When Life Hits A Wall by digitalrn

When Life Hits A Wall

Sometimes situations in life will force us to come to grips with the frailty of life, and of its value. Last night only two blocks from our home, a young man was brutally murdered on the front porch of his family's home. The details are unknown at the present time. We heard what we thought was the sound of firecrackers being set off in the neighborhood only to find out a short time later that a young man, 28 years old was shot dead on the front porch of his family's home. He grew up with our kids, and the event has stirred many emotions. It's a Parent's worst nightmare come true. And to make matters worse, today our Son and Daughter visited another friend, and co-worker who is lying in a hospital bed, apparently brain dead following the abuse of pain killers. As painful as it is for our Children, I believe it has reminded them of a life they once lived, and how fortunate they are to have survived such a dangerous lifestyle. They both openly talked about how these two incidents have impacted them. I'm glad they are talking about it. Thoughts and prayers to all involved.
My condolences to all. Sending hugs and prayers.
June 18th, 2012  
Life is so fragile. My condolences, thoughts and prayers to all. Awesome pic...
June 18th, 2012  
I will pray for all of them tonight.
June 18th, 2012  
I am so sorry for your losses. Sounds like a terrible weekend. Praying for you and your neighborhood
June 18th, 2012  
My condolences
June 18th, 2012  
My condolences
June 18th, 2012  
that is a very difficult thing to experience for all......
June 18th, 2012  
My prayers are with them all.
June 18th, 2012  
Oh my Rick. It is hard enough when you do not know the parties involved but when it is on your own street and someone you know, the message is a lot louder. Your photo is a good one to convey your sentiments.
June 18th, 2012  
I love that the photo conveys the sentiment so well! Sorry for the losses!
June 18th, 2012  
That's a heartbreaking story and the photo is well suited. Beautifully sad shot.
June 18th, 2012  
It's so difficult to come to terms with people who were once in your life; and are no longer there. These two poor souls are such examples of how life used to be; and how it is now.

Last year, I went to my 20 year class reunion and was the last to know that one of guys in my form/home group had passed away from a fishing accident a couple of years before. It made the news and everything - and he had the most common name as well! So, when I was told, it was an absolute shock. He and I were two out of the three eldest of our form/home group and our grade... sad to know he's not around anymore as he was the class clown and always made everyone laugh.

My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your kids and to those people who you know are related to the recently passed. Your kids shouldn't be losing people they know so young, especially those they hung around with as children themselves.
June 18th, 2012  
Praying for all involved, the photo is well done.
June 18th, 2012  
I hope his spirit is at peace, even if his death wasnt. I hope his journey home was swift and a great homecoming was had..
I hope his family, friends and the community can heal from this..
June 18th, 2012  
Oh my! That is just awful news. And so scary. I'm sure it has had a huge impact on your kids. I will be praying for everyone involved.
June 18th, 2012  
Oh, Rick...I'm so sorry to hear this news. Wow, I've gone from big smiles to tears in just one day's worth of catching up on your photos. Both of your stories are for sure every parent's worst nightmare. They and their families will be in my prayers. I'm so glad your kids are able to share their feelings with you, your wife and each other. It's alot to process all in one day. I'm sorry your Father's Day was tinged with such tragedy.
June 18th, 2012  
Oh, Rick, that's such sad news on a day that should be filled with the love of family gathered around. If anything good is to come of it, it draws your children closer as they hopefully realize how fortunate they are. My thoughts are with you.
June 18th, 2012  
These things are unfortunately all too common. I worked for Victim Support for some years and trying to help those left behind was a daily task
June 18th, 2012  
Very sad.
June 18th, 2012  
Such a sad story, Rick. Well expressed in a great photo.
June 18th, 2012  
A very sad story and a very powerful shot to go with it Rick.
June 18th, 2012  
Interesting effect!
June 18th, 2012  
Wonderful photo to convey the situation. Very sad. Hugs to your children.
June 18th, 2012  
So sad!
June 18th, 2012  
Shocking news. The realization that we are not invincible really hits home when things like this happen. I'll be praying for everyone.
June 18th, 2012  
Your photo is very strong. The illustration reflects the heartbreaking reality.
June 18th, 2012  
An amazing illustration of the impact to your neighbourhood & the effect on all who new these young victims...life is hard for the young these days.
June 18th, 2012  
Oh Rick, I'll keep everyone in my prayers. It's heartbreaking. Your shot depicts this so well.
June 18th, 2012  
That's just horrible, and so unsettling when it happens close to home.
June 18th, 2012  
This is so terribly sad and such an emotive and excellent photograph Rick. My heart goes out to all the families concerned. ♥
June 18th, 2012  
Oh Rick, I am so saddened not only by these losses in human life, but how it must have put a wet blanket on your own Father's Day celebrations with your children around. It should have been the highlight of your week. Life is so short, and at times like this, we count on the love around us to guide us through. The one good thing, is that you were all together as a family as these tragedies unfolded, and that your children love each other and their parents enough to share their stories and grow from these tragedies. My wish for you is that they continue to grow closer as the next year unfolds. What a wake up call of the most horrible variety. That said.... your photo is a perfect capture for your day. And processing it upon that brick wall, and the brown tones, are apropos for this photo of your day. Well done.
June 18th, 2012  
So sorry to hear about this, Rick ... it really does have an impact on so many people. From family to friends to acquaintances. This kind of thing can truly change lives. Your photo and your comment are a reminder of the unpredictability of life. Thought provoking.
June 18th, 2012  
what a poignant photo to such a tragic event - hope you all stay safe
June 18th, 2012  
How sad. We seem to be hearing about these senseless killings & abuse of drugs more often. My prayers go out to these people. What a shock to happen so close to your home & for your kids to have known them. One never knows what is ahead for our kids.
June 19th, 2012  
so sad to hear about this rick. my condelences go out to you all. your shot seem to have the right mood matching your words.
June 19th, 2012  
Wow. What a sad but true commentary. The image really suits it well.
June 19th, 2012  
this is so sad!!!!!!!!!!
June 20th, 2012  
A very sad and meaningful story. Great image to go with it.
June 20th, 2012  
It is sad enough when events like this make the news. Sadder still when it affects people we know. My heartfelt prayers are for all touched by this tragedy- that there would be healing in the future and suffering will cease. A wonderfully symbolic shot to go with your words.
June 21st, 2012  
How very sad. This photo is very poignant.
June 21st, 2012  
Such tragic events truly have a strong impact. My condolences and this shot portrays your message very well.
June 21st, 2012  
Excellent way to express that thought!
June 22nd, 2012  
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