Living Out of a Suitcase by taffy

Living Out of a Suitcase

I've so appreciated your wonderfully supportive comments, even knowing I can't respond that often. I can't believe how fortunate I am to have "met" so many of you from all over the world, interacting with you every day, some of you for almost two years. You've been so supportive!

This photo is actually from the Railway Museum at the Cairns train station where I caught the train to Kuranda last month. A metaphor for what it feels like at the moment. P3 took his turn tonight and posted an introduction to the toy-group at http://365project.org/365toygroup/365/2014-11-13

Fire Saga Report, good things first:
1. We have a place to live! It's quite beautiful, with view of the city on three sides, and near the university and our house.
2. The insurance company is hiring a company that unpacks all the rented things and sets up the house so it will be ready by the end of the work day, including making the beds and hanging bath towels - yay!
3. We have three contractors coming tomorrow to see the house and potentially make a bid as general contractors, all come highly recommended and seemed really nice, so it's just a question of 'good fit.'
4. I was able to spend some time at the university for some meetings and calls, nice to feel normal.
5. My replacement camera body arrived (because of the oil on the sensor problems that kept recurring) and I realized how good it was that my 'good' camera was off being repaired and has had no exposure to smoke or heat or water.
6. We're moving to Junko @jyokota and Bill's for the weekend so will be in a comfy house instead of hotel room, and be with friends (though Junko's still in Japan).

Not so good things:
1. BIG DANBO HAS GONE MISSING!!!!!! Yes, I realize this is a toy, that it is replaceable, but it's my Danbo that I saved from the fire and carried in my pocket to the hotel and now he is nowhere to be found. I feel just awful and just hope I put him somewhere to be safe and just can't remember where. But, Little Danbo and P3 were right on the dresser where I'd put them -- and the three had been together in the same pocket. AGH!
2. On a much lesser scale...we learned it's a minimum of 6 months for rebuilding our house so are now looking at least at next May before we'll be back home.
3. On a still lesser scale, I realized I left my tripods in the house when we had time to pick up a few things, and now they've been taken away for cleaning and storage so it could be next May before I see them again. Dumb!
4. I have a company meeting on Saturday and still haven't found any slacks or skirts among the cleaned clothes. Not good...may have to fit in shopping which at the moment is not appealing.

