Ben

This is Ben my 19 year old grandson who suffers with depression and lots of other problems. I love him dearly and wish I could take his pain away. He is a gentle lovely boy and I was so pleased that he came to my birthday celebrations as he doesn't usually join in with anything.

[Fiona]

Well Happy Birthday! And I sympathise, I suffer from depression, (thankfully currently in remission for the first time in years) as does my elder son. I don't think there is anything I wouldn't sacrifice to give Will his life back when he is down.

[Rosie Kind]

@exidia You know what it's like then and it is the most terrible illness which a lot of people don't understand

[Fiona]

Too right! I've been told to "pull myself together", "cheer up it may never happen" and worst of all "what have you got to be depressed about?"

[Judith Johnson]

Happy Birthday Rosie. So glad Ben could make it too. It's so good that you are completely understanding and on his side.

[Karin Hirsch]

He must be very fond of you Rosie. Happy Birthday. Its so hard to see a loved person suffering without being able to help

[Daryl O'Hare]

I go straight to the hair and the eye in this shot. As a fellow sufferer, I understand. Very, very difficult to manage. Love that you love him. Just as he is. :)

[Yvonne]

Wonderful shot. I am so sorry to hear about his depression.

Happy Birthday, Rosie.

[Sandy]

It is a terrible illness, and so hard to see loved ones suffering and feel helpless to ease their pain. He is very blessed to have you in his life. Hope you had a happy birthday.

[Sarah Munnings]

Happy birthday Rosie, your grandson looks lovely. So good that he came to your celebration.......speaks volumes for how he feels about you. Depression is a terrible thing and can 'get' anyone, I hope Ben finds brighter days soon :)