Why we are so hard on ourselves...

March 1st, 2012



Doesn't that make you feel a bit better? :)
March 1st, 2012
At first the image didn't come up and I was like D: I DON'T GET IT!!! lol. xD but now I have just finished reading it and it was pretty inspirational. :) Thanks for posting! :)
March 1st, 2012
Its a good point well put!
March 1st, 2012
love it!! Thanks! :o)
March 1st, 2012
This is ironic you put this. I've been kicking myself all day because I'm trying harder to get my pictures to end up clearer and it's frustrating when in my head I see what I want, but it's not coming out quite right lol. :)
March 1st, 2012
So true. Thank you for sharing it.
March 1st, 2012
I think it's very true! You don't get something for nothing! Interesting post...Thanks!
March 1st, 2012
I was thinking exactly this.
March 1st, 2012
Yay! makes me feel better! Thanks for sharing :)
March 1st, 2012
this is exactly why I'm doing 365! high volume!
March 2nd, 2012
Im also just starting, any feedback on my images most appreciated and I will return the favour
March 2nd, 2012
and sometimes people's taste just totally suck ass from the getgo
March 2nd, 2012
@grecican hahahaha!
March 2nd, 2012
Love it! Thanks for posting. I am in this stage right now.
March 2nd, 2012
@limpet365 ahahahhaa ;-)
March 2nd, 2012
I already knew that. It's one of the best things i ever read. It's exactly what i think. So inspirational. I guess i already crossed that creative barrier, that point in life where you question your skills and your talent. I suffered with it, but i stick to it. And survived. And i am much better today because of that.
March 2nd, 2012
thank you that makes me feel better - definitely at this stage
March 2nd, 2012
Thank you, thank you for sharing it again. I had lost this text. I will keep it from now on.
March 2nd, 2012
nothing wrong with being hard on yourself, as long as you don't drive yourself to quit ;) thanks for sharing, it's taken me 15 years to even half learn that lesson!
March 2nd, 2012
HEY!!! I read the whole thing and my pictures still look like POOP! :-P
March 2nd, 2012
@cromwell --- hahahaha!!!! You have to 'do a lot of work'. ;-)
March 2nd, 2012
Thanks for sharing this, wise words indeed!
March 2nd, 2012
@grecican I actually snort/laughed when I read your comment!
March 2nd, 2012
@lesphoto hahaahahaha love it!
March 2nd, 2012
@cromwell And then I read Richard's and did it again!
March 2nd, 2012
I love ira glass and TAL!
March 2nd, 2012
After getting a HORRIBLY critical note on my website this makes me cry. Thank you for posting
March 2nd, 2012
Wow...exactly what I needed to hear (or read, I guess)~! Thanks for posting.
March 2nd, 2012
yes :)
March 2nd, 2012
wow! you mean there's hope for me? yay!!!!!
March 2nd, 2012
Love this!!!
March 2nd, 2012
I read it first, and then read it aloud to someone and it so makes sense. I have always enjoyed photography but was satisfied that it captured what I wanted but were never good enough to give as gifts. I still look at my photos and think, they are not ready yet to enter contests and sell, but I can see how the gap is closing. A photo a day really makes the gap close really quickly.
March 2nd, 2012
@terek55 just ignore what they say, most of us are here to grow and expand. There is nothing wrong with your photos.
March 2nd, 2012
@grecican exactly!
March 2nd, 2012
it's a nice thought, but Ira Glass has nothing to do with photography. I prefer this:

“No matter how much crap you gotta plow through to stay alive as a photographer, no matter how many bad assignments, bad days, bad clients, snotty subjects, obnoxious handlers, wigged-out art directors, technical disasters, failures of the mind, body, and will, all the shouldas, couldas, and wouldas that befuddle our brains and creep into our dreams, always remember to make room to shoot what you love. It’s the only way to keep your heart beating as a photographer.”
― Joe McNally
March 2nd, 2012
This makes a lot of sense to me. I have thought of quitting so many times that I cannot count these times. I am a perfectionist, so I have to fight being so hard on myself all of the time. I am working on accepting that I am learning and trying (concentrating on the process instead of the final result). I went to an art workshop last weekend. The workshop teacher inspired us to experiment and have fun. He told us that we could learn from our mistakes and we could use the art prints we didn't like in something else, such as a collage or a base for another print. I am trying to use his words of wisdom in my photography.
March 2nd, 2012
@limpet365 @sdpace Love these, very inspirational.
March 2nd, 2012
I just keep thinking about my next photo, I'll never give up. I love it too much!
March 2nd, 2012
@limpet365 - thankyou for the post - I need to remember that now & then!
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