Love the curtain pattern! I have the same step stool from IKEA! :) I think they all make up their mind what's important to them and what's not. My 3,5 year old, for example, rates food somewhere very low on importance scale, so no matter what we do to make him eat, it's not working as he just doesn't care enough. But in the end, everyone will be where they need to be, just patience!