If I can make it there.......I'll make it anywhere... by fauxtography365

If I can make it there.......I'll make it anywhere...

The MTA will get you where you need to be for $2.50. In any of the 5 boroughs. Cheaper than a cab. Sometimes faster than walking, depending. But you're not always guaranteed a nice or nice-smelling ride. You've been warned.

This is a crosstown NYC bus this morning.

In other news...

Last night, I watched this documentary called "How to Die in Oregon". I had seen this title on Netflix and had been wanting to watch it. Then Josh @jbenn0117 had mentioned it in one of his posts and I definitely made a plan to check it out.

Without getting into a political, theoretical, or whatever kind of discussion, the documentary was very compelling and thought-provoking. Kind of hard to watch on the heels of a weekend with family which brought up a lot of emotions for me, i.e., talking with my parents about their retirement...and then personally reflecting on aging, health care, and end-of life issues for myself, family, my loved ones.

It brought about a lot of thoughts about my work as well - both from a clinical standpoint and policy standpoint. I deal with a lot of aging and sick people. In the last year, I have lost three clients to terminal illnesses. My work with them involved helping them live the end of their days with dignity.

There's death with dignity too.

The documentary is worth a look. Still trying to process my emotions around it but I do believe there's something to consider about choosing to die with dignity.

I thought about my client today. The one who died back in March. I'd link the picture and photo I dedicated to him but I'm too lazy. I thought I had fully processed my emotions about it. But I thought about him today and all the hard work we did together and how hard a life he had and how challenging it was to work with him and...just everything about him. I thought I had moved through the tasks of grief but...I could still feel my heart break just a little...

I suppose this gets easier. Or maybe it doesn't.

My work is hard.

...

On the bright side? The guy who calls me Tiffany at work...called me by the right name! Who knew.
Very cool shot.. something special about it. Unique, a stopped movement with a matrix effect. What is your job?
June 18th, 2013  
@anzere03 thanks! I wasn't sure about the edit but glad it communicated well. I am a mental health counselor for people with severe and persistent mental illness. Many of them are dually diagnosed and also have chronic physical health issues.
June 18th, 2013  
@fauxtography365 I just admire you. It takes a lot of strength and caring.
June 18th, 2013  
@anzere03 thank you :)
June 18th, 2013  
Thought provoking text. There are lots of opinions on that topic, as I age, I have thought about the options. None are legal here in Oz. Not sure how the bus fits in but the pedestrian crossing leads me on a journey.
June 18th, 2013  
@tonydebont no sure how the bus fits in either. But all day I kept thinking about how we get places, both literally and metaphorically. All is part of the cycle of life, I guess...
June 18th, 2013  
Definitely some deep thoughts! Thanks for sharing! I am sure your job is harder than any of us can imagine. But I know you are strong chick and that's why you are able to do what you do every day :)
June 18th, 2013  
Really like your processing here. You made that crappy bus look good ;) Tough stuff you bring up. Personally, I try to avoid most human (and all animal) stories of tragedy and despair. Even if the message is pure and unavoidable. I figure life is difficult, and I will do all I can to censor my little world. God bless you, and all of the incredible people who provide aid to those in need.
June 18th, 2013  
@islandk8 thanks, Katie :)

@adamj glad the processing worked here. And I always appreciate you weighing in. :)
June 18th, 2013  
The picture (nice lines crossing at right angle + bus - interesting processing ) is a pretext for very deep thoughts.... Really touched by your words and your difficult, challenging job. Brava, Ms. T.
June 18th, 2013  
@mara19500 thanks, Mara. Appreciate the comment and visit :)
June 19th, 2013  
I haven't seen this film, but I've thought about it enough. It's one of those things you want to be able to choose for yourself, even if you're pretty sure you'd never actually choose it. I can't imagine suffering for decades with a debilitating illness. Sometimes we just need to know we have the choice,

Your ciient was the ne who died from heart-related causes, right? Hard not to feel some relief for him, but also sadness that his life was so hard.

Thank you for taking on the difficult job of helping people deal with their problems. I hope it continues to satisfy you.

Now you can be 'The 365-er Formerly Known as Tiffany'.

Also, I ALWAYS take (mass) public transportation when I visit a new city. It's the only way to go!!
June 19th, 2013  
@carolb you have a good memory! Yes my client was the one who died of cardiac issues. And I literally laughed out loud when you wrote that I could be the 365-er formerly known as Tiffany. I was actually getting used to the whole Tiffany thing at work haha.
June 19th, 2013  
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