@stephanies I have been working on the bokeh, and this is the closest I've gotten so far. I am going to try again tomorrow, and am hoping I have a better one!
I can see some bokeh in the background, it's not as clear as I would have wanted, but it is still there. It took me ages to figure out how to do it, but it's worth playing around with, as I think it can make a flower image look really pretty.