100 Strangers : No. 92 : Mel by phil_howcroft

100 Strangers : No. 92 : Mel

It was Nottingham Pride today, so it was a great opportunity to add to my 100 strangers project.

Meet Mel, a transgender woman. I spotted Mel outside Marks and Spencer before the pride march / parade began.

I introduced myself to Mel and asked if it was OK to photograph her. Mel was happy to be part of my project.

The white wall on the side of Marks and Spencer was a great blank canvas to photograph Mel against.

I asked Mel, how long she had been Mel, how long since she came out as Mel.

"I am counting the weeks" said Mel "It is only a few weeks"

"Really", I said, "Well you have done a good job with your make up for a few weeks"

"I have been gay for ages", Mel continued "I started trying make up on and quite enjoyed it and then it seemed a natural progression to womens clothes.

"Your hair is your own too" I said.

"Yes" said Mel, "A lot of TG and transvestites wear wigs, but I intend to grow mine quite long, grow it beyond my shoulders"

I asked what plans Mel had for after the parade. She said she intended to have a few beers with some friends.

I asked Mel if she was from Nottingham. She said she was, I told her I detected a non Nottingham accent and she told me she originates from Leeds.

I showed Mel the pictures on the back of my camera and she said she thought I'd got some good ones.

I thanked Mel for her time and gave her one of my cards and told her to email me if she wanted a copy of the images.

The image was edited in Darktable and I used the +EV setting post processing to lighten some tones on Mel. I was tempted to go monochrome, but Mel's dark outfit and the white wall almost give it a mono feel and in colour I retain Mel's red lippy

This picture is number 92 in my 100 strangers project. Find out more about the project and see pictures taken by other photographers at the 100 Strangers Flickr Group page

https://www.flickr.com/groups/100strangers/

My own strangers can be seen here:

https://www.flickr.com/photos/57144254@N08/albums/72157657822400168
I think Mel looks wonderful. Cincinnati had their Pride Parade and I shot it a few weeks back. I am still hesitant to ask strangers if I can take their picture I need to get more guts but I so rarely shoot people. I did have fun at the parade and found a young lady with purple hair as we were leaving and did ask her if I could take a shot as I have purple highlights now so we had something to compare.
July 30th, 2017  
isn't it just so sad that many wait so long to come out? I met a transgender woman Karen a few years ago - she waited until her children were adults so they wouldn't have to deal with the massive change but she was just so lovely and I couldn't help but feel sad that identity was stuffed inside like a dirty secret for a lifetime - I have other transgender friends too and it breaks my heart when I hear horrible ignorant comments made in public or the media knowing that my friends are not deserving of these judgements. Good on Mel for allowing you to photograph her and share a bit of her story with us x
July 30th, 2017  
A great image Phil. I'm glad Mel is now having the opportunity to freely express her true self.
July 30th, 2017  
Another great portrait shot, Phil. Enjoyed reading the story, too.
July 30th, 2017  
Great character portrait, Phil...fav
July 30th, 2017  
Awesome shot
July 30th, 2017  
Nice portrait!
July 30th, 2017  
A
Great portrait and congrats to Mel for coming out!
July 30th, 2017  
Lee
Gotta admit Phil you've got more guts than me at approaching people for photos. Nicely done.
July 30th, 2017  
This is a very arresting photo of Mel, so brave of her to be herself even in these so called modern times. She looks very stylish! You are almost at the end of your 100 photos!
July 30th, 2017  
@cdonohoue thanks for your very kind words Cathy on both my photo and Mel

@tibles thanks ulrika for your comments. I would like to think that everyone in our world is inclusive and respectable to everyone .
July 31st, 2017  
@nickspicsnz thanks nick for your kind words

@sangwann cheers dione . Thanks for your continued support

@kwind thank you for your comment

@blueace thanks annie for your lovely comment

@gamelee cheers Lee. It is quite easy doing Street strangers once you are used to it . I rarely get a NO
July 31st, 2017  
@happypat thanks pat. I am pleased with the photos I took of Mel. I got a few more strangers at pride. Once I have posted them all , I will be on 97 😀
July 31st, 2017  
A very thought-provoking capture, Phil. It is so sad when people who just want to be true to themselves are vilified because the perpetrators feel uncomfortable. We like to think we are an accepting society but it seems to me reality too often does not bear this out.
All the very best to Mel.
July 31st, 2017  
This is such a strong shot, in so many ways., including her arm and how she is leaning just a bit and where you have placed her just off center in the shot. Strong character, strong photograph.
August 3rd, 2017  
@dulciknit thanks alison for your thoughtful comment :)

@granagringa thank you :)
August 5th, 2017  
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