I Miss You by myautofocuslife

I Miss You

I was away for a while but I'm back. My mother passed away last week. I miss her and I wish I could talk to her again, but I know she is now in a better place and, at last, is completely free from pain.

This photo of an oncidium orchid (commonly called the dancing lady orchid because it resembles a lady in a beautiful dress with a big skirt) was taken last month when I visited the conservatory. Isn't it pretty? My mother used to grow this type of orchid.

My Lumix DMC FZ-18 is a digital compact camera and, as always, I used the autofocus function to snap this flower. Afterwards, I was happily surprised to see that I had, somehow, managed to get some depth of field in this shot even with the autofocus function. (Clearly, I am a clueless photographer!)
First of all, I want to tell you that I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom, Livia. I have been through the same thing. This beautiful photo is a wonderful tribute to her. And it turned out perfectly . . great clarity and color. You know that I'm "autofocus" person just like you . . maybe we're both clueless, but I don't care. Welcome back, Livia. :)
December 14th, 2011  
Sorry to hear of your loss. Beautiful orchid and I am pleased it has a connection with your mum.
December 14th, 2011  
So sorry to hear about your Mom, Livia. This picture is a perfect tribute to her, since the dancing lady was something she loved to grow. She must have been warm and lively.
December 14th, 2011  
I'm so sorry Livia. You flower is beautiful tribute to her
December 14th, 2011  
I love your photo of the dancing dolls orchid! I used to have one but, my thumb is not so green with house plants. You have my deepest sympathies about your mother's passing. It's never easy to lose a parent. But we can take some comfort in knowing we won't be parted long in the scheme of things. I look forward to seeing your pics! =)
December 14th, 2011  
Beautiful colors Livia!
December 14th, 2011  
What a beautiful photo and memoir. Very beautiful all round.
December 14th, 2011  
Tears for you Livia, I am sorry for your loss. The shot is a beautiful tribute.
December 14th, 2011  
My deepest condolences for the loss of your Mum. Mothers are wonderful people who make our lives whole. They are there when we need advice, a laugh, a shoulder to cry on or just want to talk to them over a cup of tea or coffee. And it's awful when they're no longer with us.

My Mum misses her Mum - my Grandma - terribly as she was a wonderful person. I miss Grandma because she was a wonderful cook, could play the piano and had a contagious laugh.

This is lovely photo of a gorgeous, vibrant orchid. It must reflect how much love of life she must have had.
December 14th, 2011  
I am so sorry for your loss,Livia. This is an awesome photo!
December 14th, 2011  
Livia, I am so sorry also. I love this picture! Fav for me because it is beautifully done and I have never seen this type of orchid before. Glad to see you back. I always enjoy seeing you around (pictures and comments).
December 14th, 2011  
Prayers for your loved one, and you. She is looking down on you and smiling! Your mother is still there for you, remember that. I know it's a hard time in your life, I've lost several close people, but not my mother... but I know your mother is watching over you and smiling. This is a beautiful photo!
December 14th, 2011  
I am so sorry to hear that your mother passed away, but it must be comforting to know her pain is gone too. This is a beautiful shot and a lovely tribute.
December 14th, 2011  
Livia I'm so sorry to hear of your loss but this photo is a lovely tribute to your Mum. Thinking of you during this sad time.
December 14th, 2011  
Condolences and sympathy to you on your loss. A beautiful photo
December 14th, 2011  
Deepest sympathy to you Livia, and it;s a wonderful orchid shot.
December 14th, 2011  
i am so very sorry to hear your mother died. what a sad time it must be for you.
this flower is a wonderful tribute to her
she must have had some very beautiful flowers.
December 14th, 2011  
Oh my, I am so sorry for your Loss!! but that is an amazing picture!!
December 14th, 2011  
This shot brightened my. Quite literally
December 14th, 2011  
Oh Livia - I am really sorry that you have lost your beautiful mum. What a lonely time it must be for you. Mothers hold their childrens' hands for a while - their hearts forever. xox What a perfect way to remember your mum, with this gorgeous flower. Hugs from this heart to yours.
December 14th, 2011  
Warmest feelings of sympathy and condolences on the passing of your mum. Your positivity is inspirational and uplifting :). A very beautiful shot and composition.
December 14th, 2011  
What a very sad time for you at the moment. I hope you have beautiful memories of your Mum to keep forever in your heart. I extend my condolences to you.
December 14th, 2011  
Oh wow this is stunning. What a wonderful dancing lady and a beautiful image for your mum. :-)
December 14th, 2011  
Beautiful memory and tribute to your mother.
December 14th, 2011  
Welcomes me back Livia. I am also sorry to hear about your mom. This is a beautiful photo. Love it. Perfect tribute to your mom missed you.
December 14th, 2011  
I'm so sorry about your mom. We always miss our moms. The flower is beautiful with great dof. When you explained why the name, I can see the lady in the beautiful dress.
December 14th, 2011  
Amy
I'm so sorry for your loss.
December 14th, 2011  
I am so sorry for your loss!!! Wonderful tribute to your mom!
December 14th, 2011  
I'm so sorry for your loss. This is a beautiful tribute to her.
December 14th, 2011  
Extending my sympathies to you. Both of my parents have passed andI know how hard this is for you. The flower is beautiful and I saw the dancing lady right away. Great tribute to your mom and, yes, you have some nice DOF in the picture. Thinking of you.
December 14th, 2011  
Wonderful tribute to your mom! Wonderful Shot - just beautiful!
December 14th, 2011  
I am so sorry to hear about your Mum. Both the flower and your photo of it are gorgeous.
December 14th, 2011  
OMG Livia~ I am so so sorry for your loss- sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Beautiful orchid! {{{hugs}}} for you Livia! xo (I missed your pics and comments BTW- I almost posted a comment last night on your earring pic- glad you are back!)
December 14th, 2011  
I'm so sorry to hear about your mother, Livia. Thoughts and prayers coming your way. The picture above is beautiful. I love the color of it.
December 14th, 2011  
I am so sorry for your loss. This photo is a lovely remembrance photo. Take care
December 14th, 2011  
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. It is so terrible to lose your Mom. A beautiful photo.
December 14th, 2011  
Condolences on your sad loss.......A beautiful flower shot in memory.
December 14th, 2011  
I am so sorry for your loss!!! This photo is beautiful!!
December 14th, 2011  
Livia, my heart goes out to you; I'm so sorry for what you've been through. This is a truly lovely photograph of a beautiful flower. The fact that your mother grew them suggests a tender and caring nature. Take very good care, Les x
December 14th, 2011  
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. I know it is not a great time, but I think photography helps. Your shot of the beautiful flower is very appropriate. Nice.
December 14th, 2011  
Livia, so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my dad a few years back and we both loved reading. It is still hard for me when I read a good book and know he would have enjoyed it too. Look after yourself.
December 14th, 2011  
I'm so sorry to read about about your mother. This is a beautiful orchid and a wonderful tribute to your mother. Take care.
December 14th, 2011  
Please forgive me I can`t find the right words to tell how I feel sorry to you and all who`s left behind. I admire you strength to realize she`s on a better place now. and hope you`ve the same strength to live with it
The tribute is beautiful
December 14th, 2011  
Hi Livia, my condolences on losing your mother. This beautiful image is a moving tribute.
I also use a Lumix point-and-shoot and sometimes I'm able to get decent DOF but not when I'm actually trying. I am a somewhat lame photographer.
December 14th, 2011  
Firstly to say so so sorry to hear about your loss. Thanks for sharing the photo, and the explanation of why you chose it. I've never come across a dancing lady orchid before. Beautiful, and so well taken.
December 14th, 2011  
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Sorry for the sad news and prayers for your mom...beautiful shot, I use a Lumix too for a P&S camera. It's actually a work camera but it comes n handy, overall it's very nice....
December 14th, 2011  
To everyone: Thank you. Thank you so much for your understanding, support and condolences. I find comfort in your kind words and I am very grateful. Thank you so, so much!

