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Mom

Not a very good image but an explanation of where I have been and where I will be for a while. My mother passed away this week suddenly and I am with my father and family. I am not sure how long I will be gone. Thanks in advance for all your well wishes and prayers.
Oh, how distressing and sad for you Katy! Thank you for posting this when you must be working through all the event with such a sad heart! My deepest sympathy to you and your family!
March 27th, 2015  
my deepest sympathy to you and your family, katy. take consolation in the fact that she is now rested and in a peaceful place. take care, my good friend.
March 27th, 2015  
Katy my thoughts are with you, such a shock when you weren't expecting it. hugs to you all x
March 27th, 2015  
So sorry for your loss.
March 27th, 2015  
Deepest sympathies Katy. Sending love and hugs to you and your family.
March 27th, 2015  
So sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers during your time of sorrow. Remember the good times you had together!
March 27th, 2015  
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family Katy....you will be in our thoughts and prayers during such a sad time.....what a wonderful picture of your mother
March 27th, 2015  
This is a perfect way to let us know. My sympathy.
March 27th, 2015  
Oh I am so sorry for your loss! My thoughts are with you!
March 27th, 2015  
And I am definitely sending well wishes and prayers. So sorry.
March 28th, 2015  
Katy, I'm so sorry. I'll be sending prayers for comfort and strength to you and yours.
Hang on to those good memories of her, I know you have many.
March 28th, 2015  
So sorry for your loss 🙏
March 28th, 2015  
lovely lady
March 28th, 2015  
Hugs and deepest sympathy Katy, my prayers are for your beautiful mother and your family
March 29th, 2015  
So sorry to hear of your loss, thinking of you in this difficult time.
March 29th, 2015  
Oh, Katy, I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to you all and wishing you much strength during this difficult time.
March 29th, 2015  
So sorry for your loss- my deepest condolences, hugs and prayers to you and family.
March 29th, 2015  
I came looking for you and what a sad shock I got. My heart goes out to you and the family. Take care and God bless .............
March 30th, 2015  
I am so sorry to hear about the sudden passing of your Mom. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family and especially your Dad. What a wonderful photo of her, Katy.
March 31st, 2015  
oh Katy!I am thinking of you and sending much love!
March 31st, 2015  
Deb
So sorry to hear about your Mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
April 1st, 2015  
@deburahiru this means so much to me that you took the time to comment Deb! Thanks so much!
April 1st, 2015  
Oh Katy. I'm just seeing this. I'm so sorry. I'm thinking of you and sending big big hugs. Will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. xoxoxoxoxo
April 1st, 2015  
Deepest sympathy and sorry for your loss.
April 1st, 2015  
I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
April 2nd, 2015  
I'm so sorry Katy. My thoughts are with you and your family xxx
April 3rd, 2015  
So sorry Katy, our thoughts and prayers for you and your family. "It's hard to forget someone who gave you so much to remember" May all the wonderful memories of your mother live on forever.
April 4th, 2015  
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you have done for me. A beautiful woman and I'm sure that your Dad appreciates your presence.
April 5th, 2015  
Oh dear Katy, so sorry about your mother's passing away. Now I was thinking that I had not seen you around and came to your page to check. Very shocked for the unexpected news.. My sincere condolence to you and yours. Hugs to you, my dear Katy.
April 5th, 2015  
Oh Katy, I am so sorry about your mother. What a beautiful photo of her! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
April 9th, 2015  
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of loss. I hope the comfort of being with your family helps. This is a very sweet shot of your mom- good memories for you!
April 11th, 2015  
This is the most amazing picture of your mom. It captures so many things....confidence, yet also vulnerability....and so many emotions on her face. I hope you are doing well, Katy! I have been thinking of you. I will be breaking out my glass elephants for your Tues shot. I may take it tomorrow though...back to go back to school from a nice , long spring break. I did a lot of phone call type errands, cleaned house, and that stuff...got alot done and rested /exercised/read. Anyway....take care.
April 12th, 2015  
great looking photo
April 13th, 2015  
I checked in here the other day to see how you were and I was on my phone and didn't want to write a long "hello" with tons of typos. I hope you are doing well and I'm thinking of you often. Warm hugs. :)
April 15th, 2015  
Thinking of you
April 18th, 2015  
Have been thinking of you, my friend. Hope you are doing okay.