If you've gotten this far, thank you again for your comments and kind wishes and hugs and warm thoughts and funny observations and shared stories. They mean so much. Off to sneak in some viewing and commenting for a feeling of a normal night!
hang in there!
and for the record. i LOVE this image.
November 14th, 2014  
oh Taffy - hope all is ok but pretty awesome suitcases
November 14th, 2014  
Oh, wow, this does not sound good! I've been away from 365 for the last several days...sending warm wishes your way, This is a wonderful photo!
November 14th, 2014  
Just hang in there,Taffy-is there any way i could help,donate or give something-i'll be glad to share-give me ur PO box address if u have -let me know.
November 14th, 2014  
This is a super image Taffy. Just wrap a towel around you as a skirt and you'll be fine. I'll just bet that no-one comments on it (at least to your face). Bummer about the tripods and where, oh where, can Danbo be?
November 14th, 2014  
Oh, so many good things! I LOVE your insurance company, setting the place up for you completely! That's amazing. And views from 3 sides - you might have an influx of 365 visitors now. Sorry about big Danbo, do hope he turns up when things have settled down. Big hugs and fav!
November 14th, 2014  
@joemuli That is so sweet of you to offer, Joey, but really, we are in fine shape given the situation. We are totally covered by insurance and we will bet settling on a contractor soon. Once we are out of the hotel and into our temporary condo, we can get our clothes that survived delivered. Compared to so many who lose their homes, we are fortunate in the support system that we have. It's emotionally hard, but I know -- in my head if not my heart -- that this is just a blip and all will be normal hopefully by next May or June. And our temporary housing is so beautiful that we are being teased now that we won't want to return home. But thank you so much for caring!
November 14th, 2014  
I feel Jim might have some practical Christmas pressie ideas for you... a girl can never have too many tripods :) Hope big Danbo comes out of hiding. Love the image of these old cases, very moody lighting xx
November 14th, 2014  
This is a super b& w image with great lighting! The cases look like they've been abandoned... So glad things are moving along so quickly and you'll be settled in a comfortable temporary home in the next couple days.
November 14th, 2014  
Nice image of these old cases,
November 14th, 2014  
A super b&w shot. So sorry to hear what you have been through and wishing you well.
November 14th, 2014  
What a great metaphor the image is. Glad the temporary accommodation is so good. I reckon big Danbo is scouting out new locations for you.n. Just look after yourself. Having to shop for clothes, how awful, I feel for you!!!
November 14th, 2014  
Such a poignant image knowing your story and very fitting in b/w ! Best wishes Taffy - hope things will improve for you all !
November 14th, 2014  
Oh my, this truly gives perspective for my trivial worries! Hang in there taffy! Yey for good news and oh no for Danbo. I´m sure he will turn out somewhere!
November 14th, 2014  
Fabulous image Taffy - so poignant at this time!! Lots of good things so that must be helping a little. Wow your insurance company sound fantastic - I never realised you could get such service. Mind, you do get what you pay for and you said you had good insurance - a lesson for us all I think!! Poor Danbo I hope he turns up and then he can tell us of his new adventure!! I am glad you will be comfy this weekend and with friends - just what you both need!! At least your new home sounds wonderful and it will give you lots of new photo opportunities!! Yes I think Jim should see your Christmas list with tripod on it!! Take care and keep safe!!
November 14th, 2014  
Taffy it's really moving to read each of your descriptions, and makes me realize how life changes so quickly. Fortunately you're healthy and even if it hurts, they are replaceable and material.
November 14th, 2014  
I have never been so grateful that my flirtation with a fire was just a smokey pan. I hope Big Danbo wasn't frightened and ran away. No complaining today about the weather because that just seams so trivial.
November 14th, 2014  
Sam
You have a great positive attitude Taffy - you will sail through this episode and be a much better and stronger person for it :) Take care!
November 14th, 2014  
It's is so nice to hear all the positives your finding in this time! The temporary place sounds lovely with the great view :) and how wonderful a company takes care of the decorating and stuff! Hope you find big Danbo very soon! The shot is beautiful and really fits the mood at the moment!
November 14th, 2014  
it's interesting how quickly one gets accustomed to the extraordinary. testament to human adaptability. hope you Danbo shows up.
November 14th, 2014  
Great shot. Sounds like the good well outweighs the bad for you.
November 14th, 2014  
Great B&W - well spotted! I am amazed at how fast things seem to come together for your temporary accommodation - so glad for you!
November 14th, 2014  
Great b&w
November 14th, 2014  
great shot. i hope things work out!!!
November 14th, 2014  
This is a fave, for sure! Sorry to hear about your fire. I haven't been on 365 a lot lately because of other obligations. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
November 14th, 2014  
Such an apt shot with you having to move around. I am really sorry to hear of your misfortune - it must really knock the stuffing out of you.

