Woken by my sister at 3am, "It's Dad, he died a little while ago.."
Such a shame someone so strong, independent, determined should go, but I am consoled in that he was a good man, good husband, father of five kids, nine grandchildren and four great-grandchildren.. A proud man, sometimes too proud for his own good which often meant he'd wait and wait and wait before seeking medical help..
He worked everyday of his life, spent 15 years as a commando, had many hobbies including walking, cycling, football and photography.. In fact Dad gave my first proper camera, a D40 a mere 3 years ago, just a few weeks before I started this project in fact...
He actually asked for it back last year, as he'd recovered well enough after a stroke to take up photography again..
I checked the camera today, He took his last photo on 31 January 2011.. A simple view out the front window.!
I'm gonna miss my Dad.., more than I probably expect I would..!!
Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts and well wishes over the last few days, during these difficult moments, escaping to 365 for a while was a help..
I'm sorry for your loss. You're carrying on his legacy through your photographs and having the last picture he took has to be a great feeling. He asked to borrow the camera back for a reason =]
Sorry for your loss. When my dad died I felt some consolation in knowing a part of him lived on in me through the things that he taught me throughout my life. Take care.
oh Andy I am so sorry for your loss. I have lost both my parents, and I feel your pain. He will always be with you, don't forget that; he will always look out for you; he will always watch over you. He is free from pain now
Oh Andy :'( Nothing I can say really can make things better. My dad was also my camera man. He's still around but we had to regroup and teach him to shoot left handed with a shutter release cable following his stroke.
A lovely images of a bright vibrant young man honors him.
Peace and comfort to you and yours.
You did your dad proud, Andy. Any man that has these kind words to say about his father must have had a good relationship with him. My prayers are with you and your sister...
Prayers are coming for your dad, you, and his family and friends. It sounds like he lived a full and long life doing what made his life worth living. As much as you may accept and understand the loss, you will grieve when you least expect it. Let it run it's course and celebrate the life of your father in whatever form it takes.
So sorry for you loss Andy. My condolences to you and to your family. it sounds like he was a great man and a wonderful father who will be dearly missed.
What a handsome young man who, it sounds like, grew into a fine adult. I'm sorry for your loss, Andy. Strength and good thoughts to you and your familly from me.
It's traumatic losing a parent, realisation that YOU are the older generation, the loss of someone who was always interested in what you do. The list is endless. Best wishes to you.
Hi folks..... I'm not normally one for these mass replies, But I thank you so very, very much for all your kind and wonderful words... Your messages have been such a comfort and really, I can not say how great you guys all are...
Doing something as mundane as taking a photo or checking this site these last few days has helped a great deal...
Aaron mate... Def gonna upload Dad's final pic... Good idea chap...
Hello... Zoya told me what happened, so very sad to hear it. Just wanted to send you a hug, and hope you're bearing up.. It was a pleasure to meet your Pop, although briefly, and chat about photography and I bet he was so proud that you took to photography like a duck to water :-) Take care of you x
@blightygal Thanks Freida.... Hard times but hanging in there... funny, I was never that much into photography until he forced his D40 unto me then I never looked back... He was pleased as gave him a reason to buy Amataur Photography weekly mag :-) So sad I'll never be able to take him on another photo-shoot but thankful he is suffering no more xx
@andycoleborn Well, I am pleased he did push you into it - your photo's are great :-) Again, am so sorry to hear the news, and pleased your hanging in there. Hope your Mum is doing ok x
So very sorry to hear this Andy - my best wishes to you and your family - this is a lovely poignant tribute. Keep snapping the pics - that's a wonderful unbreakable link with your dad.
Andy, so sorry for the loss of your Dad and sending you and your family best wishes. Such a wonderful tribute and really shows your love and respect of him. What a great memory to have the a common love of photo shooting. Wishing you peace as you go through the grieving process.
My dearest Andy...i thought I hadn't seen you for a while so I came to check out your posts......tracked back through your photos and sitting here with tears in my eyes. i feel like I know you tho i never met you. I am so sorry for your loss.....its such a deep hole they leave in your life and your heart. Thinking of you and Sangeeta and your mum and all the family at this time.......big hugs x
So sorry for your loss......cool that you are carrying on the tradition of his love of photography...and i know from experience that this 365 project CAN be a great distraction in times like this....
Should defo post the one he took, in honour of him.
A lovely images of a bright vibrant young man honors him.
Peace and comfort to you and yours.
(That's a lovely picture)
stay strong and take care of those around you. i'm sure he was very proud of you. love from leeds.
Hi folks..... I'm not normally one for these mass replies, But I thank you so very, very much for all your kind and wonderful words... Your messages have been such a comfort and really, I can not say how great you guys all are...
Doing something as mundane as taking a photo or checking this site these last few days has helped a great deal...
Aaron mate... Def gonna upload Dad's final pic... Good idea chap...
Cherrill, thanks.. Strange isn't it, the bond that can be made online.. Wouldn't of believed it if I'd never started on here..
@blightygal Cheers mate & I'll pass on your messages to mum x