I Love You, I Love You Not by myautofocuslife

I Love You, I Love You Not

I often see this pretty purplish-pink flower in parks. This is the Singapore Rhododendron. But it is neither a rhododendron nor exclusively found in Singapore. The plant is a Melastoma malabathricum and grows commonly in many countries in East Asia and Southeast Asia.

Birds, bees, wasps, ants, butterflies and small mammals like squirrels and monkeys are attracted to this plant because of its flowers and sweet, berry-like fruits. The flowers, once opened, last only a day. The fruits, leaves and roots can be used for medicinal purposes.

According to the Wiki, it's been declared a "noxious weed" in the U.S.A.
Well I think it is stunning!!!! What a beautiful colour, and the stamen arching over like a spiders legs are fabulous.
May 10th, 2012  
it is so pretty! the center reminds me of spiders legs! haha. Gorgeous colord!
May 10th, 2012  
This is so pretty!!! nice capture!!
May 10th, 2012  
Just love the center of that flower! Beautifully captured!
May 10th, 2012  
Nice close up shot of the flower.
May 10th, 2012  
great shot!!! love it!!
May 10th, 2012  
I sure don't see this as a "noxious weed!" Really beautiful (color and clarity here) and interesting that it only blooms for one day. You are attracted to the "unusual" as I am, Livia. Let's go on a shoot together. :)
May 10th, 2012  
Another beautiful macro Livia! Love the color!
May 10th, 2012  
Great macro
May 10th, 2012  
How can anything that pretty be a weed? Love the colour. The stamens are fascinating shape.
May 10th, 2012  
Lovely colour, and details! =)
May 10th, 2012  
Awesome focus on this shot! Very nice Livia.
May 10th, 2012  
That is such a great macro shot. Such incredible detail.
May 10th, 2012  
What a lovely, lovely flower, Livia! Love the color! Wonderful narrative and info about it, too!
May 10th, 2012  
Beautiful details and colors
May 10th, 2012  
gorgeous color!
May 10th, 2012  
Great shot LIvia.
May 10th, 2012  
I enlarged to get a really good look at this. Those stamens are amazing. Your focus is spot on and the colours are lovely xx
May 10th, 2012  
Incredible detail of a beautiful bloom... even the leaves of the plant look interesting!
May 10th, 2012  
Really, really pretty in pink!
May 10th, 2012  
Great shot and composition!!
May 10th, 2012  
Lovely colour and composition :)
May 10th, 2012  
The stamens on this flower are so cool. Definitely doesn't look like a noxious weed to me! Beautiful!
May 10th, 2012  
Just beautiful!!
May 10th, 2012  
Beautiful shot - I love the colors and the unusual center of the flower. If it feeds so many animals it should not be called a weed :-).
May 10th, 2012  
Beautiful color.
May 10th, 2012  
A beautiful close up of that beautiful flower Love the details and colors
May 10th, 2012  
nice one!
May 10th, 2012  
Pretty though! : ))
May 10th, 2012  
Great color and info unique how the stamen arch over?....
May 10th, 2012  
beautiful picture, i like the color and the details
May 10th, 2012  
Beautiful color.
May 11th, 2012  
i love the vibrant colors! beautiful!
May 11th, 2012  
Pretty flower and colours Livia.
May 11th, 2012  
Those stamens are extraordinary. A noxious weed? Are they trying to eliminate it?
May 11th, 2012  
G-orgeous!! Love the color!
May 11th, 2012  
beautiful capture. Love the colour! A weed is any flower not wanted by the person whose yard or garden it shows up in! Wouldn't be a weed in my yard!
May 11th, 2012  
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Love the shot....love the narrative and love the caption....!!
May 11th, 2012  
Lovely composition, love it's colour
May 11th, 2012  
focus, colour, texture, lighting - all perfect
May 11th, 2012  
the flower is pretty, but so are the leaves! very nice Livia!
May 11th, 2012  
beautiful pink ;-)
May 11th, 2012  
very pretty for something deemed "noxious" ;p
May 11th, 2012  
the petals are so beautiful; and the stamen reminds me of a spider! nice picture!
May 11th, 2012  
I love the colour of thise pretty flower.
May 11th, 2012  
this*
May 11th, 2012  
Great Macro...those stamens are the coolest!
May 11th, 2012  
Fav! Fantastic macro shot. Love it.
May 11th, 2012  
"noxious weed" just like dandelions...it's all in the eye of the beholder. I think both plants are pretty. (but eww, the stamens do look like spider legs)
May 11th, 2012  
Beautiful! Weed or not....I love it!!!
May 11th, 2012  
it's such a pretty little flower to be labeled as noxious .
May 11th, 2012  
I love the combination of purple and yellow. Very pretty
May 11th, 2012  
Nice macro, what a brilliant pink!
May 11th, 2012  
doesn't look like a weed to me! great colours!
May 11th, 2012  
Love pink and green together. Beautiful vibrant capture.
May 11th, 2012  
How sad this pretty little flower only lasts one day. Lovely shot.
May 11th, 2012  
What a beautiful flower, Livia. Love the colors and detail. Interesting how it is used and how short of a time that it lives like this.
May 11th, 2012  
Pretty flower! Lovely colours :)
May 11th, 2012  
Beautiful mix of colours. Nicely composed too.
May 11th, 2012  
Mel
wonderful colour, great curly finger things too
May 11th, 2012  
I love the contrast of the vivid pink and deep green in this shot as well as the detail in the flower!
May 11th, 2012  
Lovely shot of this dainty flower. Beautiful color and also like the contrasting yellow color of the stamen. Great details!
May 11th, 2012  
What a fabulous color!
May 11th, 2012  
flower is very neat and clean....
May 11th, 2012  
at first glance the flower looks familiar but then I saw the stamen and realised that I have not seen this bloom before. Lovely vibrant colour !
May 11th, 2012  
Lovely!!
May 11th, 2012  
Beautiful shot.
May 11th, 2012  
It looks like a flower that has fruits that leave a purple stain on yr tongue. Used to eat them when I was a lil girl. Can never cheat Mom because of the stain.
May 11th, 2012  
I was wondering, do you just research after you have taken your photo or are you a vast encyclopedia of knowledge as far as flora is concerned? Either way it is highly commendable that you bother to share. I love the two tone composition and shadows in this one.
May 11th, 2012  
The center of this flower is so unusual with the whirly twirly stems. Very beautiful shot
May 11th, 2012  
nice one my dear...i hope you are doing well..
May 11th, 2012  
Very Pretty and I see the color as reminiscent of Rhodies, if you are missing them already this could make you smile.
May 11th, 2012  
pistils look like spider.. great !
May 11th, 2012  
Well, it that's a weed I love weeds!! Beautiful!
May 11th, 2012  
@tooki Yes! According to what I've read, the fruit stains the tongue black! 8P

