Good-bye, Andrea by kareenking

Good-bye, Andrea

I lost a true friend today. I discovered the news just before the close of two days celebrating National Bird Day via storytelling and music with my beloved elders. My friend was a bird enthusiast. She and I went birding together numerous times over the past two years as I watched her bravely confront ALS. She, the quieter of the two of us, mentioned often times how she enjoyed hearing about my "interesting" life. I treasure her for allowing me a safe and nonjudgmental space to share some of my most painful experiences and to dare to speak about stuff I might not feel safe to share with others. I am only beginning to process all she meant to me, and will continue to mean to me. I will miss her. I took this photo while driving through the fog and rain after work this evening, crying along the way. It makes me think of her, and her final exit from my life. Tomorrow we would have begun our first book club together, sharing gleanings from "The 100-Year-Old Man Who Climbed Out the Window and Disappeared." I'm not even a reader. But I wanted to do it for her. Now I will do it for myself.
So sorry to hear of your loss of a friend. Praying for you and for Andrea's family today! Beautiful quiet image!
January 8th, 2016  
@amandal Thank you kindly, Amanda. :)
January 8th, 2016  
sorry for your loss
January 8th, 2016  
The deer fading away perfectly matches your story--a very artistic expression of emotion.
January 8th, 2016  
@cejaanderson Thank you so kindly, Jane. :)
January 8th, 2016  
@snaphappyjules Thanks. :)
January 8th, 2016  
So sorry ... beautifully poignant image. Lovely goodbye.
January 8th, 2016  
Jae
My sympathies for the loss of a special friend. I'm gonna read the book too now. :(. Great pic to say goodbye.
January 8th, 2016  
So sorry to hear of your loss Kareen. This image speaks volumes.
January 8th, 2016  
@aecasey @lifepause @paulaw Thank you so kindly. :)
January 8th, 2016  
A beautiful poignant image for your friend. I am truly sorry. ALS is such a cruel disease, too. What an untimely tragedy. I wish you the best in the coming days, as you try to come to terms with your loss. :( I am making a note of the book... maybe I will read it in honor of her.
January 8th, 2016  
So sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend. This is a beautiful image and story of friendship.
January 8th, 2016  
Sorry for your loss.
January 8th, 2016  
Prayers for you and your friend's family. This is a beautifully appropriate photo to honor her.
January 8th, 2016  
A beautifully composed capture with a feeling of something coming to an end, and a fav for me. I am so sorry about the loss of your friend and will be thinking of you.
January 8th, 2016  
So sorry for the loss of your friend, Kareen. A lovely shot illustrating your feelings. Thinking of you
January 8th, 2016  
This seems a fitting image for the day you had- I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. I am sure she treasured your friendship as well.
January 8th, 2016  
A perfect capture of loss. I have lost two people I knew to ALS -- a tough way to leave this world.
January 8th, 2016  
A beautiful tribute, so sad to hear of your loss of a dear friend. Take care Kareen, my thoughts are with you and Andrea's family Xx
January 8th, 2016  
It's a beautiful tribute and I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
January 8th, 2016  
So sorry - it's hard to lose a friend, I know, but what she has given you will be with you always. I light a candle for you both.
January 8th, 2016  
nice...fav
January 8th, 2016  
So sorry for your loss. Makes me weep. Have lost 2 friends recently.
January 9th, 2016  
Thank you for sharing. Beautiful image to go with a heartsore day. A way to honor and begin the process. All good thoughts.
January 9th, 2016  
What a beautiful image to remember your dear friend, how you will miss her, but, she will always be in your heart through those wonderful memories you carry. My heart goes out to you......
January 9th, 2016  
Sorry to hear about your loss. Congratulations on making the PP. Well deserved.
January 9th, 2016  
@rosiekerr @gabi_in_oregon @mej2011 @mcsiegle @tristansmum @carolmw @ingrid_marianna @tunia @hermann @emrob @mothermalarky @moviegal1 @danette @edorreandresen @happysnaps @agedrunner Oh my goodness, your outpouring of kindness has touched my heart. Thanks for your well wishes, and for your understanding, as some of you have gone through similar losses.
January 14th, 2016  
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