
Bless you Darren for remembering your beautiful mother. I'm so happy for you that the memories are good ones. We share that. I had incredible parents.
September 11th, 2013  
So so Sorry to read this Darren what a touching story i too have lost both my parents my mum past away December 1990 the 10th and my Dad passed away 17th of July 1993 my mum was 63 and my Dad was 66 when they both passed away at the time when my mum and Dad were alive my Dad was only 8 days older than my Mum , and what a beautiful photo of your mum too that is a nice photo to treasure .
September 11th, 2013  
What a beautiful memory. She looks like a kind, safe and sensitive lady. I can see people being drawn to her. Lovely smile and shining eyes. You seem to have these qualities too. Your comments are always thoughtful and inspiring. She would be proud !
September 11th, 2013  
Thoughts and prayers to you Darren. Always treasure the memories
September 11th, 2013  
Lovely tribute. Thanks for sharing your wonderful memories. Our mothers share the same name.
September 11th, 2013  
a beautiful tribute to your mum
September 11th, 2013  
I know exactly how you feel. Even though my mum passed away when I was not even 2 years old, I miss her. And it's hard to see how much my father and my two older siblings miss her, even now that she's gone for over twenty years. I'm with you in mind and it was nice to read about such a wonderful person. Always keep in mind that she is watching you from above, Darren. Keep up your great work here, I'm sure she appreciates it too!
September 11th, 2013  
What a beautiful photo. A lasting tribute
September 11th, 2013  
A lovely portrait and tribute - I am so sorry to read this
September 11th, 2013  
Wonderful remembrance, both through image and words.
September 11th, 2013  
lovely shot of her, Darren. sounds like you miss her a lot!
September 11th, 2013  
Beautiful lady, your Mum, Darren. We all treasure our memories of our wonderful mothers. Thank you for sharing the photo and your thoughts.
September 11th, 2013  
This is a beautiful shot!!!

I'm so sorry for what you've been through... I lost my father to cancer some years ago, (he was 55.) I miss him so very much as well... I think I can understand what you mean!
September 11th, 2013  
That is a beautiful tribute Darren. I am sure she also felt very blessed to have such a kind and caring son!
September 11th, 2013  
She looks very happy. Lovely smile. I'm sure she wants you to smile every time you think of her :)
September 11th, 2013  
Lovely tribute, beautiful photo.
September 11th, 2013  
What a gorgeous tribute to your beautiful Mum, just beautiful.
She must have been immensely proud of you.
I lost my Mum through cancer two years ago, we never get over do we, but I believe that we eventually get through ...
September 11th, 2013  
Very moving, Darren, and such a warm portrait of your beautiful mother.
September 11th, 2013  
Very moving Darren, she looks a lovely soul, such a warm lovely tribute to her memory.
September 11th, 2013  
Such a lovely portrait and a great tribute to your Mother :)
September 11th, 2013  
Oh bless you, that's so beautifully written, what a lovely tribute. It's a wonderful portrait and tribute.
September 11th, 2013  
A beautiful tribute in both picture and words, Darren. I am so sorry for your loss.
September 12th, 2013  
Definitely she departed way too early. I'm sure you miss her dearly. She was beautiful.
September 12th, 2013  
Your mom is beautiful. Cancer is an awful disease.
September 12th, 2013  
Much too young, she was very pretty and a lovely smile, a nice tribute to her. Peace to you.
September 12th, 2013  
What a wonderful shot to remember her by
September 12th, 2013  
Such a lovely tribute to your mum. She looks very beautiful in this shot.
September 12th, 2013  
Aww what a beautiful tribute to your mum! Lovely portrait!
September 12th, 2013  
Thank you for sharing this lovely photo.
September 12th, 2013  
Sue
A beautiful gentle face, lovely portrait of your mum. A lovely tribute to your mum Darren.
September 13th, 2013  
Gorgeous. You can see her warmth shining through her beautiful eyes and smile.
September 13th, 2013  
Your mama was a gorgeous lady. So sorry for your loss. My father in law lost his battle to cancer at 53, too.
September 13th, 2013  
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Thank you all for your incredible words of comfort and support. It's amazing how many of you have been affected by the nasty disease that cancer is. One day it will be beaten and no one will have to suffer.
Much love to you all :) Mum would have been incredibly humbled by your comments, as indeed I am!
September 14th, 2013  
@darrenboyj your very welcome Darren take care
September 14th, 2013  
How heartbreaking to loose your mum so early. I am sure she is somewhere, with all the other lost mum's waiting to greet their children someday
September 16th, 2013  
It's very hard, my mother passed away suddenly when she was only 49 years old. It's nice that you remember her in this way, I think of my mother all the time even though it's will be 35 years since she's gone this October 28th.
September 18th, 2013  
@pixiemac @tomsde thank you both for your words. Thomas, I'm sorry for your loss also, such a young age too. I, like you think of my mother EVERY day - the pain certainly dulls but never leaves altogether.
September 18th, 2013  
I try to tell people to appreciate their parents while they have them, even if there have been difficulties in the past, because once they're gone they're gone for good.
September 19th, 2013  
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