Here Lies my Great Great Grandmother by alophoto

Here Lies my Great Great Grandmother

She died 110 years ago and was only 31. So young and beautiful, she really was lovely.

It says on her death certificate that she died from complications from womb surgery. Perhaps she had a c-section and bled out or died during child birth. Medicine was still so archaic back then.

She had at least two children, that I know of. Robert was my great grandfather. And Clara was her daughter. My grandma was named after her aunt Clara and my daughter was named after her.

An interesting thing about Flora Belle that I learned is that she inadvertently saved our family line. In December 1903, the family had tickets to go to a play at the Iroquois Theater in Chicago. It was brand new and beautiful and touted as "fireproof." Well, she was ill and the family didn't end up going and the theater (the fireproof one) burned down that day trapping nearly all of the theater goers inside. You see the doors opened inside and when the fire started everyone rushed to the doors and they could not be opened. Had my great great grandmother been well that day, my family may well have perished inside and I would not be here today.

We visited her grave at Spring Grove cemetery and saw the Burton family plot. I tried to brush the grass and debris from the stone and my girls picked and put flowers on her grave. Emily added the middle dandelion so she could make a wish. I wish I could talk to Flora Belle and thank her for giving us life. I wish she had lived til a ripe old age.

Visiting her and my ancestors makes me ponder life and death and purpose. It makes me somber. Still have much to do. Hope I am given the time and that I don't squander it.
Beautiful. I love genealogy, been looking for my ancestors myself.
April 28th, 2015  
What a lovely memorial. I enjoyed reading about Flora Belle and wonder what she would think about people from around the globe seeing her grave site and reading her life story. Quite awesome.
April 28th, 2015  
What a story you've shared about your Grandmother Flora's role in saving the family. Your thoughts and feelings are similar ones to what I feel when I visit the resting places of my forefathers. I'm sure she would be touched by your girls' thoughtful flowers.
April 28th, 2015  
what an amazing story! thank you so much for sharing it
April 28th, 2015  
Cool story
April 28th, 2015  
Cool shot and interesting family history
April 28th, 2015  
interesting shot.
April 28th, 2015  
It's so nice you have this bit of family history. My mother says her paternal grandmother had the sixth sense, but grandma didn't like her and destroyed all the old newspapers that talked about her. My mom has a touch of it, but none here.
April 28th, 2015  
An amazing story and a plain but beautiful headstone !
April 28th, 2015  
A really interesting family history, Amanda.
April 28th, 2015  
Sweet family history-and Clara's a charming name:)
April 28th, 2015  
Wow... what a cool shot!
April 28th, 2015  
Wonderful photo and story about your great great grandmother. Her story reminds me that God sees "the big picture" and things (even bad things) can be meant for good.
April 28th, 2015  
What an interesting family history you've shared. What a sweet heart your Emily must have to think of placing dandelion for Flora to with with.
April 28th, 2015  
@paulam Wonderful observations, truth and words. my friend. thank you!!!
April 28th, 2015  
wonderful story..... it is amazing to know about family history.. great shot..
April 28th, 2015  
Sometimes I get despondent too when I think of many people I have known and they are all dead! The gravestone is all that is left! However its nice to put flowers on and think of them! Good that you know her story!
April 28th, 2015  
How sweet of your girls to decorate her grave. I think it gives our lives purpose if we ponder how we use our days, because it one is a gift... but I don't want to dwell too long on the shady side of the street. :) A thoughtful narrative.
April 28th, 2015  
Powerful tribute, wonderful narrative and amazing history.
April 29th, 2015  
Well said!! I hope we all don't squander what is given to us!! A beautiful tribute!! FAV!
April 29th, 2015  
Great tribute . Must have been rough in those days having babies.
April 29th, 2015  
It is so interesting to hear stories like this! So glad she saved the bloodline! :-) So sad she dies so young!
April 29th, 2015  
lovely tribute
April 29th, 2015  
Nice composition
April 29th, 2015  
WOW Amanda..that is quite a story!! Really something to ponder? Great telling of the story and love family history.
April 29th, 2015  
zoe
This is great!
April 29th, 2015  
So wonderful that you could visit her, and such an interesting family history too!
April 29th, 2015  
Although sad that she died at such a young age, what a beautiful story! I have been into family ancestry/history for years and it is always so interesting to hear stories like this. How lovely to add the dandelions.....this photo really moves me.
April 29th, 2015  
Pam
Wow! Amazing story! She was a hero! I love the dandelions placed on the grave. Lovely shot.
April 29th, 2015  
Beautifully done Amanda and a good thoughtful narrative.
April 29th, 2015  
How interesting and what a lovely image to complement the story
April 29th, 2015  
So interesting and poignant Amanda. Flora Belle, what a truly beautiful name and as the name means beautiful flower how appropriate that your children placed flowers on her grave.
April 30th, 2015  
Beautiful thoughts and image. Thank you for sharing!
May 2nd, 2015  
What a wonderful piece of history you have found here....and, such a story to go with it. Funny how life works, isn't it?! She did save the family tree, but 31 just seems like such an incredibly young age to die....then, again, I think that was pretty commonplace back then when they did not have the diagnostics, the surgical tools, and the antibiotics we have today.
May 5th, 2015  
Beautiful shot and thoughts.
May 5th, 2015  
Wow, beautiful photograph and wonderful narrative.
May 6th, 2015  
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