December 15th, 2011  
Wonderful capture. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Mom's are special and she will be watching over you from above.
December 15th, 2011  
Have missed you here. So sorry for your loss; this is a lovely remembrance.
December 15th, 2011  
Hugs to you - grief is awful.
My Mum has always grown these orchids and they can't help but make me smile..
December 15th, 2011  
So sorry to hear about your mum. Lovely tribute shot for her.
December 15th, 2011  
Livia, so sorry to hear your sad news, your tribute to her is beautiful and heartfelt.
December 15th, 2011  
So sad to hear of your loss. Christmas & Holidays are especially difficult but I will pray for you & your family. Beautiful flower picture.
December 15th, 2011  
Livia this is a beautiful photo. I am sorry to hear you lost your mother… This must be a very hard time. Good thoughts to you.
December 15th, 2011  
Oh, so sorry to hear about your mum Livia. This shot is a lovely remembrance of your mum. No wonder I haven't seen you around lately. My mum has orchid like this too. My thoughts and prayers are with you this moment.
December 15th, 2011  
A FAV for me...
December 15th, 2011  
Oh, Livia! I am so so sorry for your loss! It just crushes me to hear this! My prayers go out to you and your family! This is such a beautiful tribute!
December 16th, 2011  
I am so, so sorry about your loss......when I lost my mom I told God that I missed her very, very much and the answer that came was "she's better off with me than she is with you" and that really comforted me.
December 16th, 2011  
I am so behind in my comments and just saw this photo and your dedication to your mom. I understand your pain and loss. My mom passed away almost 14 years ago and I still miss her, but I also believe she watches over me and the rest of my family. I send you a big hug and this dancing lady is a beautiful photo!
December 17th, 2011  
Orchids are tricky to photograph and you have done well here! Great shot!
December 17th, 2011  
First of all, my sympathies on the loss of your mom and this is such a lovely tribute to her. I will join you & the rest on the auto-focus. I am getting another camera for Christmas with a higher zoom, MP, etc. but will still keep it simple. Your photos are lovely & you are very creative.
December 20th, 2011  
sorry about your loss. i'm happy to know your perspective on this; it's a great attitude to cope with. (i lost my mother almost forty years ago and i still miss her.) you will find that she lives inside you and she still guides you. this is a beautiful tribute to your mother. the colours are so lively and the name fitting. wonderful shot, livia.
December 20th, 2011  
This is stunning.
December 21st, 2011  
Wonderful shot in tribute to your mother. She lives on in your memory and now in this photo. Well done.
December 27th, 2011  
So sorry about your mother, that must have been a very difficult Christmas for you. Maybe she was smiling down on you when you took this picture of flower she used to grow.
January 6th, 2012  
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