Conflicted over Christmas...... by thedarkroom

Conflicted over Christmas......

As a Christian, I celebrate the birth of Jesus at Christmas but the rest I hate more each year. The consumerism, greed, pressure to overspend and the increasing expectations around present giving I find very difficult. This Christmas was particularly hard as it is the first with neither of my parents alive. So, as is always the case, when conflicted or in doubt I turn to nature. This is a Christmas Rose (Helebore) given to me by a friend and I love to see these delicate blooms. Posted by @365anne
I am so sorry for the loss of your parents.
December 28th, 2023  
FAV what a stunning photo, Anne Like you. I am conflicted for many of the same reasons. I am sorry for your loss because that makes the holidays even more painful. @365anne
December 28th, 2023  
@365projectorgchristine Thank you Christine, my mum died 20 years ago and my dad just recently. The “firsts” after a bereavement are always the hardest
December 28th, 2023  
@grammyn Thank you Katy, yes, the first year after a bereavement is always the hardest with each “first” as it happens
December 28th, 2023  
Beautiful
December 28th, 2023  
Terrific detailed capture of your beautiful hellebore. I agree with what you said. And they start so early displaying all the stuff that by the time the holiday actually arrives, I have to remember to quit tuning it out and remember the true meaning.
December 29th, 2023  
Lovely capture of the flowers. Sorry for the loss and it does make the season difficult and painful. Let others engage in the consumerism. They have more problems in their life than Christmas.
December 29th, 2023  
Beautiful photo. Condolences
December 29th, 2023  
@365projectchristine @joansmor @shutterbug49 @randystreat @briaan Thanks for taking the time to comment and for your lovely words. My mum died 20 years ago but dad died recently, as you all say - it is tough at this time of year.
December 29th, 2023  
What a lovely way to be festive without the commercial trimmings. Sympathy on your losses: I hope the New Year brings you many blessings.
December 30th, 2023  
@granagringa Thanks for your kind words Madeline. May 2024 be a good one for you
December 30th, 2023  
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