Haze's strangers: No.115: David  by quietpurplehaze

Haze's strangers: No.115: David

Last week, we went into M&S in Winchester as Ray wanted to look for a shirt. He's a fast walker and was halfway up the escalator to the men's department on the second floor when he realised that I was no longer with him.

I had noticed a little 'stand' with an employee promoting the store's 'Sparks' card. Having recently picked up one of these cards in another M&S store and twice found I was somehow prevented from activating it online, I stopped to ask the gentleman working on the stand if he might do it for me. He was only too happy and, by signs, Ray carried on in the meantime to men's shirts.

It was a simple procedure, apart from the technology not always receiving the necessary signal and necessitating David as I later learned he was called, doing a little walkabout with it.

David was most friendly, helpful and smiling and gradually the idea came to me to ask him for a portrait. He agreed and we also had a chat to organise the accompanying story. As he was activating the Sparks card he reflected on technology and, in particular, the need for him, as a father of two sons, aged 11 and 14, to make sure they maintain a balance in their lives between the real world and the virtual world.

Originally from Reading, David currently lives in Winchester with his sons and his wife, who is an occupational therapist. He himself by profession is a chartered surveyor but is working part-time in the M&S store there.

When I asked about interests/passions, David told me he likes singing but his own church does not have a choir. In the past he has sung in Westminster Abbey, Winchester Cathedral and in a Norman church in London. He likes religious music and I imagined that as a singer, he must have a favourite composer and when I asked him, he nominated Handel.

The photography was more challenging than I had expected: I had asked David to move just slightly (bearing in mind he was on duty) but still found the escalator, shoppers, and goods on display crowding the background; the lighting also was generally harsh and there were obtrusive 'spotlit' areas which I had not really taken in to account. Hence the conversion to b&w, although I have also sent David a photo in colour.

Even though this is No.115 in my strangers' project, I still regard it as a learning exercise, particularly photographically, and if anybody has helpful hints for me in that respect, they will be welcome.

David and his family are off to France for their holidays this summer. I hope they have a great time and also wish him all the best for his future professional life.

p.s. Ray found no shirt and as an initial enticement with my Sparks card I have 10% off a first buy of food and flowers - susceptible, moi?!

See more portraits here:
https://www.flickr.com/photos/150442566@N07/albums/72157674948019094

That's such a happy face! Loved reading the story behind it too. What a kind, professional and thoughtful man. Glad he could activate your Sparks card - mine was a challenge too!
July 23rd, 2017  
Great portrait shot and story
July 23rd, 2017  
Of the two photos I prefer this version. I don't know how you manage to get so much information from a stranger during your brief encounter with them.
July 23rd, 2017  
Great story and wonderful in B&W . Especially when on black.
July 23rd, 2017  
A lovely story and great black and white image
July 23rd, 2017  
@onewing

Babs, it's strange you should say that because I always feel I have not managed to discover very much!
July 23rd, 2017  
You are a lot braver than me.
Love the story
July 23rd, 2017  
Lovely portrait hazel you have captured David superbly in wonderful monochrome tones:)
July 23rd, 2017  
nice to see you using mono haze :)
(btw I did my first stranger shot usin my sony Alpha 6000 today, rather than my Canon )
July 23rd, 2017  
Great portrait and story
July 24th, 2017  
Lovely portrait in difficult surroundings but great in B/W.A Sparks card is very handy as long as you look at the sight and choose before you go shopping but I think you can ask at the desk to get the reductions.
July 24th, 2017  
I love these portraits that you do. This one's great.
July 24th, 2017  
@billygreen

Thank you. It does not feel brave to me - I mean the person is either going to say yes or no. I admit this is the first time I have taken a portrait in a big store.....
July 24th, 2017  
I like this version better Hazel... but then I would! I'm full of admiration for the way you've tackled this project.
July 25th, 2017  
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