April 20th, 2015  
so sorry for your loss....hope you're doing ok.
April 20th, 2015  
Aww, Katy, I'm so sorry to hear this. My prayers are going up for you now.
April 20th, 2015  
Oh I so sad to hear that, I know you are hurting. I will pray for your family
April 25th, 2015  
xoxoxox today. Checking in :)
April 26th, 2015  
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Sorry for making this a group response but I wanted to let each of you know how much your kind comments and warm thoughts and prayers mean to me.
My parents were married for almost 69 years and I can say with truth that they meant the world to each other. I worried about my dad because of that but he seems to be doing extremely well. Mom had been failing mentally for a while and it is a blessing she went quickly without any suffering and before she no longer recognized my dad. That would have been too difficult for him to live with. I stayed with him a month to make sure he transitioned into single life and he has adjusted well. He will be 90 later this year and is proud he can do laundry and make salads for supper. He was already doing most of the housecleaning and fixing the main part of the meal every night. He is an amazing person and I am blessed to have him for a father. He lives in a retirement community that offers many activities and services and has wonderful friends and neighbors that will continue to look out for him.
Thanks again for all the support you offered which helped make my journey easier too.
April 27th, 2015  
glad to have you back. sit back and relax for a few days. you need the rest, too!
April 27th, 2015  
@summerfield Not sure if I am coming back! Definitely still in the Toy Group but the rest is up in the air for now!
April 27th, 2015  
so pleased your dad is doing well
April 27th, 2015  
@annied thanks, me too!
April 27th, 2015  
:-(
April 27th, 2015  
You're a great daughter Katy. Your Dad is blessed to have you.
April 27th, 2015  
@grammyn My father and mother had a similar relationship and my mother's early passing took a lot of wind out of my father's sails. But thankfully his grandchildren, family, faith and friends helped him to not give up early. Sounds like your father has a fantastic support system-especially with a daughter like you!
April 27th, 2015  
@tara11 ;~} thanks, Tara!

@olivetreeann That sounds quite familiar to our situation. Thanks Ann!
April 27th, 2015  
Nice to hear your message, Katy! Your words are true and uplifting - there are so many in similar situations!
April 27th, 2015  
@grammyn Nice to have you back and glad your father is doing well.
April 27th, 2015  
Good to hear from you. Your dad sounds like a pillar of strength! Thank goodness he has you to help support him in this difficult time!
April 27th, 2015  
@grammyn So glad your dad is doing ok, and has such a wonderful community to belong to.
April 27th, 2015  
Thanks Katy for the update. It's very fortunate that he is transitioning and that he has a loving daughter and supportive living community. I'll have to follow toy group to get you in my feed, so I'll head over! Take care. Loves ya. D
April 27th, 2015  
wow, 69 years amazing!!! glad to hear that he's coping!
April 27th, 2015  
What a beautiful young lady! xxxxxx
April 27th, 2015  
Great news that your dad is coping so well. And I hope you'll take some time to look after yourself as well. Thanks for the update.
April 27th, 2015  
Thank you for the update...Stay strong and best wishes to you and your family.
April 28th, 2015  
@grammyn sounds like your dad is in a great setting. I'm so happy he seems to be adjusting . Life can be so hard but it is so precious .
April 28th, 2015  
So sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with you
April 28th, 2015  
@grammyn Again, I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom. So glad you were able to spend a month with your Dad and made sure he is ok too. I am sure that meant a lot to him as well. It is hard to lose a loved one or parent to an illness like your Mom was dealing especially in the advanced stages when so much care is necessary and not knowing anyone at all occurs. Lost my Dad at that point in a nursing home. Thoughts and prayers remain with you.
April 29th, 2015  
Oh Katy, I am so sorry. I wish you peace and the most wonderful memories. Hugs lovely cx
April 30th, 2015  
Katy, I am so sorry to read this. Sending prayers to you and your family. What a beautiful photo of your mom.
May 3rd, 2015  
I've been absent here on 365, so just seeing this now.
May 3rd, 2015  
@nanalisarocks No worries. Lisa. Thanks for your kind words and prayers. I am just coming back too.
May 3rd, 2015  
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