Hope you manage to settle in your temporary accommodation soon.
November 14th, 2014  
I love your shot Taffy. Just saddened its a metaphor for life now. Enjoy, if you can, the warm embrace I am sure Junko's home will bring you. Sit and luxuriate in the warmth, safety and peace I am sure you will find there. Shopping. I oh hate shopping. Well I do for clothes. Am I odd? I am still tripod less but its on my ever growing ever desiring wish list!! I bought a new bag this week. A new handbag. The main feature of this new handbag had to be that it secretly was a camera bag so that I can "pop" my camera safely away with my purse, phone and keys. Anyway minor diversion of point. You sound amazingly positive and full of perspective. Keep going Taffy.
November 14th, 2014  
Thanks for the update.
November 14th, 2014  
Love the shot and B&W is such a good choice for it. You are being so positive about your situation but I'm sorry about Danbo. I'm sure he'll turn up. Glad your temporary accommodation is so good and your insurance company sound great. It's still very hard for you though. Keep going!!
November 14th, 2014  
Vee
So sorry to hear of your situation, Taffy. Here's hoping that things will only get better! Take care.
November 14th, 2014  
A very apt image.Pleased things are working out for you in the short time.Hope you find big Danbo,too!!
November 14th, 2014  
Excellent shot
November 14th, 2014  
Love these old suitcases and so appropriate at the moment.
November 14th, 2014  
Love the suitcases. I'm glad you're philosophical about the whole fire thing and you will eventualyy have a new house to move back into. Dambo will be somewhere. Take care
November 14th, 2014  
Glorious tones and shadows!
November 15th, 2014  
The suitcase shot is great- but here's the crazy thing. There is a gal from my camera club who is moving to a smaller place and will no longer have room (and due to health issues as well) for her 3 tripods. She wants to give me one and to get rid of the others. Would you like me to ask her if she'd like to donate one to you while you wait for yours to be cleaned? I know her taste- I'm sure they're good. They may be "older" so heavier than the ones out now- but I'm sure they're in excellent shape. She used to work for the Fashion Institute of NYC before retiring so it's not lightweight equipment. Anyway, I think she'd be thrilled to help a fellow photographer out. So let me know if you'd like me to talk to her about that. Our meeting is next Tuesday (the 18th). As for Danbo, I do hope he shows up- it's funny how those little things can mean so much.
November 15th, 2014  
Great suitcase photo, thanks for updating us on your progress. Glad you found the toy!
November 15th, 2014  
Just love it! Great in b&w image!
November 15th, 2014  
@olivetreeann Wow -- fate! I'll keep you posted...I've asked if they can locate mine and pull them out of storage once cleaned, but if they can't, this would be wonderful and I'd be glad to pay for shipping. That's so nice of you to think of me.
November 15th, 2014  
I love this photo and how it fits with what you are dealing with. But even without that, it is an awesome shot! I sure hope Big Danbo shows up soon!
November 15th, 2014  
@taffy Sounds good. I know Narlene would rather they get used than sit somewhere collecting dust.
November 15th, 2014  
A lovely simple image that tells a story Taffy. So pleased there are some positives heading your way. Take care now :))
November 15th, 2014  
Oh Taffy, I really feel for you. This all sounds just so awful for you. Wish I could do something concrete for you, but Australia Post probably wouldn't cooperate! Terrible news about Danbo though; as if you didn't have enough problems. I do hope you find him. I realise this is probably a silly offer, but if there is something I can do, please ask.
November 15th, 2014  
@golftragic Sympathy helps! And back at you as well!
November 15th, 2014  
@newbank Funny reading your comment about shopping, Ruth. I actually borrowed a dress for tomorrow's meeting from my former student who came in for it (she's leading it thank goodness!), and that way I didn't have to find the time to pick something out. She even brought me something she had that she thought had a 'taffy look' which was fun for me to see as she's about three decades younger!
November 15th, 2014  
@taffy You can have all of my quota of that Taffy, I just wish we could've met up while you were here. All going well on my/our front, Monday is a big day. Watch your email.
November 15th, 2014  
@golftragic thoughts of you all and glad to hear you didn't need to do shopping taffy!
November 15th, 2014  
AC
I just love this photograph!
November 15th, 2014  
Great shot!
November 16th, 2014  
Sounds like you've got everything under control...as much as possible...and the insurance company is looking after things. The months will fly by and soon you'll be back home.
November 16th, 2014  
Wonderful capture to portray your current living situation. FAV
November 16th, 2014  
My first thought upon seeing this wonderful photo of vintage suitcases was, "Oh dear! I certainly hope this marvelous collection wasn't damaged in the fire!" (And so it wasn't!) Reading through your lists, it struck me how it is when fires rage through California neighborhoods and people speak of "grabbing what's important..." You seldom hear, later, what was overlooked or forgotten... "A Tripod"...available for purchase, of course, but you spoke of multiples already... It's the little annoyances in the aftermath...

Since I wrote my first note, and you said you've found it interesting to read of the stories f others, you might find it "interesting" to read that "my fire" began when a paint stripper I used (carefully) on some art projects, had slipped on a shelf, switching the toggle on and the heat against a shelf of paper ignited the fire! When we can sit and chat someday, I'll share more of that "rather incredulous" event as it unfolded... My friend, Melinda, visiting, is a published landscape architect/photographer, so she got all the photos and a good chat with the firemen!! As for myself, the imagery is seared in my brain to this day! And so it will be with you...
November 16th, 2014  
I am so sorry that you are going through so much. I cannot imagine it at all. I think it is great that you are journaling things here and posting as well. So glad your friend let you stay there rather than a hotel and Yay for a new place to stay until yours is done. Thank goodness your insurance company is taking such good care of you and your husband and so many details. I find that comforting as they did the same when we were broken into. Makes a huge difference. Love your photo, Taffy. Take care.
November 17th, 2014  
Glad to hear you have a place to live! Wonderful shot, love the tones.
November 18th, 2014  
OMG, I have been reading backwards to see why you now live with that gorgeous view and see that there was a fire. I am so sorry. I have been mia for a few days so didn't know. Lots going on. I am glad you are ok and that the only casualty is big danbo, who can really be replaced in time, if you desire.
November 23rd, 2014  
My heart goes out to you. You do an amazing job documenting and reflecting on your present circumstances, even in the face of great loss.
November 23rd, 2014  
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