We tell my sisters-in-law-to-be that we don’t want any wedding presents. Three of the four oblige and I am absurdly disappointed. One of four ignores our wish and I am absurdly happy to receive her stitchery. Welcome to the family, it says.
@francoise Well that was what I had always understood to be your situation but with you showing images of wedding presents on two consecutive days, I got confused... it's not difficult to confuse me!