I’ve had such bad news I can hardly cope with putting my today’’s photo on - old Oamaru historic street. But I loved what I did before I heard the news!
My darling younger sister told me she has a terminal illness two days ago and now she is not expected to live beyond New Year! I find it hard to speak or think through tears!
Three good things;
1 I still have to think of good things.
2. I’m nor far from her and will see her often in the next 2 weeks.
3. I’ve got a very strong shoulder that John has, to hug!
This is dreadful news Maggie. So pleased she is not too far away and that you have John for support. It will matter so much to her that you are nearby. My thoughts will be with you at this awful time.
@maggiemae It is most likely that she will - even if you cant notice the signs. She will hear you. Take care - it is a terrible time to go through. I was there exactly this time last year. How I feel for you. Hang on to beautiful moments.
Oh Maggie what a terrible shock for you, I'm so sorry. I know you are so close to your family & it will be hard to take it in. Hope you find the strength to help her as much as possible in the days to come & I know you will treasure every moment. Such short notice to take in such news, will be thinking of you all in the hard days to come.
@happypat I've been in floods of tears, Pat. Its hard to realise that your younger sister will no longer be part of your immediate and really, only family! I have only one sister left and she is flying down early next week.
Oh Maggie, I'm so sorry to read this news about your sister. No wonder you feel devastated. Such a terribly difficult time but each day will be very precious. My thoughts are with you.
Truly sorry to hear this news Maggie, you must be devastated. I'm sure you'll find the strength to make the most of your time together. My thoughts are with you and your sister.
Maggie, I am so very sorry. I know your heart is breaking. Please know that I, along with so many others, will be thinking of you in the difficult days you have ahead. May your sister be peacefully surrounded with the love of you, her family, and friends.
Oh Maggie - I am so sorry to hear this news - I have been there with my sister -I know exactly what you are going through. My thoughts and heartfelt sympathy to you and yours. Take care of yourself too.
Oh Maggiemae, what sad and devastating news. My thoughts will be with you during this trying time. May you have some precious moments with your sister. Take care
aaaaaah maggie what awful news and what a sad time for you and your family. i will be thinking of you all, and feeling glad that john's shoulder is there for you :) glad you could share this with us. and i do really like your picture as well
So very sorry to hear your sad and devastating news -- you must be in bits , my thoughts and prayers are with you through this very difficult time -- may you have some precious moment with your sister which you will be able to cherish . So glad that John is there to help and support you .
Your shot is beautifully edited , giving it that tranquil feel ! Take care xx
Maggie dear, so very sorry to hear this awful news. Losing a sister is a terrible thing :(. Your grief reminds me to treasure every moment with my friends and family, and of how much i continue to love them after they've left me. Much love to you and your sister.
Oh Maggie, I'm so sorry to read this. What heartbreaking news. One thing I always wished I did before my Dad passed away was go through some of his old photos with him. There were a lot that I had never seen before and that he had no writting on the back. It was lovely looking through them but something I wished I had done with him earlier. I used them to make a photobook for my Mum, but again something I wished I had made before he died so he could have enjoyed it too. My thoughts are with you xxx
Oh Maggie what heartbreaking news!! So hard to even take it in I am sure!! My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so glad you have John there to support you in the dark days ahead. Big loving hug!!
@maggiemae you feel it worse when your younger sister is affected. You will feel like you should be protecting her as the older one. Good your other sister is coming down & you can support each other.
So sorry you had unexpected bad news. can't imagine what it must be like for her to get the news & for you. words can't describe how you must feel. I lost my older sister in 2011. we saw her last in 2010 and two years later my much younger brother passed away very unexpectedly. at least you might have some time to be with your sister. I'm sure you'll want to be with her as much as you can.my thoughts and prayers will be with her, you and your family. stay strong.
@bruni Thank you Bruni- I think calm and strong are the vital words. I feel like breaking down into tears but that only distresses everybody. You have had a bad run with your family and it would have been just as hard. Thank you for your kind thoughts!
Maggie, I am so sorry to hear this! I cannot imagine what you are going through, but do take care if yourself during the next few weeks. It's ok to break down because you'll emerge stronger when you get up.
So sorry that you and your family are going through this dreadful experience ...I hope that your sister is not in pain. I am praying for you and everyone affected by this terrible tragedy, and hope that you will find comfort in each moment that you are able to spend with your sister.
@dsp2 I think she has pain, Dinah but before, they couldn't get her to take any pills. Now that she is in Hospice they might be able to handle it. When its personal, it becomes so overwhelming but one has to realise - this event is happening every day to someone!
Be there as much as you possibly can. It was so meaningful for me to have been with my dad before he passed. He slept most of the time but he was always happy to wake up and see me. I would have been devastated if I'd not been there. It's hard to write something as words seem inadequate but just know that you are not alone and many others understand how you feel and are pulling for you.
The shot and processing are great- but it seems silly to write that after words of encouragement. Hugs and prayers
Whilst I've been following the sad story of your sister, I haven't been able to find the right words to comment. I still can't but I wanted you to know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.
December 22nd, 2016
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Your shot is beautifully edited , giving it that tranquil feel ! Take care xx
The shot and processing are great- but it seems silly to write that after words of encouragement. Hugs and prayers