how joyful can one get? by summerfield

how joyful can one get?

and why wouldn't i be when there's so much to be thankful for. almost free of responsibilities and would soon be settling into retirement when i can do all things i want to do, go to places i would like to go, and only me to think of.

i've been asked quite a few times if i don't miss companionship. well, mostly i don't. it's true there are things that are good to share with someone close to you, but i have been there and done that. it's not an enjoyable company when you're saddled with problems and you're the only one having to bear those problems. well, mostly, and where's the fairness in that. believe you me, for me, i prefer to be alone and i know how to be alone. i've learned from early on that being alone is not the same as being lonely. one can be with a roomful of people and still be miserable. i have so many things to do, so many books to read, so many stories to write, so many places to visit although i have soured with travelling especially when i have to fly. almost a complete waste of time, flying is now.

life is what we make it. if you choose to be lonely then you will be lonely. but we make use of our time and use it wisely that's when contentment sets in and then happiness and joy.

and for the lurkers, if they're still lurking around - i have no regrets that you're gone from my life.

for week 50 of 52 portraits of me challenge, the theme is "joy".
Lovely!
December 19th, 2017  
You go Vicki! Congrats on being so close. Yes life is what we make it and if we choose to be happy...it’s so much more fun! So much to see, do and read! Definitely be joyful! Lucky u!πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰
December 19th, 2017  
GO- girlβ€”-!!- btw, you look mahvelous ! πŸ‘πŸ˜
December 19th, 2017  
Well said! And another great selfie from the Queen.
December 19th, 2017  
I love it, wise and wonderful words. You certainly have every reason to be joyful. Lovely shot too.
December 19th, 2017  
Very joyful image.
December 19th, 2017  
Vikki's Manifesto!!! Enjoy!
December 19th, 2017  
Flying may waste time, but the end of the journey must make it worthwhile?? Another lovley portrait
December 19th, 2017  
Very impressive portrait... A woman with alert eyes... thoughtful, soulful...
Respect.

Flying - with the birds, with the clouds, like flying seeds with the wind... with them I travel in my thoughts... to wonderful places...
December 20th, 2017  
@jerome - aww, how nice of you, jerome. that's so sweet! thank you.
December 20th, 2017  
You have such a beautiful face and I am sure a soul to match
December 21st, 2017  
A lovely self-portrait.
December 21st, 2017  
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