May and Bert by quietpurplehaze

May and Bert

I have these studio portraits of my parents.

If you think my dad looks to be 20, they were probably taken in 1939 when he was conscripted.

If you think he looks more like 26, they were taken after he returned home in 1945 from his time as a PoW.

He obviously was not initially in the best of health but my parents enjoyed 40 years of marriage after the war.

(I know the caption does not 'match' the diptych but that is how they were known!)

thanks Babs for the 'heads-up' in your project today https://365project.org/onewing/365/2017-07-05
Your dad doesn't look like he's been through a war here. So fresh faced. And your mum so romantically wistful. Not like the 'gash' selfies of today! You have inspired me to return to my grandparent's letters they wrote to each other and transcribe then. For when I semi retire in the New Year!!
July 5th, 2017  
A beautiful way to honour your parents..
i look forward to reading the diaries as soon as Amazon deliver the book..
July 5th, 2017  
What a wonderful tribute to your parents. The book sounds really good and a great way for people to understand what the war was like.
July 5th, 2017  
Sam
I can see the likeness in your Mum, Hazel :)
July 5th, 2017  
Lovely portraits and memoirs :)
July 5th, 2017  
@Cherrill

Glad to inspire you and I think you are right in that these portraits are pre-war.
July 5th, 2017  
@salza

I think it's important for the life of an ordinary PoW (no heroics) to be understood and I have been so lucky to find a publisher.
July 5th, 2017  
@jorlam

My dad first tried to get his diaries published in 1955 - so this has been a long time in the making!
July 5th, 2017  
beautiful portraits and a wonderful achievement. so glad you have had them published. I have just been typing up my father in laws memoirs of his school days in Hungary during the war and then his life as a refugee before making his way to Australia. So important to record the stories
July 5th, 2017  
Two lovely photos of your parents Hazel they do look very young little did they know what heartache was in front of them. I have just finished reading your book very interesting from start to finish and a harsh time for your Dad to endure.
July 5th, 2017  
Lovely pics of your parents Hazel , I have just had a wonderful surprise a cousin sent me some old family photos in among was 3 letters my Dad wrote home while in Egypt , but he too spent the majority of time as a POW
July 5th, 2017  
lovely portraits of your Mum and Dad. I definitely think these were taken pre war. I have seen photos of my Dad before the war and after and his eyes are totally different. Your Dad's eyes look too innocent for this photo to have been taken after the war.
July 5th, 2017  
What beautiful photographs. They look so young and innocent. I gather you've written a book about your father's time in a POW camp? I'd be interested in getting a copy for my dad - can you tell me what it is called? My dad wrote a book, 'A Gordon Highlander if ever there was one' on behalf of a friend, Bill Young, who had been a prisoner of war. Sadly Bill died before the book made it to publication.
July 5th, 2017  
@cruiser

Well done to you, Chris. The handwritten originals of my dad's diaries are lodged in the Second World War Experience Centre to whom I donated them for safekeeping and research. The centre has the aim of sourcing and recording as much information about the war as possible before that information is lost for ever.
July 5th, 2017  
@cruiser

p.s. Lew Chapman in Australia found, through a Google search, one of my 365 posts about a camp near Dresden where my dad had to work in a cement factory. His father was also in the same camp and we discovered that they had performed in the same camp concert: his dad did a sketch and my dad played the harmonica. Lew gave me the programme his dad had brought back and it is reproduced in the book. His father emigrated to Australia after the war - big technology/small world!!
July 5th, 2017  
@jamibann

Issi, thanks for your interest. The book is published on Amazon and this link takes you directly to it https://www.amazon.co.uk/Till-We-Meet-Again-Gunner/dp/154404870X My dad died in 1998 so, like your dad's friend, Bill, did not know about his diary being published.
July 5th, 2017  
@dawnee

I think it must have been quite emotional to receive those letters such a long time after your dad wrote them. But so good to have them.
July 5th, 2017  
@wendyfrost

I'm glad you found the book interesting. Although I know the contents very well by now, seeing my dad's story in a 'proper' book somehow gives it a different meaning for me.
July 5th, 2017  
@onewing

I think that's very true. I have photos of my dad with me when I was aged possibly 7 or 8 and he still looks very tired and worn, smoking a cigarette.
July 5th, 2017  
Lovely portrait shots of your parents, Hazel
July 5th, 2017  
Such lovely portraits and I'm sure it brings back a lot of good memories for you, Hazel.
July 5th, 2017  
Awesome picture.
July 5th, 2017  
It is so important that we remember as much as we can about past history as people pass on too soon. A wonderful tribute. You must be very proud.
July 5th, 2017  
@gigiflower

I bought a copy of the diary and gave as a present to our dogsitter who looks after Jinks when we go on holiday and she said I look like my dad - the eyes!
July 5th, 2017  
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Thanks everyone for your comments and interest. Having tried for so long to get my dad's diaries published, it's still quite surreal that it has actually happened.
July 5th, 2017  
Very precious.
July 5th, 2017  
What a treasure!
July 5th, 2017  
@sarah19 @granagringa

Thank you, thank you!
July 5th, 2017  
Stunning portraits Hazel, what a handsome pair they were. Loving your book, I am about half way but slow as I'm too tired to read at night at the moment!
July 5th, 2017  
and here you are doing portraits many years later ...something very apt in that i think :)
July 5th, 2017  
Beautiful portrait! Enjoying your book!
July 6th, 2017  
Beautiful portraits in wonderful condition - haven't had time to start reading your book but I have it in my hands as I have a few others where friends have finished putting together books started by their parent usually the Father ! It will go with me when my husband is called in for Papworth fir heart surgery and I can sit and read xxxxx
July 6th, 2017  
Superb Portraits Babs I would suspect 1939 your dad is looking to well for it taken straight after his return home:)
July 6th, 2017  
@charmian

Charmian, thank you and I wish your husband well for his heart surgery.
July 6th, 2017  
@loweygrace

Thank you, Lois.
July 6th, 2017  
@phil_howcroft

Hadn't thought of that, Phil. But after I started my strangers' project I realised that I had been drawn to portraiture in an informal way for a long time.
July 6th, 2017  
I finished the book today...so delighted to see this in my feed.
All things being equal, will post feedback on Amazon tomorrow.
July 8th, 2017  
@s4sayer

Margo, thank you so much for your comments and I look forward to reading your review.
July 9th, 2017  
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