Focussing by judithg

Focussing

One of the older members of the family is unwell and there are tough decisions to be made by the family on their behalf. It's a difficult time and I'm dedicating todays photo to people who are suffering.
So three positives are more important than ever ATM:
1. I had a lovely walk and holiday catch up with one of my best friends.
2. Coffee, cake and conversation should never be underestimated as therapy.
3. There is filming for a new Spy Drama called 'Restless' underway in Cambridge so I shall have fun trying to find the action in the next few weeks. I know where some of it was because they had warning signs about cycle-parking bans and I took photos so I could remember to go back on the right date - unfortunately when I checked it was yesterday! :0( But it's still a positive - they haven't gone away yet!!
So sorry to hear about the illness of your family member... if we live long enough, I guess someone will be making those decisions for us... praying your family will have peace about those decisions. Lovely photo and dedication. I find reds difficult... not sure if it is my camera or my processing... yours turned out beautifully! And I am sure with you on #2!!!
August 22nd, 2012  
I agree with @calm about photographing reds and everything about what you both say. My mum would love this.
August 22nd, 2012  
@calm Thanks Cathy - I'm lucky it's not my decision but when you come up against the limits of a doctor's capability in these relatively easy times it's a shock. I darkened the shadows on this photo a bit - the red was pretty in your face!
August 22nd, 2012  
Such a lovely image, Judith. I am so sorry to read of the difficult situation faced by some of your family. Wishing them grace and wisdom in making the best possible decisions.
Coffee, cake and conversation is a timeless form of therapy...especially when practiced with a good friend! Wine, cheese and laughter works well too. :)
Good thoughts to your family ~
August 22nd, 2012  
So sorry to hear your sad news Judith ,love your red flower picture
August 22nd, 2012  
@peggysirk Oh yes - keeping that one for emergencies!
August 22nd, 2012  
Very beautiful colour red lovlly photo.
August 22nd, 2012  
Gorgeous geranium. Love the vivid red. Sorry to hear your family is facing difficult decisions - here's hoping for the best possible outcome for all.
August 22nd, 2012  
Love the colour in this.
Those sorts of decisions are difficult & it can be just as hard watching others we care about have to make them.
Cake is always a good idea though - what ever the situation.
August 22nd, 2012  
So sorry to hear this. This is a lovely close-up
August 22nd, 2012  
Lovely take on this red flower! I'm a firm believer in the Pollyanna theory - always find something to be glad about!
August 22nd, 2012  
So sorry to hear about your tough decisions. Stay positive and the right choices will become clear. A lovely shot to focus on.
August 22nd, 2012  
Sorry for your worrying times. I like the light here and the new shoots spring forth.
August 22nd, 2012  
lovely capture Judith, I have an issue with reds as well !
We had such a decision with a dear old uncle 3 years ago and it was very difficult , so my thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. your 3 positives are so good to have, and the 2nd one is so so true.
August 22nd, 2012  
Beautiful strong red, always gives us positiveness. Lovely shot with that underlying thought. Hoping this difficult time for your family resolved soon.
August 22nd, 2012  
It is good that you are able to think of positives when you are facing such difficulties and I have a belief that out of something bad, something good always comes. Thinking of you and really love this pic as a wonderful tribute to your family member
August 22nd, 2012  
So difficult to make the right decision & do the best for loved ones & as we get older this happens more & more. A hard time for all concerned so thinking of you.
Stunning red flower with beautiful focus! What would we do with out friends...the most important people to cheer us up & listen to our woes!!
Look forward to your film career!
August 22nd, 2012  
@happypat Wish I could be an extra but they seem to have got drama school types. I so want to prance around in a WAAF uniform or some such. I've dressed up for school trips to Duxford and looked scarily authentic - if only they knew!!!
August 22nd, 2012  
sorry to hear you're dealing with difficult family decisions, I can see you prowling around Cambridge trying to find a film crew - lovely reds and close ups
August 22nd, 2012  
Beautiful capture and love the gorgeous red color.
August 22nd, 2012  
Keeping your family in thoughts and prayers during this difficult time...beautiful shot!
August 22nd, 2012  
Sorry to hear that you're facing difficult times but I agree 100% with your 1st two possitives. Thinking of you
August 22nd, 2012  
Sorry to hear about your family member.
August 22nd, 2012  
Thoughts and prayers with you and your loved ones. DO tell, what is your inspiration for the three positive things? Did I miss something?!? It's a wonderful idea...a good discipline...in addition to 365ing which is also good a good discipline for the soul.
August 22nd, 2012  
It's a beautiful shot! Nice way to pay tribute when going through times like you described. Sounds like you have great supports! Wishing you all the best.
August 23rd, 2012  
Beautiful colors and focus. So sorry to hear re family and difficult decisions. I like your 3 good things. I have a friend with whom I have been sharing a gratefulnesses a day via e-mail for about 8 years. I love the reminder!
August 23rd, 2012  
Beautiful shot, so agree with your philosophy, thinking of you.
August 23rd, 2012  
Beautiful capture! Wishing you happier times!
August 23rd, 2012  
Judith, I love the way your photo fades from the dear little buds left to the brilliant red slightly out of focus right. It's a great optimistic dedication to folk who are suffering. Hope your family will feel they have come to the right decision and that the path to it will not be too tortuous. I think you are a very positive person.
August 23rd, 2012  
Love the simplicity and vibrance of this Judith. Sorry to hear about the tough decisions you have ahead of you. Hoping things go as well as they can at this time.
August 23rd, 2012  
No 2 is incredibly important especially if spies are around. Beautiful red
August 23rd, 2012  
Sorry to hear of your unwell family member.
August 23rd, 2012  
@bpaquette It was a thread started by @wrighty about positive psychology - good because, like looking for a photo, you also start looking for a positive! http://365project.org/discuss/general/13991/3goodthings
August 23rd, 2012  
I can only echo the sentiments of all that have commented before me.
August 23rd, 2012  
for some reason this didn't load earlier when I was on the train! great shot and I hope things get better for you...old family member matters are always so tricky. love your 3 things, #2 is specially true!!
August 23rd, 2012  
I am so sorry to hear about your family member, decisions about loved ones are the hardest imaginable... Beautiful reds in this shot.
August 23rd, 2012  
red geraniums , our garden beds are full of them ! nice reds here judith
August 23rd, 2012  
The colors are lovely, my heart goes out to you and the family. Difficult those moments. Gratitude keeps it all in perspective though. Good for you.
August 24th, 2012  
Kim
Beautiful!
August 26th, 2012  
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