Wendy by quietpurplehaze

Wendy

This is the front cover of a photobook which I made a couple of years ago in remembrance and celebration of the life of my younger, and only, sister, Wendy.

She died on March 11th , 1996, aged 46, from breast cancer. It was hard to find photos of every stage of her life, childhood, teenage years, marriage, family, dogs (!)..................
And it was hard, emotionally, to create the book, too. But when it was complete, I was pleased with it and pleased that I had achieved it. I had some copies printed for other members of the family.
It must have been a very difficult thing for you to do but a wonderful archive of memories and so worthwhile.
March 11th, 2012  
Oh Hazel what a wonderful, if painful thing to do. Like the cover very much. It must be so hard to bear this loss.
March 11th, 2015  
@claireuk

Claire, thanks for taking the trouble to look. I think making the photobook was therapeutic, if difficult. I became pragmatic in the end over her illness just knowing she was out of her suffering and I've always accepted what happened but when anniversaries come around, it resurfaces a bit.
March 11th, 2015  
Kim
This is such a beautiful way to honor your sister's memory. I can't imagine how hard that was for you. I only have one sibling, my younger sister, so this breaks my heart for you.
March 11th, 2015  
Oh dear Hazel I never saw this before...how you must miss her...a sister is so special & the closest family you can have. I feel your pain as my younger sister too is suffering from breast cancer at this moment although has mostly just finished her treatment. So young too.....a tragedy!
March 11th, 2015  
Bep
This must be a wonderful archive, Hazel.
Breast cancer is a horrible illness. My daughter (she survived breast cancer ten years ago) lost two of her friends last week. Young women.
March 11th, 2015  
Thank you for visiting this post about my sister. Life is strange, I find, in that the things one worries about, rarely happen, but the things you never imagine will affect you personally are what come your way. Thank you for your kind words and I have great empathy for those of you and your family also affected in some way by breast cancer.

@kimdavis @happypat @gijsje
March 11th, 2015  
a lovely tribute to your sister
March 11th, 2015  
I always find it difficult to say appropriate words when somebody posts a moving story or picture on 365 . It is good that you feel confident to share this with your 365 friends both now and also back in 2012.
A great tribute to your sister and a lasting memory
March 11th, 2015  
@phil_howcroft

I agree these posts are difficult and I never want anyone to leave effusive comments. It is difficult to imagine anywhere else that I would feel like posting such tributes. Thanks for your visit and comments.
March 11th, 2015  
@rosiekind

Rosie, thank you.
March 11th, 2015  
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