Remembering Correy 2013 by darylo

Remembering Correy 2013

A young teen, Correy, who was like another daughter to me, passed away too early in 2010 in this month. One way I and her mother and her family and her friends remember her is through butterflies--they visited us in our mourning that year, that month, and I feel like she visits me when butterflies appear each year. Her tombstone has a stained glass butterfly in it, which I photographed earlier (see: http://365project.org/darylo/365/2013-01-30), and her mother has the replica glass in her home.

Lately in my garden, a butterfly has been visiting with its mate and they dance from flower to flower. At one point, it was on top of a marigold and the orange hues matched between butterfly and bloom--but I arrived too late. The top of the wings has a rich orange--almost a flooded orange, and then below the wing, what appears white is actually silver--I can't seem to capture the glare it produces, but I liked how this angle gave a glimpse of both sides.

We all miss Correy so much. She touched our lives in such profound ways, and I like to think that she is always with me in one way or another. I just know that each August, the butterflies visit and remind me of the pain of loss but also the joy of having the opportunity to cherish the time we had with Correy and continue to have with her mother and brother.
Vee
What a lovely tribute. She sounds like she was a very special young lady! This is a beautiful shot posted in her honor!
August 13th, 2013  
Lovely shot and tribute
August 13th, 2013  
beautiful capture Daryl fav
August 13th, 2013  
@vskolnik @ziggy77 @gerry Thanks very much. So very special indeed.
August 13th, 2013  
Fabulous capture! Absolutely amazing!
August 13th, 2013  
Lovely tribute and fabulous capture of this gorgeous butterfly.
August 13th, 2013  
Lovely photo but even lovelier tribute!
August 13th, 2013  
Daryl, this is such a lovely but heartbreaking tribute to read. The photo is stunning, but such a sad loss.
On a totally different note, I've been thinking about you today because our skies are filled with the most amazing clouds and I can't photograph a sky without thinking of you now!
August 13th, 2013  
Daryl, this is a stunning shot especially to commemorate your friend. Touching words.
August 13th, 2013  
A gorgeous tribute! So sorry for your loss
August 13th, 2013  
A wonderful memorial!!! What a blessing to have wonderful people in our lives if even for a short time!
August 14th, 2013  
Looks like eyes on the wings, too. I am sorry for your loss.
August 14th, 2013  
@taffy Oh that makes me happy about the skies! It's funny, I can't see a sky without thinking of you and saying to myself, "how would Taffy capture and process this?" :)
August 14th, 2013  
Beautiful shot, Daryl, and a thoughtful commemoration.
August 14th, 2013  
Great shot and beautiful tribute!
August 14th, 2013  
Gorgeous capture! Wonderful focus and composition! Thanks for the welcome back, Daryl. Welcome back to you, too!
August 14th, 2013  
How gorgeous
August 14th, 2013  
A very pretty shot of this lovely butterfly and a heartfelt tribute in it and in your text to Correy. it's good to remember and to express that remembrance.
August 14th, 2013  
Jo
Goodness how very sad, but what a perfect way to remember someone through seeing butterflies. This is a really wonderful shot, fantastic focus and colours.
August 14th, 2013  
Beautiful shot and beautiful words Daryl - what a wonderful way to remember your friend!
August 14th, 2013  
Thanks, D, for the loving remembrance of Correy. I miss her too.
August 15th, 2013  
Glorious butterfly and lovely tribute to Correy.
August 15th, 2013  
beautiful picture and what a lovely way to remember!
August 17th, 2013  
Oh, sorry for your loss. So tough to deal with loss all the time...it never goes away. But butterflies are a beautiful tribute to her.
August 17th, 2013  
A fabulous picture and a heart warming tribute to your friend. Fav
August 19th, 2013  
what a beautiful tribute! superb colors and love the dof! fav!
August 19th, 2013  
I visite the page of your stained glass butterfly, and I agree -- it's a very special piece, and I like how it connects to live visitors you have. What a beautifully photographed butterfly.
August 20th, 2013  
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