After twenty-seven years in business, our family business merged with another larger firm. My husband and I had planned to buy it from my mom and stepfather, but changes beyond our control forced us to seek other options. Thankfully, my husband and I will still have our jobs, and we really like how the firm with which we merged operates their business. In some ways my job will be lots better. It’s been strange though to move on, and more than just a little bit sad. And even good change can be uncomfortable. I’m proud of my mom for the toil and sweat she put into starting her own business. She is a gutsy lady. It’s going to be strange to come to work and not see her there, but I’m sure she’s going to enjoy her freedom from the daily grind.
Change is always a bit unsettling ~ if not down right scary...and in this case more than a little sad. But it sounds like the new situation is going to work out just fine for all concerned. I hope your mom enjoys her new, less complicated life. It would seem as though she deserves it! Good luck to you and your husband going forward with the new firm...chin up! :)
Oh, I can see how this change has it's bitter and it's sweet. It seems like a good fit, and you sound pretty OK with it.... but it's change, and that always comes with a bit of the ick. Kudos to your mom, very gutsy indeed... Hang in there, Lisa!
@peggysirk You have such a way with words. I haven’t shed a tear all day, but I feel them welling now. It’s definitely bittersweet. The last few years have been a little rough between the business and my dad’s illness and death. I do think I’ve landed on my feet and the future holds much hope. I just hate goodbyes. Thank you for your kindness. It’s much appreciated.
@erikadee Okay, the tears that were welling because of Peggy’s comment are now spilling over because of your comment. I know we’re only “virtual friends”, but your encouraging and sympathetic words really mean a lot. Thank you so much.
It sounds like a pretty exciting venture, but as any change can be scarey, I'm sure there were a lot of mixed feelings. Good luck in the changes that are taking place.
Wow! Major changes in your life. Great shot to express your farewell and new beginnings. I am glad you still have a job and with a firm that you like. Changes are challenging. I hope all works out for you!
Well done for facing change so positively and I hope it continues to work well for you and your husband - well done your mum - sounds like a committed and hard task and now she deserves the rewards of her endeavour. A lovely photo for this situation.
It's always hard to adjust to change even when you know it's for good. It will take time, but the new company and seeing your mom happy will probably ease the sadness of what has passed. I hope you like your "new job" and that the business continues to be successful! I think this shot speaks of new doors opening for your family. Best wishes for all!
bitter sweet...but happy that you are still going to be there...sorry that it did not work out the way you thought...but since i believe that everything happens for a reason...you will see that this was meant to be :)
Have to say this brought tears to my eyes... however I do believe although things have not worked out as you would have so wished, it will all be for the good... bitter sweet as robin quoted.....
I strongly believe that from what you have said you will find your job a whole lot better. It is nice now that your Mum can take things easier and give her time to find other things to fulfill her life. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad... I so understand how difficult that is to come to terms with.... I know change is scary, but I do think this is going to be the very best thing for all of you and new ventures will help you to move on.....
Wishing you all the very best, and sending you much love x♥x
Saying goodbye is never easy. I hope that the new door that you are opening will bring you happiness and success. This picture just seems so sad...but yet I think hopeful as well.
oh wow, didn't realize all of this was going on. i knew you had been frazzled by changes, but this is a really big change. I hope all goes well for you Lisa!! I'm sure it will:)
October 11th, 2011
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I strongly believe that from what you have said you will find your job a whole lot better. It is nice now that your Mum can take things easier and give her time to find other things to fulfill her life. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad... I so understand how difficult that is to come to terms with.... I know change is scary, but I do think this is going to be the very best thing for all of you and new ventures will help you to move on.....
Wishing you all the very best, and sending you much love x♥x