Firing Up the Grill by darylo

Firing Up the Grill

That's my grill I'm playing with. Honestly, I came up with the concept minutes before attempting it, and because I have had a little success with fire in the past, it did not take long for me to know what aperture, what ISO, what shutter speed--in fact, this time, I did it without thinking; I took three shots and this was the first take! Focus, yes, could be better, but in a matter of seconds, I threw my camera on a tripod, kept the backdoor light on so I could do an "approximate" focus (my food was on there cooking and I didn't want brick steaks), then cut the light, hit the button, and boom, a night fire shot.

Now, how come the flames are there? Was I TRYING to ruin dinner? Nope. Because the shutter was open, I had some leeway to get in the shot (quickly as not to really BE IN THE SHOT). I took spray olive oil, ran over to the grill just after hitting the shutter, and shot a spritz. Flames went up, and then boom, boom, DONE.

And so was dinner--one of our favorite meals: steak, rice, and kale chips.

(feel free to stop reading--for personal retrieval later)

Today, I have some celebrations:
1. My uncle who was all last week in the ICU for bacterial meningitis AND pneumonia has just entered a rehab clinic, and it looks like he will recover (it's been a very rough week for my family up there--he was unresponsive for at least 2 days). He's a miracle man. I'm so thankful he's going to pull through. He's been such a powerful influence on my life!

2. I officially finished all "work" items -- education consulting contracts, done. Tutoring, done. School Governance stuff, done.

3. My children are almost done with school and my freshman looks like she will finish her first semester with all A's. That's phenomenal considering her schedule--I was never, and still never will be, a brain like both of my children. I'm the flighty, never-makes-money, but Jill-of-all-Trades kind of gal.

4. My cousin's birthday is today (daughter of my uncle) and she's such a gem. My uncle's birthday is tomorrow, so what a gift.

Something I mourn:

My aunt's mother died Tuesday and I found out today. So while I'm excited my uncle is going to be ok, and my cousin is turning another fabulous year, I'm sad for my aunt because honestly, she's a rock. You should meet her--she's what I call an all-time woman idol. I think I've worshipped her from the first moment I met her. She's so smart, so talented, so fun, so wicked capable. I can't go into it here (you just have to trust all my multiple "so's"), but I mourn the loss of her mother, especially during such a rough time emotionally and physically with these weeks running into each other. Her mother would have been 100 in a few days.

Sorry for the long narrative fusing together photography technique with the news of my family. Last year, on the 21st of December, just before our holiday party, we received notice that my mother-in-law fell in Mexico--she didn't survive ultimately, but there were days of not knowing where the wind would turn. My December seems overshadowed with that experience. I'm on edge, waiting for something to come my way that will send me reeling again, and I know that's illogical. But my body reacts like olive oil on flame. Boom.


Mmmm, I can smell it. Sorry about your loss.
December 19th, 2014  
Amazing night fire shot!

Wishing you a much better December than last year! It is kind of straddling the fence right now.
December 19th, 2014  
NICE!!
December 19th, 2014  
excellent shot, I like it a lot
December 19th, 2014  
Very cool!
December 19th, 2014  
Awesome capture!
December 19th, 2014  
@amandal @cbell @graemestevens @kwind @susanalena Thanks very much! @grammyn I hate straddling, and I hate leaning toward anything that looks like last December--all I can say is it was a nightmare. I know this is not the same. So I'm more optimistic. It's my body that says, "run!"
December 19th, 2014  
Clever to use the olive oil. Your photo turned out really well.
December 19th, 2014  
Awesome shot, and it sounds like you have an amazing family!
December 19th, 2014  
Fantastic capture of fire! Love the contrast against the black.
December 19th, 2014  
This shot is HOT!
December 19th, 2014  
Fantastic shot. Great narrative. So glad your uncle will be okay. My youngest son had bacterial meningitis when he was 5 months old. I hear ya about life throwing curve balls. Let's hope you have a quiet period for a bit.
December 19th, 2014  
Relax, Daryl - life happens! Everyone has to go through the difficult parts and you just can't avoid them! But things that make you smile are good for you - this photo is one!
December 19th, 2014  
Fabulous image! Thanks for telling us how you did it! So pleased your uncle recovered! What a time you have had. After the terrible shock of last year it's easy to see why you are tense. But you can't spend your life anticipating the bad times - they will happen at some point but you have to live each day celebrating the good things and Darryl you have so many good things in your life! Relax and enjoy this Christmas time! Fav for your fire!
December 19th, 2014  
This image looks like a box shot for some kind of BBQ product... good. Family problems and ill-health... normal perhaps, but not so good. Be strong and take each day as it comes.
December 19th, 2014  
You have so much going on at the moment, the good and the bad. Great shot of the fire. I'm impressed how quickly you can take this shot!
December 19th, 2014  
@danette @maggiemae @pamknowler @vignouse @888rachel I try to balance things. Last year was so stressful and alien (literally being in a country with no real direction/limited language capabilities/knowing I'm doing a monumental task in 4-5 days), and I can't help that an auto response kicks in, but I'm in balance. Thanks for the words of encouragement. I'm really glad I am not ending my second year on Dec. 31. The pressure is off. I'll used Jan. 21 as a way to celebrate the end of 365 and the beginning of turning 50, come what may. I'll keep swimming. :)
December 19th, 2014  
Hi Daryl, I read your comment on Taffy's birthday page and wished that you could be with us, too. Then I came to your page, saw that fabulous flaming, and thought, "Look what we've all learned to do in these past two years. We can do some things automatically now!" As I began reading your narrative, I instantly recalled your unexpected trip to Mexico last year, and see that yes, your Decembers are filled with emotional ups and downs. Here's to more ups than downs . . .
December 19th, 2014  
I am new to your story, but feel for you, having lost a dear brother last year. We who are left behind can only hold those who are gone in our memory and those still here in our arms and our hearts. Kindest wishes for 2015
December 19th, 2014  
Fabulous shot! What a difficult week you had, hope your pulling through and can have some great hollidays!
December 19th, 2014  
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