@teamoliver I research afterwards because I'm always curious about what I have just shot. I refer to a few nature blogs (written by local bloggers) and see if they help, and then google for more information. But with some bugs and flowers, I still end up being clueless because my google-fu fails me from time to time. 8)
May 11th, 2012  
beautiful shot Livia, what a gorgeous colour!! sure does make a pretty weed!
May 11th, 2012  
I don't think I've seen this flower before. The stamens (are they?) make me think of a spiders legs. Nice shot!
May 11th, 2012  
it's very lovely!
May 11th, 2012  
Great Info on this one! I love how plants can be used for medicinal purposes and love to learn about the uses! Great Shot!
May 12th, 2012  
A great, big, brightly colored, happy-looking, sweet and lovely "THANK YOU!" to everyone!

Thank you for taking the time to stop by. I do agree, it looks too pretty to be a weed! I like seeing these flowers because they're bright and happy looking. Thank you so much for your constant encouragement. I am grateful for your support.

Again, thank you very much!
May 12th, 2012  
@scatcat Yes, they are stamens. They do look strange! 8)
May 12th, 2012  
Love it
May 12th, 2012  
We have this kind of flower in our backyard, in fact I have posted a photo of it last year. Beautiful capture of this beautiful flower Livia :D
May 12th, 2012  
Lovely flower and pretty colour!!
May 12th, 2012  
the stamens look like claws! nice shot, livia.
May 12th, 2012  
Beautiful capture. Amazing color, clarity and dof.
May 14th, 2012  
so very beautiful!
May 17th, 2012  
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